Leadership speaker and Senior Pastor of Daystar Christian Centre, Pastor Sam Adeyemi, while preaching on "Prepaper for the wedding", on Sunday March 16th, shared his opinion about women proposing to the man and also gave insight on how they can go about it. Below is what he said "Some people may ask, Pastor is it okay for it to be the lady that will tell the guy about marriage? Well, is there anywhere in the bible that says a lady can't tell a man? The thing though is, a lot of time, it's better for the guy to pop the question because men become suspicious a lot of time when they are being chased. They like to eat meat that they chased in the bush. They don't like the one that falls on their lap dead. However., sometimes, all the signs are there that she is the one but he is not just speaking. Its also not healthy for the lady emotionally for the man to be so close to her and yet not say anything. So in such a case, a lady needs to prod him. So how can a lady go about it? Ask him where are we going? I sense this is where the relationship is going, what do you think? Its either a yes or a no, but with that, you know where you are going instead of being on an emotional roller coaster and your heart is smashed into pieces at the end of the day". Pastor Sam supported his position with the story of Ruth in the Bible who was taught to propose to Boaz whom she eventually married according to Ruth Chapter 3 in the Bible. He however emphasized the need for women to apply uttermost wisdom when proposing to a man. Maheeda is at it again, check this out
Posted: at 24-03-2014 02:43 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
wolexbookie at 24-03-2014 03:28 PM (10 years ago) (m)
tell dem pastor
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dickman2 at 24-03-2014 10:31 PM (10 years ago) (m)
not in Nigeria oooh..naija girls propose guys ..for where..who go pay for the fast food ..story..not in Nigeria..some dey shy to talk man ..not to talk of propose..if woman propose to man for naija ..them go come her ashawo ..
Posted: at 24-03-2014 10:31 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dondada4040 at 24-03-2014 11:52 PM (10 years ago) (m)
Abeg I de look for person Wey go propose to me, even pay my groom price. If you like shout ride on pastor, if you try it in naija, people will say you are desperate, the ladies should protect their pride abeg.
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daveobahon at 25-03-2014 05:47 AM (10 years ago) (m)
Abeg I de look for person Wey go propose to me, even pay my groom price. If you like shout ride on pastor, if you try it in naija, people will say you are desperate, the ladies should protect their pride abeg.
read wat d pastor said again I swr nobody will say u re desperate infct sum ladies ve been doin it d lady will not evn mention marriage evntho tats wat in her mind pls bro read well b4 commenting.he did not say d gal shud ask d guy will u marry me?
Posted: at 25-03-2014 05:47 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac