just curiosity 4 the guyz leaving outside 9ja....... why do they hav relationship with non nigerian women ? and they will use them n dump them and the sad thin their everywhere this days.... with their sweet talk they will take advantage of girls who r not nigerians with lots of promises and later they will disapper to marry their own.
Wht is in their mind? how can we protect ourself frm them n to be strong as their own women sorry but their like virus these dayz...lol any advice will help
Posted: at 16-12-2009 08:32 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
dirtykid at 17-12-2009 12:03 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Well all men cant be the same.. if i may ask, what do u have to say abt alot of single parents all over Western world/America and so on ?? is that also caused by Nigerian men's abroad ??
Most problem's in such issue u stated here are been caused by women. i have a friend in such situation currently. i can give u details if u want to know more. dont point it to all Men ...
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Posted: at 17-12-2009 12:03 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
just curiosity 4 the guyz leaving outside 9ja....... why do they hav relationship with non nigerian women ? and they will use them n dump them and the sad thin their everywhere this days.... with their sweet talk they will take advantage of girls who r not nigerians with lots of promises and later they will disapper to marry their own.
Wht is in their mind? how can we protect ourself frm them n to be strong as their own women sorry but their like virus these dayz...lol any advice will help
l guess the Culture raises us up to be more Comfortable with our own
l think same thing happens with Foreigners, yur men always prefer marrying their own Women
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Posted: at 17-12-2009 12:14 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dirtykid at 17-12-2009 12:31 AM (15 years ago) (m)
U asked how to protect urself.. U dont need any protection, becos the men arent gonna kill yo. what u should do is learn to know wht the man u re in love with or going out with actually want. this culture of a thing is very wide btw Europeans and Africa entirely, so once any foreigner been a citizen of any country and decide to settle with an outsider someone who is not from ur part of the world. U must be ready to learn alot to suit this person in gradually to ur own system. if u dont play this role well, and started showing that ur made of some thick skin like most Europeans do. believe me that relationship will never workout to last.
I tell u one reality, most women never realise that the power of good relationship is in their hands. the way u channel ur man, is how he will respond back to u. treat him right, he will always want to come home to u. treat him bad, u will loose him to outsiders, espcially the type of men who dont like to argue but take actions quickly.
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Posted: at 17-12-2009 12:31 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
We come from different cultures, and the Nigerian guy is used to being in charge. So he wont really be comfortable with de foreigner who is supposed to be his equal. It will only take him some time with the girl to realise this.
Hey, I didnt mean to say that......slip of tongue
Posted: at 17-12-2009 04:10 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
just curiosity 4 the guyz leaving outside 9ja....... why do they hav relationship with non nigerian women ? and they will use them n dump them and the sad thin their everywhere this days.... with their sweet talk they will take advantage of girls who r not nigerians with lots of promises and later they will disapper to marry their own.
Wht is in their mind? how can we protect ourself frm them n to be strong as their own women sorry but their like virus these dayz...lol any advice will help
i dont ur are right many nigeria i have seen marry no nigerian women,expect those who are on contract bases and duly define,it may interest u that nigerian are well culture people only married base on character and homely,the way to protect urself is to be good woman and understand that man is the head of the family as a woman
Posted: at 17-12-2009 05:06 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
@ poster, U can protect u'r self by abstainning u'rself from the relationship once u realise he is a Nigerian...., cos It will do u a favor for not being the one left out for another woman from the man's country. Secondly, u should remember that most of these problems are caused by ladies who would not like to relocate with their man should he decide to move down to his country. I have a friend who got married to a gurl from another country but now divorced; the problem was a stereotype thing about Nigeria which was her reason to refuse travelling to Nigeria with her man..... cos she don't want to be kidnapped or suffer in Nigeria .
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Posted: at 17-12-2009 06:48 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
just curiosity 4 the guyz leaving outside 9ja....... why do they hav relationship with non nigerian women ? and they will use them n dump them and the sad thin their everywhere this days.... with their sweet talk they will take advantage of girls who r not nigerians with lots of promises and later they will disapper to marry their own.
Wht is in their mind? how can we protect ourself frm them n to be strong as their own women sorry but their like virus these dayz...lol any advice will help
it's a sin to stereotype....i'm sure u hv been sleeping wit non-nigerians b4 ur encounter. if u hv been taken for a ride by someone...dont blame it on naijas in diaspora...get over it! who says every fling must end in marriage. dont go opening ur legs to men cos of according to u "their sweet mouth".... think wit ur brain not wit wot is between ur thighs....
Posted: at 17-12-2009 06:56 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 17-12-2009 09:32 AM (15 years ago) (f)
wow ! @ topic....same goes to non nigerians... an average italian man will love to marry an italian woman bt will always want to get down with nigerian girlz... serzly...every 1 is comfortable with "his own "
Posted: at 17-12-2009 09:32 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
I do understand all men r the same but some of u may not understand the question very well.... i don't blame nigerians men.
If some of you who lives abroad most common countries tht is happenig china, dubai, malaysia, uk n us we hav men frm different part so as women.
Most of men happn to be nigerians who r mostly there for business and they will go for non nigerian women and hav relationship which never last n repeatedly do the same to different women.
Am sayin this due to my reserch doesn't mean it happen to me....and most women like nigerian i must say ....but why can't they be honest to the women they meet and am not say to a fling...some women hav been in a serious long relationship with them to the extend of having a baby without knowing the man already has a wife back home.
Again am not pointin this to nigerian men only but the majority.....
Posted: at 17-12-2009 10:42 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
poster i understand u as well ,something those people that date nigeria guyz and culture women,while some are above 4oyrs,some are single mother or diverocee,the used it to keep body and soul togather,nigeria have away of life..u dont expect an avery nigeria to marry single mother or diverocee
Posted: at 17-12-2009 06:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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and they will use them n dump them and the sad thin their everywhere this days.... with their sweet talk they will take advantage of girls who r not nigerians with lots of promises and later they will disapper to marry their own. 
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