Love is Not Mechanical!

I have a big problem, and I I'm turning to you for assistance and advice.

 

I have been maried for one year to a good man. My problem is that ever since we got married, we have been unable to do what married people do. I am not sure why this is happening.

 

At the beginning of our marriage, we kept trying, but as the process failed, my husband almost lost interest in me. Whatever I did, we didn't try anymore. I try to get him to try again, but he shows little interest. My husband is in good health, and was checked before marriage, so he does have a problem. I'm not sure why, but we just can't do it. We are both very attracted to each other, but I'm worried this failure will affect the relationship. I want to know what I should do to make it work.

 

I also want to know if this continues, if there is a risk to the success of the marriage. Is he going to hate me or lose interest in me. I'm prepared to do anything to make him happy and make it work. The problem is that it is very difficult for him to come with me to a doctor to discuss this issue. I cannot ask him to do that. It is not soemthing that is easy to discuss this issue with others face – to – face. We are having a problem finding the right position that enables the process to succeed. He is healthy because everything in him works – this is noticeable in the mornings. So what should I do. Please give me detailed advice on what to do because I fear I might lose my husband. It hurts me so much to see him not interested in me. I cry a lot, and it seems to upset him. He doesn't know why I'm upset, because I can't tell him, as it will hurt him badly. I don't know what to do.