Sex Before Marriage: 5 Good Reasons Why Every 'Nigerian' Couple Should Do It! (Page 3)

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Posted: at 31-01-2014 10:52 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

una dey crazy..

Posted: at 1-02-2014 12:40 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

This is true.. Its the major problem that usually arise in Marriage... Sex is a great superficial phenomena that brings everything we do as partner together in relative.. This means that we get marry to have good sex.. And when the sex is good and enjoyable, other issues in companionship will be guaranteed.. The other way round, When the sex is not enjoyable, both partners live to be miserable even when they think they are happy.... What if she gets into marriage and discover the deficiencies of her husband? Sex before marriage is 99% advicable

Posted: at 1-02-2014 02:32 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

No Nigerian couples or any couples are to made love before getting married.  Fornication will breed many other unforeseen problems and start the marriage out on a bad foundation.   

1.  Chemistry.  If it happens, as it possibly has with the poster’s example, still all is workable inside their marriage; if the couple just look at themselves and do what is best for them.  Stop looking at others and what they think might be happening with other couples.  Things are not always the way they look or seem.   When two people get married, the husband is suppose to delete all other vain imaginations of other women from his mind and the wife is suppose to delete all other vain imaginations of other men from her mind and NOT having sex before marriage makes it easier to achieve.  It may take some time but a husband striving to please his wife and a wife striving to please her husband, they both can be taken care of without faking anything.
2.  segxwal Identity.  It is written in scriptures that homosegxwality is an abomination.  I use to believe it was mainly a choice conscious or unconsciously but after witnessing many testimonies, there seems to be an evil spirit behind the perverse behavior. How or when the evil seed got planted though, I do not know.  I don't believe it's the not made love before marriage that is an issue.  We are to seek godly advice, and even more so God's advice about a life partner.  God will definitely tell a person, if they ask him, about the person they hope to marry. 
3.  Sex Itself.   Many times it may not be the actual sex but other issues like selfishness, pride, impatience, insensitivity, etc. that may be major hindering factors.  If the couple is thinking about each other then they will reach their own special place together.  Keep your private matters between husband and wife, as it is to be this way.  Husband and wife are to cover each other, not publically shame one another.
4.  Size.  I don’t have much to say other than, if you love your partner and you are committed to your marriage, make it work.
5.  segxwal Issues.  If any segxwal issues should arise, take them to God first and seek medical solutions if necessary.  What if no segxwal issues were present when the couple married but developed years into the marriage?  Having sex before marriage, is still not the best.
The poster says that sex is an important part of marriage, as like other parts and it is true.  It is also true that God rewards purity in marriage.  Fornicating or having sex before marriage starts the marriage off on a negative foundation.  Who is to say having sex before marriage is not a contributor to the rampant transferring of the spirit of lust, ungodly soul ties, strange women/men in marriages and so many other demonic influences.  If one chooses to made love before marriage, then one is choosing to be disobedient to God’s word.  Disobedience gives satan access to enter into our life, marriage, family, etc.

Don’t be deceived!

bless you!!thank u so much 4 dis!!!

Posted: at 1-02-2014 06:54 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 1-02-2014 07:54 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

na true u talk

Posted: at 1-02-2014 10:21 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

S.H.I.T talk

Posted: at 1-02-2014 11:15 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Posted: at 1-02-2014 12:13 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

No matter the level of sinful pleasure, enjoyment and Worldly satisfaction in this world, one day in hell fire is enough to forget all these worldly and sinful pleasure and enjoyment.

No matter the level of  pains, sorrow, denial, endurance, self control and purity in holiness, righteousness and for the sake of God in this world, one day in heaven is enough to forget all the pains, sorrow, denial of this world.

Posted: at 1-02-2014 12:29 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

so, u pple are subtracting and adding to d words of d Lord almighty? 

Posted: at 1-02-2014 03:31 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac