Chris & Anita Oyakhilome’s Divorce: 7 Key Marriage Lessons For Married Couples

Christ Embassy’s President and First Lady are on the verge of ending their marriage. At this stage, it will take divine intervention for a reconciliation.

A Christ Embassy church member identified as Jenny Doris recently itemised 7 key marriage lessons to learn from the messy divorce case.

Read it below:

1. Never Deprive your spouse with attention, Love and affection. These Three ingredients are necessary in every relationship.
2. Never Leave Your Role As A Wife To Housemaids Or Personal Staffs Even If Your Husband is a King Or a Pastor.

3. Never Encourage Long Distance Relationship In Your Marriage. Work Hard To Make It As Short As You Can If You Have To. Never Neglect Your Spouse Thinking that Money Can Keep Her Warm At Night And Play Fatherly Role To Your Kids.

4. Celebrate Every Occasion With Your Family~ Christmas, Sallah, Anniversaries, Birthdays etc. And Don’t Forget To Celebrate Your Spouse In Every Given Opportunity You Have.

5. No Matter How Holy Ghost Filled And Tongue Talking Christian You Are, Listen and Apologize When You Are Wrong And Make Amends Before Your Marriage Breaks. Make Changes On Time, When You See It Is Not Working.

6. Court Is Not A Solution To Family Problems, The Solution Lies In The Spouse. If Only The Spouse Can Reduce Their Pride And Ego And Accept Their Wrongs and Make Amends On The Areas That Are Not Working, They Will Live Happily Ever.

7. Never Forget To Recognise Your Wife As The Most Important Being In Your Life After God, And Never Forget That Your Husband Is The Most Important Being In Your Life. That’s Why Michelle Obama Is Always Beside President Barrack Obama.

A successful marriage requires tolerance, understanding and effective communication.

Save yourself the shame and save your marriage, the earlier the better.

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Posted: at 12-09-2014 07:32 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

 

Posted: at 12-09-2014 11:00 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

 

Posted: at 12-09-2014 11:51 AM (10 years ago) | Hero

Rev. Anita's Team member have spoken. Points taken madam.  All is well.

Posted: at 12-09-2014 07:16 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

That is very true, God is not a confused God, after God it is your wife and husband then children even  before church comes up, if you cannot control your home then how can you control the church, most men of God fails to realize that a good church starts or is a product of good families coming together, this brings us to the need for an effective family altar where all family members   comes together to pray for the common good of the home, we are not to judge but by their fruits we shall know them. i pray for peace in their homes but if they break up then we should count our teeth with our tongue.

Posted: at 12-09-2014 08:37 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

may the good Lord heal their marriage again because with God all things are possible

Posted: at 13-09-2014 08:47 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

the best comment i ever  met about this you are just a psychologist  your Christianity runs in your blood keep it up

Posted: at 13-09-2014 09:01 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie

The problem is that we have many preacher that arè ñot doing what they preach, to preach is easy but to do is hard but we have a merceful God.
May God show them his mercy

Posted: at 13-09-2014 10:19 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

bro that is why Jesus said, do what they said,but not as they do

Posted: at 13-09-2014 10:54 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

What a great lessons we have learnt from this shaky marriage. Now Let us pray for Chris and Anita, Lord do not allow this marrige to break for the sake of  your gospel, arise in their midst and let your enemy be scattered, your word says, every plant not planted by you must be uprooted, uproot every plant the devil has planted in their lives and reunite them once again and take the Glory in Jesus name we pray...

Posted: at 13-09-2014 09:12 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming