What should i do?

My story start: I've been dating this guy for the past two years but i never understand him, i sometimes asked myself if this guy is serious with the relationship but i never find answer to it up till this moment.I make the calling,i do the talking n i even sacrifices all what i have into the relationship,but still this guy never makes me feel he's dating me. We grew up togeda,i know his friends, n all his family, but no doubt that i love him more than i felt he loves me. I've mjavascript:void(0);et guys after that have introduced me to their family n they are even planning with me, but i never love them as i love this guy i'm talking about.Three months ago,when i met another guy i left the first guy and i concentrated on the new guy which i felt i could i give a chance but he is a real cassanova. I spent my money,i give him food,n shower gifts on him so as to satisfy this guy but he has never appreciated me for once neither is he making me happy.I still love this first guy but i dont know how to tell him that i what us to come back n do as we've being doin before n even to shappen all what have went wrong before.Please i need your urgent reply.javascript:void(0);   

Posted: at 14-10-2009 05:50 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

come to me for get them all

Posted: at 14-10-2009 08:54 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

Well, u can call on the guy and let him know u ove him... if u wish to marry for now, plan a marriage with him and see.. but if he doesnt love u, forget about the love u have for him.. coz u will never happy in the nearest feature.. so bring yourself down, never shower cash the way u do before and look for aother guy.. i bet you u will find the right one.. alot of guy out there are to taste material things and ran away.. so act as if if there no stuff, but there love.. i wish u can understand me better..

Posted: at 14-10-2009 10:29 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

y do u choose to go to the first guy, after u left him? nd u claim u love him


abeg, women..una wahala too much


msscceww

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Posted: at 14-10-2009 02:10 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

see wetin u dey yarn for mouth? u love him and u still left him.........e be like say na him dick u enjoy pass the 2nd guy if not u wont........................

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Posted: at 14-10-2009 07:28 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

abi

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Posted: at 14-10-2009 07:37 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

personal advice is the key

Posted: at 14-10-2009 11:54 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

I appreciate your contribution,but do you think this guy that always kept mute to himself will forgive me for all i've done ,inspite of not telling him that i'm no longer interested in him again before he later got to know by himself dat i'm dating this new guy at all?. And even if he accepts my apology, do you think he will change cos i've known him for who he is for a long time now with this behaviour of his?. Please if it is you,will you accept my apology and go on with the relationship?.

Posted: at 15-10-2009 03:05 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

my dear, according 2 all u 've said it seems to me that u re more financially stable than all the guys u dated. so ask i what's ur behavior towards them especially ur first guy. do u always put to it to them that hey boy u know am the boss here? cos no matter how a man claim to love u, he 'll never warm up to u and 'll alwayz be pissed off if u re always and constantly reminding him that if it were not 4 ur money or ur position he wont be where he is. and mind u, perharps u might not have said it with ur mouth. yet, there re so many wayz u could be passin out such massages without realizing it. so u ve got 2 search urself dear.  secondly re u the one who ask them out, as in the first move? cos some men alwayz view any lady who try to make a pass at them as bn wayward and as such might never take her seriously no matter how much love u shower on them.  so dear u ve got 2 do a lot of soul searching here. ask urself wat do u really want in a r/ship? and do u want a one way traffic kind of r/ship, where only one person have to bear it all?  the onions of a long lasting r/ship is happines 4 both parties, trust, tolerance and a willingness to 4give completely and unconditionally.  so do u think that going back to d first guy 'll make u happy? that u wont be disgraced?  i 'll sincerely suggest u put ur past behind u and move on with ur life. i can assure u the that right guy 4 u, i mean someone who 'll truly appreciate u 'll certainly show up someday.  anywayz wateva u decides to do i wish u the very best.

Posted: at 15-10-2009 05:53 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

hmmm, dat's a real pathetic story, better guys are difficult to come by, but with prayer and wisdom u get to find one, Who knows the better guy is the one posting this comment. so take ur time and look b4 u leap.

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Posted: at 15-10-2009 11:32 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac