dude your right not only with babies more blacks got hiv/aids than whites i think its probably cos blacks are hotter and corrupt than whites am not trying to be racist here its the fact BLACKS ARE REAL BAD.
Posted: at 10-06-2008 05:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Point of corrections that only happen in Europe, Asian, American, and other parts of africa inculudeing 9ja but except ibo gurls watch it out our gurls na baba i trust them
Posted: at 11-06-2008 10:00 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
tunnytox at 13-06-2008 11:11 PM (15 years ago) (m)
in some cases some of these women in the UK were actually living alone at the consent of their husbands in Nigeria, the motive behind it is that after some years home office will give their children some concessions and grant them British passport....my view is that at the end, most of these women with their husband not around will always live a reckless life.. people are doin a lot of unbelievable things in UK and Ireland..... at the end these children not being with their father and with their mums not having enough time for them joined gangs and became nuisance to evryone..what i don't understand is why some people think getting British Passport at all cost especially in such manner is their ticket to heaven... its really a terrible situation and a shame on men who dump their wives in europe to be devoured by 'wolves' while they too have their liberty to live a reckless life in Nigeria at the end a lot of them will regret their action as most of these children even with their british Passport will never know them and they'll just be back to square one.
Posted: at 13-06-2008 11:11 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
yea,the no of babies witout father is increasing.and it's kind of suprsing for black gals.mostly ,it's the mixed raced gals.but white girls are worst.most of all dis gals hv dis babies cos they dont want to continue their education ,they want to get child support and a house of their own.
Posted: at 14-06-2008 11:31 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Sometimes its not their faults..they had babies with trifflin men who didn't want a child in the first place, but after the baby is born..they go Awol...
Posted: at 14-06-2008 02:38 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
naijainct at 14-06-2008 02:51 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: fattbussy on 10-06-2008 02:53 PM
why is it that many african ladies are wth babies without fathers in dis uk, pls who is impregnating them. G
Its not only in the west. Its everywhere......I was born and raised single handedly in Lagos by my mother. In my case my father was simply irresponsible. Me and my brotha haven't seen him in 25 years cos he came to America and never came back home. So the men are to blame. We guys have to take up responsibilities and be there for our kids and women.
By the way, what do u guys think I should do to my father? He's been living a lie in California. He has wife and kids who doesn't know he was married once. When I came to America and called him his reaction to me was.....'how did u get here'? He never bothers to call me or even try to see me probably because he wants to keep his secret. Do I go to California and break the ice or just let him be??? Your input to this would be highly appreciated. Thanks y'all.
Posted: at 14-06-2008 02:51 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
wow, this is really hard for real. But i would advice based on what i would do..I will attempt to try once more to talk to him, but if he doesn't reply..then you should break the ice to his other family cuz there's no reason he should be keeping you a secret. They have the right to know about his previous life no matter what. Infact i would make that known to him that you're proceeding to expose him if he doesn't cooperate with you. And then from there you can leave him alone cause he'll be the one needing you one day when he can no longer care for himself, or probably need some type of health needs. But you should not be kept a secret..you're human and a part of him too.
Posted: at 14-06-2008 02:59 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
naijainct at 14-06-2008 03:04 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 14-06-2008 02:59 PM
wow, this is really hard for real. But i would advice based on what i would do..I will attempt to try once more to talk to him, but if he doesn't reply..then you should break the ice to his other family cuz there's no reason he should be keeping you a secret. They have the right to know about his previous life no matter what. Infact i would make that known to him that you're proceeding to expose him if he doesn't cooperate with you. And then from there you can leave him alone cause he'll be the one needing you one day when he can no longer care for himself, or probably need some type of health needs. But you should not be kept a secret..you're human and a part of him too.
Thanks for that piece of advise.. I've been tempted severally to call him and cuss him out but my mother wouldn't hear of it cos the poor woman still cares for him. I think I might make a trip to California someday. He doesn't know I have informations about him which I bought off US search.
Posted: at 14-06-2008 03:04 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming