HELP: Is It Wrong For Me To Get Married To My Late Sister’s Husband!??

Date: 23-01-2014 5:50 pm (10 years ago) | Author: franel
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- at 23-01-2014 05:50 PM (10 years ago)
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«§» 23 January 2013

I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. My late sister's husband wants to marry me.

I am in my late 20s and have been living with my elder sister’s family for over ten years.



Sadly I lost my sister two years ago and have been of help to her husband by taking care of my three nieces. As a result of the closeness and always being around my sister’s husband is getting used to my company.

He has been taking me out for romantic dinners and outings and eventually proposed marriage. He often tells me he sees my sister in me, and loves the way I care and show love to my nieces which I think it’s natural to show love to relatives notwithstanding if they are dead or alive.
Now he needs my positive answer so as to inform my parents back in the village about his intentions.
 
I’m very confused and cannot seem to come to a decision. Is it a taboo? Don’t even know what next step to take. I need your advice?

Posted: at 23-01-2014 05:50 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
- dickman2 at 23-01-2014 06:30 PM (10 years ago)
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but why your late sister husband..men no dey town again..abi na u kill your sister ..
Posted: at 23-01-2014 06:30 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bigtoto_1 at 23-01-2014 06:37 PM (10 years ago)
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Useless ashawo like u  mtcheeeeeeeeew
Posted: at 23-01-2014 06:37 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- freeway001 at 23-01-2014 06:40 PM (10 years ago)
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Its bad don't do it, if u have being practicing it please  stop today, ur children will ve to rival ur sister s children and u will be a suspect forever.  Look 4 a better man out there.    Have  you got moral ? Hope you do my sister.
Posted: at 23-01-2014 06:40 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dickman2 at 23-01-2014 06:51 PM (10 years ago)
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for sure the man don dey sleep with her..
Posted: at 23-01-2014 06:51 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Oyinminijoor at 23-01-2014 07:00 PM (10 years ago)
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Mtcheww Senseless! Must it be the man?no other Man world wide again?keep confusing yourself
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:00 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- k4short2 at 23-01-2014 07:04 PM (10 years ago)
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Pls take freeway 001 advice n live long n íη  peace
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:04 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- emekaeneh at 23-01-2014 07:30 PM (10 years ago)
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Don't do it
Eneh say so via nokia 3310
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:30 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- elmatado at 23-01-2014 07:32 PM (10 years ago)
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guy stop this nokia 3310 annoying comment... fool
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:32 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- beneno at 23-01-2014 07:48 PM (10 years ago)
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shame no just dey catch the both of una at all. no let people go dey suspect say na u or your sister husband kill your late sister o.TUFIAKWA  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:48 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MaryCynthia at 23-01-2014 07:55 PM (10 years ago)
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Don't do it if u really love those niece of urs cos once u give birth wit d same man u will start to hate dem so find love else were
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:55 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Chericoco at 23-01-2014 07:56 PM (10 years ago)
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You're not even ashame to mention something like this. You or your late sister,s husband must have something to do with your sister's death. You're a disgrace and your sister must be rolling in her grave. Ewu!
Posted: at 23-01-2014 07:56 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Chylove247 at 23-01-2014 08:00 PM (10 years ago)
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U beta be serious
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:00 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chicco77 at 23-01-2014 08:08 PM (10 years ago)
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hmm ewanta
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:08 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chicco77 at 23-01-2014 08:08 PM (10 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:08 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- fidel2luvgi at 23-01-2014 08:26 PM (10 years ago)
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it is no taboo but does ur concience support that. will u 4 life treat ur sister's kids with the same kind of treatment u will give ur own? are u ready to live ur sister's life 4 life? are u thinking on this base on love 4 the people involved or is it pity? these are just few of many self examining questions that will drop u at the right conclusion. JACOB in the bible married two sisters. u are not taking ur sister's husband, rather u may be saving those kids from possible future child abuse.
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:26 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Wysetots at 23-01-2014 08:32 PM (10 years ago)
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Unfortunately.....we're in Africa, we're bound by traditions.

He felt attached 'cos you created that room.....DO YOU NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND??

If you portrayed yourself available......sure he's lonely and longing for comfort......he'll make a move at you.

Don't do it......for your respect and the peace of your future.
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:32 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- osamabinladin at 23-01-2014 08:35 PM (10 years ago)
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Nsogbu !
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:35 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- esmaeel4u07 at 23-01-2014 08:51 PM (10 years ago)
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My sister there is nothing wrong in it.my Religious did not forbid it.and is nt a tabbo.u are saving ur sister kids ni jare
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:51 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- esmaeel4u07 at 23-01-2014 08:51 PM (10 years ago)
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My sister there is nothing wrong in it.my Religious did not forbid it.and is nt a tabbo.u are saving ur sister kids ni jare
Posted: at 23-01-2014 08:51 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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