CAN U BE FRIENDS WIT UR EX?

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at 06:38 AM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)

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if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol

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yemmight at 12:03 PM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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You can still start a new relationship if both agree.  Sometime you have break in relationships and its just natural you come back 2gether.  I have seen  a lot of it.

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Buddyflex at 01:48 PM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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It is ok to be friends with your exes.
just be sure of the kind of friendship so you can draw the lines on where not to cross.
But if it is a come back thing, take good time to make sure that's what you want.
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onyin at 03:46 PM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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yea.thx.cos ma friend rlly needs sum help.lol.
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Besito at 04:07 PM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 06:38 AM,  2/07/2008
if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol

Since you know you still love your ex, it's probably a bad idea, especially if you will have an unspoken desire to get back together.
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typicalman84 at 05:26 PM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Nah!!! I have a rule. If i haven't slept with herbefore or if we broke up on good terms, then yes. If not, thats' a NO NO!!!

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vincenice at 07:12 PM, 2/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 06:38 AM,  2/07/2008
if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol

yah guys do change, and we can be friends again but no love.
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meczytimber at 02:19 AM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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i laff. do ya know why?
cos am in this shit and i dont know what to do. we broke up in peace bt the issue is; am trying to love another lady ?


pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
tell me what to do.

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barbie7 at 10:27 AM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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y not,c ow ud u can handle it,if u cant.........u l have to learn,it will help if u s friends cos u will have to accept the fact ts nofn than fwends...atm,m friends wit ma ex bfz,it dont change me.
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iziomo at 11:42 AM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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 Smiley Sure I can be friends with my ex, why? people meet to part and part to meet again and be good friend
we breakup does not mean we should be enemies. No matter what happened between us with time I'll forgive and move on.. after all life is all about give and take and in most cases we might be better off been great friends than lovers.
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olatunde1024 at 01:20 PM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Capital YES.A friend is always needed to be a soulmate,a comforter and confident.So old friend is better than new.Never drop ur friend in the trash,becos u might need to lean on him or her one day.
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Vixenx at 04:55 PM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 06:38 AM,  2/07/2008
if ur ex shows up after a long time wit a let's be friends policy.can u be friends wit them.mostly,when u kn u still love the person.is it a stuipd idea to say yes or no?.i mean after the bad relationship u had wit tht person.hw wuld u kn if person has changed?.do guys ever change?.lol

I think you can but depends on how the relationship ended. Even with a bad ending u can still mend your friendship with that person in the long run..It's gonna be difficult to do right away..but once you've pulled yourself together, then i think you can start to form some type of friendship. People do change..and the only way is if they want the change themselves..and if u still love that person even after the break up..you can try again through the friendship and see how it goes from there. Grin Wink
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onyin at 08:42 PM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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for her,she loses control.lol.she can't stay wit him in one room witout thinkin  about kissin him.
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vincenice at 09:42 PM, 3/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 08:42 PM,  3/07/2008
for her,she loses control.lol.she can't stay wit him in one room witout thinkin  about kissin him.

datz sweet to hear Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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onyin at 12:42 PM, 4/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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lol.
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chikamama at 07:12 AM, 8/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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I´m a friend to my ex, we must be friends cause of our Daughter. But even if we will not have an Daughter we will be friends, cause i think the time that we spend into our relationship will be waste if we will not understand our self now. But first we Fight and than we sattle. (He was my first love)
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lucychizzy at 07:25 AM, 8/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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what a cute and lovely baby you got there
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ruchyna at 10:06 AM, 8/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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it all boils down to maturity on both part, i believe that people who are not in speaking terms with their ex are afraid  of renewing their relationship.Its actually a two way thing, some relationship might have ended badly and in such situation they prefer to remain enemies.
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vivaappah at 02:30 PM, 8/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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whts wrong in that?
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vincenice at 02:44 PM, 8/07/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ruchyna on 10:06 AM,  8/07/2008
it all boils down to maturity on both part, i believe that people who are not in speaking terms with their ex are afraid  of renewing their relationship.Its actually a two way thing, some relationship might have ended badly and in such situation they prefer to remain enemies.

remember relationship dat end badly has sweet memories.
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