she s my boss four years older and a member of the NASS of the federal republic of nigeria. she is single though but i have been working for her for years and each tme she has always insisted on having an affair with me orr possble secret marriage. much as i tried to avoid her but she has made every possble move to be close mto me even coming to my house one late evening recently. she tells me everything about herself and i keep wandering what kind of person she is.
i love my job and i do not wissh to lose it now because of her. she never threatened it though but i have been reading between the lines.
guys what do you advise.
Your story is very confusing. She tells you everything about her, but yet you keep wondering what kind of person she is.
You have worked her for many years and you still do not know her. You claim that she has asked you to have an affair with her and she has also asked for a secret marriage.
You state that she is four years older than you. It should not make any difference where age is concerned. She is not that much older. She has not reached the cougar stage.
You state that she came to your house one late evening, but nothing happened between you and her.
Possibilities:
She is lonely.
She is in love with you.
She may be harassing you segxwally and because she is a person in authority, you may be scared of losing your job. If this is the case truthfully, then report her to persons higher than her.
If you like her, have a good conversation with her and find out what type of relationship that you wish to have with her, and then both of you will come to a mutual agreement.
Your boss deserves to have somebody in her life. It is time that you become honest and let her know if you are genuinely interested.
There are lots of men that wish to be in your shoes.
Remain blessed.
Posted: at 13-08-2008 11:40 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming |
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