why are so many successful black women single (Page 2)

Date: 26-12-2009 5:35 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- humblej at 26-12-2009 11:14 PM (14 years ago)
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There are many reasons, but most among them all is the atittude one...

Posted: at 26-12-2009 11:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 26-12-2009 11:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 26-12-2009 10:10 PM
women get problem well ..wether rich or nt

No b small.. there own too much.

Posted: at 26-12-2009 11:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- esoo at 26-12-2009 11:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Black women are too proud......they fill that they know it all.....thats why are will remain single with no kids or born without marriage...in the USA the most crime record review that the black children that commit that crime are from single mothers...........they should change their mentalities
Posted: at 26-12-2009 11:24 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ksurrina at 27-12-2009 12:20 AM (14 years ago)
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Black women with qualifications need to look outside of their requirements as what Steve Harvey said. Don't look at a man for his qualifications or his salary package. Look at the man for who he is and his ability to make you comfortable and the home well loved. Looking outside the box sometimes yield good rewards.

Posted: at 27-12-2009 12:20 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 27-12-2009 12:50 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 27-12-2009 12:20 AM
Black women with qualifications need to look outside of their requirements as what Steve Harvey said. Don't look at a man for his qualifications or his salary package. Look at the man for who he is and his ability to make you comfortable and the home well loved. Looking outside the box sometimes yield good rewards.



I hope they will hear this and apply.

Posted: at 27-12-2009 12:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- landerbrother4u at 27-12-2009 01:21 AM (14 years ago)
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EVERYBODY HAS THIER OWN OPINION ABOUT  MARRIAGE ....EDUCATION  MEAN A LOT,...  IT SHOULD BE EYES OPENER  TO  EVERYBODY....WOOOMAN ARE GOING TOO FAR TO HAVE THE HIDHEST EDUCATION AND CARIER.  YOU CAN NOT HAVE  IT BOTH ONE HAS TO HAVE WEIGHT THAN OTHER....MOST OF THIS WOMAN ARE TOO PROUD  IS JUST LIKE GIVEN THEM  POWER THEY WILL MISUSE THEM....PEOPLE DONT KNOW THAT TIME GOES SO FAST, THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING FOR A WOMAN....AMERICAN WOMAN ARE VERY PROUD WHEN THE GET THAT EDUCATION....WHEN THEY HAVE CARIER, DURING ALL THIS TIME TIME WILL BE GOING ON THEM. THIER BEAUTY WILL BE SLOW GOING OUT OF THEM....THE US.GOVERMENT HAS ALOT  QUESTION TO ANSWER ABOUT THE POSITION THEY PUT THIER MEN IN THEIR COUNTRY..  GOOD   BLACK MEN  ARE LOCKED  FOR LIFE BEFPORE THEY GET TO THE AGE OF MATURITY. THERE TOO MANY CHOICES ....THEY WANT TALL MEN BIG SHOES SIZE, THEY WANT MAN THAT CAN HAVE  SEX FOR HOURS  NON STOP....THEY DONT WANT  BABY MAMA  PROBLEM....ASK THEM HOW MANY US BORN AMERICAN THAT DONT HAVE CHILDREN OUT OF WED LOCK....ALL THIS WOMAN DEMAND FOR WHAT THEY CANNOT GET.. THAT IS WHY THEY MARRY THIER CARRIER AND SLEEP WITH THIER POSITION.....MIND YOU  MEN WILL COME AND GO AND THEY WILL LOOSE ALL THIER BEAUTY PRETY LEGS ....AT THE AGE OF 40 WITHOUT A GOOD MEN....THERE A LOT OF   GOOD   SUCCESSFUL  BLACK MEN  OUT THERE BUT THEY ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGHT FOR THEM. BECAUSE THEY HAVE  IT ALL...TIME WILL GO ON THEM...   BALCK .FAMILY ARE NOT TOGETHER TO GIVE  THIER CHILDREN BETTER  HOME TRAINING...WHEN THEY REALLY NEED  THEM...THEY LET THIS CHILDREN GO WHY THEY STILLNEED TO BE HOME ....LET THE BILLIONAIRE  OPPRAH TALK  ABOUT HER OWN LIFE TO ALL THE WOMEN COMING BEHIND. 
Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:21 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- landerbrother4u at 27-12-2009 01:27 AM (14 years ago)
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EVERYBODY HAS THIER OWN OPINION ABOUT  MARRIAGE ....EDUCATION  MEAN A LOT,...  IT SHOULD BE EYES OPENER  TO  EVERYBODY....WOOOMAN ARE GOING TOO FAR TO HAVE THE HIDHEST EDUCATION AND CARIER.  YOU CAN NOT HAVE  IT BOTH ONE HAS TO HAVE WEIGHT THAN OTHER....MOST OF THIS WOMAN ARE TOO PROUD  IS JUST LIKE GIVEN THEM  POWER THEY WILL MISUSE THEM....PEOPLE DONT KNOW THAT TIME GOES SO FAST, THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING FOR A WOMAN....AMERICAN WOMAN ARE VERY PROUD WHEN THE GET THAT EDUCATION....WHEN THEY HAVE CARIER, DURING ALL THIS TIME TIME WILL BE GOING ON THEM. THIER BEAUTY WILL BE SLOW GOING OUT OF THEM....THE US.GOVERMENT HAS ALOT  QUESTION TO ANSWER ABOUT THE POSITION THEY PUT THIER MEN IN THEIR COUNTRY..  GOOD   BLACK MEN  ARE LOCKED  FOR LIFE BEFPORE THEY GET TO THE AGE OF MATURITY. THERE TOO MANY CHOICES ....THEY WANT TALL MEN BIG SHOES SIZE, THEY WANT MAN THAT CAN HAVE  SEX FOR HOURS  NON STOP....THEY DONT WANT  BABY MAMA  PROBLEM....ASK THEM HOW MANY US BORN AMERICAN THAT DONT HAVE CHILDREN OUT OF WED LOCK....ALL THIS WOMAN DEMAND FOR WHAT THEY CANNOT GET.. THAT IS WHY THEY MARRY THIER CARRIER AND SLEEP WITH THIER POSITION.....MIND YOU  MEN WILL COME AND GO AND THEY WILL LOOSE ALL THIER BEAUTY PRETY LEGS ....AT THE AGE OF 40 WITHOUT A GOOD MEN....THERE A LOT OF   GOOD   SUCCESSFUL  BLACK MEN  OUT THERE BUT THEY ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGHT FOR THEM. BECAUSE THEY HAVE  IT ALL...TIME WILL GO ON THEM...   BALCK .FAMILY ARE NOT TOGETHER TO GIVE  THIER CHILDREN BETTER  HOME TRAINING...WHEN THEY REALLY NEED  THEM...THEY LET THIS CHILDREN GO WHY THEY STILLNEED TO BE HOME ....LET THE BILLIONAIRE  OPPRAH TALK  ABOUT HER OWN LIFE TO ALL THE WOMEN COMING BEHIND.  
Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:27 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ifyGod at 27-12-2009 01:43 AM (14 years ago)
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@ 25_vivi,wht do u know abt marriage?
Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:43 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- 1ola at 27-12-2009 01:47 AM (14 years ago)
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As a Nigerian abroad, you only get good women at home that you can be proud of and who are really wife material, who are ready to stay with you come sun come rain. nearly every lady abroad, to my knowledge most Nigerian women abroad are so arrogant, greedy because they are abroad, they always think they have arrived, that is why everywhere abroad there is almost 70%  single women among Nigerians.
The ladies at home, are 100% better, but some of them also when they arrive abroad they change for the worse instead of the better, and most men regret taken their wives abroad.  What we need to ask howself is why is the marriage working in Nigeria among Nigerians and not overseas?
Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:47 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ifeyemi5 at 27-12-2009 01:52 AM (14 years ago)
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the problem is not black women alone,the problem is if a woman have money more than a man,the man may feel bad.and if the womanis not up to the standard the man excepted its a problem too.most of us young people of nowadays we dont know what we want,what love is.love is caring,patient,faithful.its for better for worse.not only when the only whedn the person have money or not,looks good or not.
Posted: at 27-12-2009 01:52 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- landerbrother4u at 27-12-2009 02:11 AM (14 years ago)
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AGAIN,  LIKE I SAID  , THEY WANT CAREER AFTER  THAT WHAT ?  THEY ARE LOOKING  FOR POSITION...AFTER THAT WHAT ELSE? THE POSITION OF MEN WILL BE  THERE FOR EVER REGARDLES IF THEY ARE HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT... WOMEN WANT TO BE IN CONTROL..  CONTROL OF WHAT?..BECAUSE THEY HAVE POSITION AND CAREER THEN NO MEN ARE QUALIFY TO TALK TO THEM....THEY ARE ARROGANT,  VERY  PROUD, THEY DEMAND FOR WHAT THEY CANNOT GET IN MEN....THEY ARE LOOKING FOR MEN WITH GOOD CREDIT....THEY ARE LOOKING FOR MEN WITHOUT CRIMINAL RECORD....100% BEHAVIOR, THEY WANT  THE ONE THEY CAN USE THIR POWER. POSITION. EDUCATION, CLASS TO CONTROL  BOSS AROUND THE HOUSE....  MADAM  CAREER, MADAM POSITION, MADAM WELL EDUCATED, MANAGING DIRECTOR, GO TO THE  HOLY BIBLE TO FIND OUT THE LAWFUL POSITION THAT GOD GIVE TO A MAN...YOU WILLFIND OUT....YOU CAN USE YOUR POSITION , MONEY TO BUY A MAN THAT ARE NOT AS QUALIFY AS YOU MARRY THEM AS A HUSBAND MIND YOU REMEMBER THIS IS A MAN IT WILL NOT LAST LONG BEFORE HE TELL YOU HIS POSITION IN THE HOUSE....YOU HAVE TO RESPECT HIM, FOR WHO HE IS....HE WILL WALK OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT LOOKING BACK....HE WILL TELL  YOU TO MARRY YOUR    TO  YOUR  MONEY AND CAREER  ....THE POSITION OF   BLACK  MEN  WITH CAREER  IN THE UNITED STATE  ...ARE NICE AND BEAUTIFUL...THAT IS WHY THEY DONT MARRY  THE BLACK WITH GOOD CAREER AND POSITION BECAUSE THEY WILL BE THIER BOSS IN THE HOUSE THEY WILL BE CONTROLLING THIER MEN LIKE A SLAVE MASTER...WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN THE BEST, LOVE THEM, SHOW THEM HOW TO SETTLE WITH LESS AND WORK IT OUT GRADUALLY TILL YOU GET THERE.... BOTH  OF YOU CAN HAVE CAREER TOGETHER....GET ALL YOUR EDUCATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND....RESPECT HIM AS THE HEAD...NO MATTER WHAT POSITION HE IS....TREAT EACH OTHER WITH LOVE....ITS A PITY THAT MOST OF THE WOMAN GROW UP WITHOUT THIER FATHER.... WHAT ARE YOU EXPECT. LIKE  MOTHER LIKE DAUGHTER...MY PEOPLE  NOT ALL THE GILTERS ARE GOLD .GET IT WHEN  AS QUICKLY AS YOU  CAN BEFORE  IT IS TOO   LATE...YOU  WILL  BE SLEEP ALONE...ON YOUR QUEEN GOLD BED.  FOR EVER WITHOUT  ANY CHILDREN TO GET YOU A CUP  OF  WATER FROM THE REFRIDGERATOR...  YOU WILL LEFT ALONE WITH YOUR VIRGINITY AT THE AGE OF 45. WITH YOUR CAREER AND YOUR POSITION.
Posted: at 27-12-2009 02:11 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Don4 at 27-12-2009 02:16 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ifeyemi5 on 27-12-2009 01:52 AM
the problem is not black women alone,the problem is if a woman have money more than a man,the man may feel bad.and if the womanis not up to the standard the man excepted its a problem too.most of us young people of nowadays we dont know what we want,what love is.love is caring,patient,faithful.its for better for worse.not only when the only whedn the person have money or not,looks good or not.
Ifeyemi, try and grow up. In fact try and wake up.

Posted: at 27-12-2009 02:16 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- dirtykid at 27-12-2009 02:30 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: landerbrother4u on 27-12-2009 02:11 AM
AGAIN,  LIKE I SAID  , THEY WANT CAREER AFTER  THAT WHAT ?  THEY ARE LOOKING  FOR POSITION...AFTER THAT WHAT ELSE? THE POSITION OF MEN WILL BE  THERE FOR EVER REGARDLES IF THEY ARE HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT... WOMEN WANT TO BE IN CONTROL..  CONTROL OF WHAT?..BECAUSE THEY HAVE POSITION AND CAREER THEN NO MEN ARE QUALIFY TO TALK TO THEM....THEY ARE ARROGANT,  VERY  PROUD, THEY DEMAND FOR WHAT THEY CANNOT GET IN MEN....THEY ARE LOOKING FOR MEN WITH GOOD CREDIT....THEY ARE LOOKING FOR MEN WITHOUT CRIMINAL RECORD....100% BEHAVIOR, THEY WANT  THE ONE THEY CAN USE THIR POWER. POSITION. EDUCATION, CLASS TO CONTROL  BOSS AROUND THE HOUSE....  MADAM  CAREER, MADAM POSITION, MADAM WELL EDUCATED, MANAGING DIRECTOR, GO TO THE  HOLY BIBLE TO FIND OUT THE LAWFUL POSITION THAT GOD GIVE TO A MAN...YOU WILLFIND OUT....YOU CAN USE YOUR POSITION , MONEY TO BUY A MAN THAT ARE NOT AS QUALIFY AS YOU MARRY THEM AS A HUSBAND MIND YOU REMEMBER THIS IS A MAN IT WILL NOT LAST LONG BEFORE HE TELL YOU HIS POSITION IN THE HOUSE....YOU HAVE TO RESPECT HIM, FOR WHO HE IS....HE WILL WALK OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT LOOKING BACK....HE WILL TELL  YOU TO MARRY YOUR    TO  YOUR  MONEY AND CAREER  ....THE POSITION OF   BLACK  MEN  WITH CAREER  IN THE UNITED STATE  ...ARE NICE AND BEAUTIFUL...THAT IS WHY THEY DONT MARRY  THE BLACK WITH GOOD CAREER AND POSITION BECAUSE THEY WILL BE THIER BOSS IN THE HOUSE THEY WILL BE CONTROLLING THIER MEN LIKE A SLAVE MASTER...WE NEED TO GIVE OUR CHILDREN THE BEST, LOVE THEM, SHOW THEM HOW TO SETTLE WITH LESS AND WORK IT OUT GRADUALLY TILL YOU GET THERE.... BOTH  OF YOU CAN HAVE CAREER TOGETHER....GET ALL YOUR EDUCATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND....RESPECT HIM AS THE HEAD...NO MATTER WHAT POSITION HE IS....TREAT EACH OTHER WITH LOVE....ITS A PITY THAT MOST OF THE WOMAN GROW UP WITHOUT THIER FATHER.... WHAT ARE YOU EXPECT. LIKE  MOTHER LIKE DAUGHTER...MY PEOPLE  NOT ALL THE GILTERS ARE GOLD .GET IT WHEN  AS QUICKLY AS YOU  CAN BEFORE  IT IS TOO   LATE...YOU  WILL  BE SLEEP ALONE...ON YOUR QUEEN GOLD BED.  FOR EVER WITHOUT  ANY CHILDREN TO GET YOU A CUP  OF  WATER FROM THE REFRIDGERATOR...  YOU WILL LEFT ALONE WITH YOUR VIRGINITY AT THE AGE OF 45. WITH YOUR CAREER AND YOUR POSITION.



Well spoken oo

Posted: at 27-12-2009 02:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Don4 at 27-12-2009 02:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Landerbrother, you are talking.

Posted: at 27-12-2009 02:33 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onojaakor at 27-12-2009 03:25 AM (14 years ago)
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they have their own attituted, they thought they are they head of the house since they have everything .which is not true.even is written in the bible. men are the head of every house nor matter successful the woman.that is why they find it difficult to marry.
Posted: at 27-12-2009 03:25 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ifeyemi5 at 27-12-2009 04:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Don4 on 27-12-2009 02:16 AM
Quote from: ifeyemi5 on 27-12-2009 01:52 AM
the problem is not black women alone,the problem is if a woman have money more than a man,the man may feel bad.and if the womanis not up to the standard the man excepted its a problem too.most of us young people of nowadays we dont know what we want,what love is.love is caring,patient,faithful.its for better for worse.not only when the only whedn the person have money or not,looks good or not.
Ifeyemi, try and grow up. In fact try and wake up.[size=][/size][size=][/size][size=][/size][size=][/size]
whats your problem?why can;t you give your own opinion,instead of bashing on me.
Posted: at 27-12-2009 04:01 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- myragonza at 27-12-2009 06:29 AM (14 years ago)
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they are just independant women that men fear

Posted: at 27-12-2009 06:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Don4 at 27-12-2009 07:12 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ifeyemi5 on 27-12-2009 04:01 AM
Quote from: Don4 on 27-12-2009 02:16 AM
Quote from: ifeyemi5 on 27-12-2009 01:52 AM
the problem is not black women alone,the problem is if a woman have money more than a man,the man may feel bad.and if the womanis not up to the standard the man excepted its a problem too.most of us young people of nowadays we dont know what we want,what love is.love is caring,patient,faithful.its for better for worse.not only when the only whedn the person have money or not,looks good or not.
Ifeyemi, try and grow up. In fact try and wake up.[size=][/size][size=][/size][size=][/size][size=][/size]
whats your problem?why can;t you give your own opinion,instead of bashing on me.
But I'm saying the truth. If you want my opinion, I will...

Posted: at 27-12-2009 07:12 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ifeyemi5 at 27-12-2009 07:15 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Don4 on 27-12-2009 07:12 AM
Quote from: ifeyemi5 on 27-12-2009 04:01 AM
Quote from: Don4 on 27-12-2009 02:16 AM
Quote from: ifeyemi5 on 27-12-2009 01:52 AM
the problem is not black women alone,the problem is if a woman have money more than a man,the man may feel bad.and if the womanis not up to the standard the man excepted its a problem too.most of us young people of nowadays we dont know what we want,what love is.love is caring,patient,faithful.its for better for worse.not only when the only whedn the person have money or not,looks good or not.
Ifeyemi, try and grow up. In fact try and wake up.[size=][/size][size=][/size][size=][/size][size=][/size]
whats your problem?why can;t you give your own opinion,instead of bashing on me.
keep your insults to yourself.
But I'm saying the truth. If you want my opinion, I will...
Posted: at 27-12-2009 07:15 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aoumnabil at 27-12-2009 11:04 AM (14 years ago)
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black men dont like contradictions. they are proud of themselves and it s difficult for them to admit that a women has more talent than them.
it s also difficult for a woman to live with a man whose social status is belower than her own social status . because women need that security from men . She couldn t be protected by her husband if she is for example segxwal harrassted by her chef .
 the family in-law in africa is also a case. most of the time, she don t want his son to mary a woman who has more success than this son
Posted: at 27-12-2009 11:04 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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