SERIOUSLY: Help! My Fiance’s Dad Wants My Virginity Before Approving Our Marriage - Lady Cries Out (Page 3)

You have to tell you man about it, set his father up and let him be caught red handed and then leave the family for good cause you will never be happy in that family with that evil man

Posted: at 3-09-2015 08:30 AM (9 years ago) | Hero

You don't have to keep it to yourself. Tell or fiance; leave to him believed or not. The earlier the better or else he may frame up some stories against and go ahead of you to report to your man by then it will be late for you & no matter what you say then, he may not believe u.
And if u do it now, that means u will be shared BTW your man and the father. Be careful and act fast; this is the devil's workshop.
And the same time let or parents know abt it. Wish u the best.

Posted: at 3-09-2015 08:40 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming

tel ur guy and let d test b done in d hospital

Posted: at 3-09-2015 08:43 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie

I would say stay away from that kind of family for you don't know what lies in there when you dig deeper... thats just a sign sis

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Posted: at 3-09-2015 09:39 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero

tell your fiance and if he did not believe you, set the father up simple

Posted: at 3-09-2015 10:37 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming

In my own opinion just walk away from that relationship because in the near future you gonna be having a serious problem with that man believe me, if you refuse to allow him have sex with you he can go diabolical with you, for you not to have a child for his son in other for his son to divorced you, if you by any chance allow him to have sex with you, he will always demand for it even after you got married to his son. my advise for you is to walk away to save your life before its too late, if his son ask you why calling off the relationship you let him why. either he believe you or not it won't matter anymore as your already out. if you allow him to know without making up your mind to quit that relationship believe me his father is gonna denied it and pretend to have approved the marriage but believe me you gonna suffer in that marriage,use your tongue count your teeth, ( a stitch in time saves nine )

Posted: at 3-09-2015 11:00 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Just tell your man but not on the phone. call his Father why you are with him put your phone on speaker tell the Father that you have accepted to sleep with him.and ask him when and the name of hotel.
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Best advice...

Posted: at 3-09-2015 12:02 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My candid advice, dnt fall 4 ur father-in-law because the concequence will be great & it might consume you, wat i think you should do is to look for a suitable way to discuss the issue with your man and beg him not to do anything rash (because it can back-fire to you) but instead you & ur man shold find a way of exposing ur father-in-law.. or all this might just be an integrity test, so dnt loose guard. 

Posted: at 3-09-2015 12:36 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming

find a way to talk to ur father in law on fone while u are with ur boyfriend,dont talk to him as if u are ready to his wish,so he wont suspect u are trying to set him up,may God help u

Posted: at 3-09-2015 01:22 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie

i will advice you to ,go to GOD in prayers then let your pastor knw about it also talk to your mum.before  telling your guy about it ok. the lord is with you......good lock to you.

Posted: at 3-09-2015 04:09 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming