she s my boss four years older and a member of the NASS of the federal republic of nigeria. she is single though but i have been working for her for years and each tme she has always insisted on having an affair with me orr possble secret marriage. much as i tried to avoid her but she has made every possble move to be close mto me even coming to my house one late evening recently. she tells me everything about herself and i keep wandering what kind of person she is.
i love my job and i do not wissh to lose it now because of her. she never threatened it though but i have been reading between the lines.
guys what do you advise.
Posted: at 1-08-2008 09:03 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
philomena87 at 1-08-2008 09:08 PM (16 years ago) (f)
brb tomorrow to reply
Posted: at 1-08-2008 09:08 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
she s my boss four years older and a member of the NASS of the federal republic of nigeria. she is single though but i have been working for her for years and each tme she has always insisted on having an affair with me orr possble secret marriage. much as i tried to avoid her but she has made every possble move to be close mto me even coming to my house one late evening recently. she tells me everything about herself and i keep wandering what kind of person she is.
i love my job and i do not wissh to lose it now because of her. she never threatened it though but i have been reading between the lines.
guys what do you advise.
Don't do it.............
Posted: at 2-08-2008 12:36 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Is all about the connection,,, if there is any connection mathematically,emotionally,, and otherwise,,there is nuttin bad in who kns if it will bring fort a good seed
Posted: at 2-08-2008 03:17 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
darkocean002 at 2-08-2008 12:25 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: flavinho2 on 1-08-2008 09:03 PM
she s my boss four years older and a member of the NASS of the federal republic of nigeria. she is single though but i have been working for her for years and each tme she has always insisted on having an affair with me orr possble secret marriage. much as i tried to avoid her but she has made every possble move to be close mto me even coming to my house one late evening recently. she tells me everything about herself and i keep wandering what kind of person she is.
i love my job and i do not wissh to lose it now because of her. she never threatened it though but i have been reading between the lines.
guys what do you advise.
dont think your story is real.. did you say she's d boss as in own the company you work, whats stoping you, give it to anywhere, even on her own desk, make her scatter everywhere, believe me, your salary would increased.... u never regret listening to me. You see all the young girls out there are just waiting for your salary. they are no good. let her boss u in the office and you boss her on the bed. isnt that interesting.. you might even not come to work.
Posted: at 2-08-2008 12:25 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
she s my boss four years older and a member of the NASS of the federal republic of nigeria. she is single though but i have been working for her for years and each tme she has always insisted on having an affair with me orr possble secret marriage. much as i tried to avoid her but she has made every possble move to be close mto me even coming to my house one late evening recently. she tells me everything about herself and i keep wandering what kind of person she is.
i love my job and i do not wissh to lose it now because of her. she never threatened it though but i have been reading between the lines.
guys what do you advise.
Climb the mountain.Trust me you wouldnt fall.
THE NEW JAMES BOND.
Posted: at 2-08-2008 03:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
l believe u probably show her that u're one hot Flavor, from ur name and all.... (sorry, jus kidding)
Lemme ask u, is she fine? lf she is, jus try small sample
Anyway, seriously, U might be getting the wrong idea, maybe she's just naturally friendly, u shouldn't suspect somthin when there's no physical action yet, so chill
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 3-08-2008 04:17 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
The good news is dt she's nt married. The fact dt she's ur boss does nt stop her 4rm being ur lover perhaps even a wife in d future...........she'd shown maturity by making an offer, dont let her down.
Posted: at 4-08-2008 12:01 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
darkocean002 at 4-08-2008 12:41 AM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: JUMPER on 4-08-2008 12:01 AM
The good news is dt she's nt married. The fact dt she's ur boss does nt stop her 4rm being ur lover perhaps even a wife in d future...........she'd shown maturity by making an offer, dont let her down.
i hope he listen to you
Posted: at 4-08-2008 12:41 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bababbey at 13-08-2008 09:47 AM (16 years ago) (m)
my friend if u ar in her shoe as the boss wat will u do though she may like u and want to xpress herslf to u as a friend dont get confuse if she open her shop continue shopin rite
Posted: at 13-08-2008 09:47 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Many people are looking for such opportunity but they don't get it ... although all i have to say is "Follow your mind" cos you alone can advice yourself of all advices you will receive
Posted: at 13-08-2008 10:48 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
midebiosu at 13-08-2008 11:19 AM (16 years ago) (m)
Men, with me i always love taking one step at a time. I've been in situations where i taught that the person had a hit on me but she actually proved my thought wrong. She was just in her natural mood. Though she was single then but i got the whole thing wrong.
But in this case, i think that you must draw the line between an affair and relationship. It's your boss we're talking about, moreover its not that she is the CEO or Director General, you both work for Yaradua (Not sure of the spelling).
I'll advise that you don't get too busy with the thought in your mind, be careful, watch your steps and your tongue.
You can as well be bold to ask her what she wants from you, if you think she is going too far.
The ball is in your court and you'll always have a clue to what u'll do.
Be strong, it might be scary in situations like tthis.
Life is made of millions of moments, but we live only one of these moments at a time. As we begin to
Posted: at 13-08-2008 11:19 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
deolar_11 at 13-08-2008 12:55 PM (16 years ago) (m)
hey bro do u have any feeling for her?if u do,then go ahead if u dont,u can still go ahead if it is worth the risk.but just remember one thing,wat eva u do,make sure thhat if it goes wrong u do not regret it.follow ur heart
Posted: at 13-08-2008 12:55 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Segeboy2000 at 13-08-2008 02:03 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Let me join others to say na wah 4 u. Why do u want to crucify this woman, what's her offence? If u are not interested, fine, tell her to her face and if she want resign from the job. I think your problem is age difference, but you can still love this woman and I would ask you to please think about it. But let me tell u nothing is wrong wt what the woman is doing. If u are not interested pls post her detail, I mean fone no, email add, full name and c what nigerians can do. chikena.
Posted: at 13-08-2008 02:03 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 13-08-2008 05:33 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: flavinho2 on 1-08-2008 09:03 PM
she s my boss four years older and a member of the NASS of the federal republic of nigeria. she is single though but i have been working for her for years and each tme she has always insisted on having an affair with me orr possble secret marriage. much as i tried to avoid her but she has made every possble move to be close mto me even coming to my house one late evening recently. she tells me everything about herself and i keep wandering what kind of person she is.
i love my job and i do not wissh to lose it now because of her. she never threatened it though but i have been reading between the lines.
guys what do you advise.
report to a higher authority....or just quit and stay away from her....