anything wrong for woman to finance marriage? (Page 2)

Date: 16-09-2009 4:10 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Lexy
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- yakubuarome at 18-09-2009 02:51 PM (14 years ago)
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U become a BABOO...MONKEY... infact Speechless in d house. GOD FORBID..I PASS DAT LEVEL
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- McBona at 20-09-2009 06:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lonelysnow on 16-09-2009 04:10 PM
Is anything wrong with the woman to finance marriage if the man dont have money?

There's nothing wrong with that at all.     Just that the Man will be ready to be a slave.
Posted: at 20-09-2009 06:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- idahosaa at 20-09-2009 03:39 PM (14 years ago)
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if the woman pays, means she is the boss
Posted: at 20-09-2009 03:39 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 20-09-2009 06:59 PM (14 years ago)
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DUNNO

Posted: at 20-09-2009 06:59 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- arsenal1 at 21-09-2009 12:02 AM (14 years ago)
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Marriage has to do with two people in it,so it has to be a decision of the two of them...Though it is wrong for a woman to totally finance a marriage,there is no respect in that..MAN GET YOU MONEY BEFORE YOU GO INTO MARRIAGE SO THAT YOU CAN HAVE A SAY IN YOUR HOME OK?
Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmanuel4christ at 21-09-2009 12:13 AM (14 years ago)
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Hmmmm 2 heads are better than one the man should contribute to it but the lady can take the big part of it if she is finacially okay.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 12:13 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humble02 at 21-09-2009 01:58 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lonelysnow on 16-09-2009 04:10 PM
Is anything wrong with the woman to finance marriage if the man dont have money?

REALLY BASE ON DIFFERENT UNDERSTANDING AND INDIVIDUAL CARACTER'S.
THERE IS SOME ADVANTAGE AND DISADVANTAGE.
1) IF SHE 95% CIVILIZED. THAT'S OK
2)BUT IF NOT. REALLY THE MAN I RENDERING HIM SELF TO THE SLAVERY MARRIAGE  FOR EVER.
SALLING HIS RIGHT TO THE WOMAN. REPLACING A POSSITION OF WOMAN INSTEAD OF MAN. WHICH A TABUR, A SACRILADGEE NOT EVEN A SACRILADGE AN ABOMINATION. UNLESS IS WAS MADE CODED WITHIN THE TWO PARTIE'S NOT TO DISCLOSE THERE FACT WITHIN THE OUTSIDE WORLD AFTER THEM.
3)AND THERE IS MANY CULTURE WHICH WILL  REGARD THE MAN AS PREMATURE HUSBAND.
WHICH IS A VERY BIG INSULT TO THE MAN PERSONALITY AND RESPECT WITHIN HIS FOLLOW MARRIADE MEN.

IF THAT BE THE CASE. IN REALITY A MAN IS NOT MADE TO BE MARRIADE BY A WOMAN, EVEN THE BIBLE CONDEM IT FROM THE OLD. WHICH IT'S HAVE THE ANCIENT LANDMARK. RIGHT FROM THE DAY OF THE CREATION OF EARTH.

BUT WISE AND UNDERSTANDABLE PARTIE'S HAVE A DIPLOMATIC WAY'S OF DOING IT CODED. WHICH WILL PURTREY THE MAN AS FIRST THE KEY SPONSOR WITHIN THE OUTSIDE WORLD BUT ONLY THE TWO KNOW THERE SECRITE.

THANKS



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- stanijomah at 21-09-2009 03:38 AM (14 years ago)
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Well I guess isn`t a bad idea if a women assist in taking care of the wedding but in that case that doesn`t mean the man will not contribute. So those ladies waiting for the man to sponsor everything are not ready to get married because if you love your man and respect him, you wouldn`t expect him to run everything alone when you know he doesn`t have much. As you continue to wait somebody else who will volunteer to take care of hers will take him away and you will continue to wait till eternity.
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- xter at 21-09-2009 03:46 AM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmm

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- stanijomah at 21-09-2009 04:30 AM (14 years ago)
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I want to correct one impression, ladies get this into your brain that nothing last forever, for the fact that your man has no money at present doesn`t make him a lazy or handicap man. So if you really love him, I see no big deal helping out .
Posted: at 21-09-2009 04:30 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 21-09-2009 04:40 AM (14 years ago)
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ok

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- kley44 at 21-09-2009 06:38 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 17-09-2009 02:48 PM
Quote from: yemochi on 17-09-2009 02:44 PM
Hell no! finace all?  no way!

why is he a man?except if the lady is forcing him to marry.
common marraige is a lifetime commitment why would she finace all, let the man own up and fulfil his part
what about his family. the guy might even resent the lady in the future if she finaces all

the lady should help but definitely not carry all the responsibilities, It takes two to tango Roll Eyes Roll Eyes


Hehehehe, Yes, true talk Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 21-09-2009 06:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- lonelysnow at 21-09-2009 07:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: stanijomah on 21-09-2009 04:30 AM
I want to correct one impression, ladies get this into your brain that nothing last forever, for the fact that your man has no money at present doesn`t make him a lazy or handicap man. So if you really love him, I see no big deal helping out .
hope the ladies will hear u out.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 07:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 21-09-2009 07:40 AM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmm

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- ezecyyyy at 21-09-2009 11:43 AM (14 years ago)
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I fill that financing a wedding we be the desire of every chic that is finacially okay,there is nothing wrong in a chic to finance her wedding,  if she understands.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 21-09-2009 12:16 PM (14 years ago)
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no be only chic na eagle

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- princessplat at 21-09-2009 01:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Personally i think that the man should decide to have a wedding wen he is ready to deal with the expense and all. but if the man and woman agree even wen they don;t have enough funds they if they are gree she can finance for her wedding. I personally would not like doing it . its a matter of discussion between the two parties.
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- Toks-E at 21-09-2009 02:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lonelysnow on 16-09-2009 04:10 PM
Is anything wrong with the woman to finance marriage if the man dont have money?

emmm, it depends on the circumstances dat made the man nt to have cash

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- bexbone at 21-09-2009 11:11 PM (14 years ago)
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if you cannot finance your own marriage my brother leavan it is not yet your time.
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- lonelysnow at 21-09-2009 11:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ezecyyyy on 21-09-2009 11:43 AM
I fill that financing a wedding we be the desire of every chic that is finacially okay,there is nothing wrong in a chic to finance her wedding,  if she understands.
i see
Posted: at 21-09-2009 11:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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