when i was growing up i had this girl in my neighborhood that i fell in love with even as a teen but i couldn't tell her then because i had no courage,i realize that i was always jealous if i see her playing with other teens around.we relocated to a different city so i lost contact for over ten years only for me to visit the city after those years to find out that she was married to a son of an elite and had two kids for him, my heart was broken,when i visited the next time i met with her and she told me she was having problems with her marriage and she moved out,to my greatest surprise she told me she has been in love with me all this while and that she is still in love with me,i reminded her of her marriage and her kids she told me it was not going to work out between them anymore,am still in love with this lady,if we start this affair is it going to be adultery?please advice me
Posted: at 17-08-2009 10:25 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
erikaakpan at 17-08-2009 10:34 PM (15 years ago) (f)
poster...wats meant for u is gonna be for u....if she said her marriage is having problems and its not gonna work out then let her and her husband sort things out first b4 u get ur self in this fiasco...after she gets her things in order then u can do watever u wanna do....just dnt involve urself with her since shes already married
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 17-08-2009 10:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
when i was growing up i had this girl in my neighborhood that i fell in love with even as a teen but i couldn't tell her then because i had no courage,i realize that i was always jealous if i see her playing with other teens around.we relocated to a different city so i lost contact for over ten years only for me to visit the city after those years to find out that she was married to a son of an elite and had two kids for him, my heart was broken,when i visited the next time i met with her and she told me she was having problems with her marriage and she moved out,to my greatest surprise she told me she has been in love with me all this while and that she is still in love with me,i reminded her of her marriage and her kids she told me it was not going to work out between them anymore,am still in love with this lady,if we start this affair is it going to be adultery?please advice me
Unless shes leaving her husband, yes its adultery. Sorry u both were too chicken to act on ur feelings when the time was right.
Posted: at 17-08-2009 10:41 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
erikaakpan at 17-08-2009 10:47 PM (15 years ago) (f)
i dnt kno y ppl wait until the last minute to confess there love......if it was me, no matter if im married or anything i would want the guy to tell me his feelings
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 17-08-2009 10:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
erikaakpan at 17-08-2009 11:02 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: gabon on 17-08-2009 10:56 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 10:47 PM
i dnt kno y ppl wait until the last minute to confess there love......if it was me, no matter if im married or anything i would want the guy to tell me his feelings
I love you erikaakpan. ...............I dont wanna wait for the lasttt minute
hahahahahaha gabon...y u tell me now? I love ya too!!!!!!!
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 17-08-2009 11:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ceejay58 at 17-08-2009 11:37 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: gabon on 17-08-2009 10:56 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 10:47 PM
i dnt kno y ppl wait until the last minute to confess there love......if it was me, no matter if im married or anything i would want the guy to tell me his feelings
I love you erikaakpan. ...............I dont wanna wait for the lasttt minute
sorry too late....... she's taken. u can check d next room...
Posted: at 17-08-2009 11:37 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
erikaakpan at 17-08-2009 11:38 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: gabon on 17-08-2009 11:15 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 11:02 PM
Quote from: gabon on 17-08-2009 10:56 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 10:47 PM
i dnt kno y ppl wait until the last minute to confess there love......if it was me, no matter if im married or anything i would want the guy to tell me his feelings
I love you erikaakpan. ...............I dont wanna wait for the lasttt minute
hahahahahaha gabon...y u tell me now? I love ya too!!!!!!!
eerikaakpan thank God say you love me too.......................... so coome lets see na
come see wat?
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 17-08-2009 11:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ceejay58 at 18-08-2009 01:19 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 10:34 PM
poster...wats meant for u is gonna be for u....if she said her marriage is having problems and its not gonna work out then let her and her husband sort things out first b4 u get ur self in this fiasco...after she gets her things in order then u can do watever u wanna do....just dnt involve urself with her since shes already married
Posted: at 18-08-2009 01:19 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Pster....things happens for better or for worst but every disappointment is always a blessing. let her and her husband agree on wht to do. u can always b there for her. Just let her come out of it herself. wat will b will must surely b.
Posted: at 18-08-2009 02:45 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
ironlady at 18-08-2009 05:39 AM (15 years ago) (f)
@poster its not an adultery if they divorced and u confirm it urself not mouth divorce oo court divorce then u can marry her meanwhile wat is it she n her husband are disagreeing on they should solve it jare their marriage is premature
Posted: at 18-08-2009 05:39 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
As the saying goes "DESTINY IS NOT CHANCE,I IS A MATTER OF CHOICE AND IT IS NOT TO BE WAITED FOR BUT IT IS TO BE ACHIEVED"so my boy if you are really into this girl,then be by her to help her take this important step.Good luck all the way from Ghana
Posted: at 18-08-2009 05:47 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
erikaakpan at 18-08-2009 03:17 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: gabon on 17-08-2009 11:15 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 11:02 PM
Quote from: gabon on 17-08-2009 10:56 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 17-08-2009 10:47 PM
i dnt kno y ppl wait until the last minute to confess there love......if it was me, no matter if im married or anything i would want the guy to tell me his feelings
I love you erikaakpan. ...............I dont wanna wait for the lasttt minute
hahahahahaha gabon...y u tell me now? I love ya too!!!!!!!
eerikaakpan thank God say you love me too.......................... so coome lets see na
GABON!
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 18-08-2009 03:17 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
when i was growing up i had this girl in my neighborhood that i fell in love with even as a teen but i couldn't tell her then because i had no courage,i realize that i was always jealous if i see her playing with other teens around.we relocated to a different city so i lost contact for over ten years only for me to visit the city after those years to find out that she was married to a son of an elite and had two kids for him, my heart was broken,when i visited the next time i met with her and she told me she was having problems with her marriage and she moved out,to my greatest surprise she told me she has been in love with me all this while and that she is still in love with me,i reminded her of her marriage and her kids she told me it was not going to work out between them anymore,am still in love with this lady,if we start this affair is it going to be adultery?please advice me
wot God put together let no man put asunder..... she is still married....wot ever u do now is a serious sin.
Posted: at 18-08-2009 03:19 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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