how can u know that a guy truly loves u without sex? (Page 3)

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Posted: at 7-08-2008 01:16 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

even................

Posted: at 7-08-2008 04:40 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

ohh dear for ur case ure completely and totally secured from harms... 

Posted: at 7-08-2008 05:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

agree as u said only if ure ready to have the sex u can give him and if u are not ready ?? is it still unfair to him???

Posted: at 7-08-2008 05:15 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Posted: at 7-08-2008 05:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

good question gurl. i hope he answers it

Posted: at 9-08-2008 12:42 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hi, My name is BIMBO, a Nigerian, Well, i have a question for you.. I'm a graduate, and I’ve worked for some few companies b4 I joined my present organization. on joining, i met this guy who is in a different department, the first time i saw him i was thrilled, i mean i liked him. in my office, we are always having morning meeting everyday so  i noticed that anytime i sit opposite this guy at the conference room he's always staring at me till the meeting ends.. Lately, he approached me, and even before then i learnt that he was married and has a kid but lost his wife in June last year, i later gave in to his proposition and i went to his house for the first time. There was terrible traffic so i got to his house a bit late and i later passed the night in his house and discovered we made love, but what i noticed was that he did not bother to use a condom on me despite the fact that we had condom on the bed, and one thing again was that, in my place of work, you must undergo STD screening especially HIV screening every 3 months especially there department which i think he should always be careful not to contact such disease but he never taught of that and went straight in to me, though I don’t have any disease anyway, but not withstanding he should have just have a taught. That day passed and I’ve been to his house 2 other times and we made love, each time we do same he always comment on my boobs telling me they are just too nice. Sometimes he talks in parable as if he was going to marry me. for example there was a day he was telling me that cant i work else where rather than working in this organization? then the following morning he was telling me that he wants to surprise everybody in our place of work, i was curious and asked him what he wanted to do and he replied me that i wont be the P.A to the M.D again, that I will work elsewhere and said he has the power to put me in a fixed deposit, well I wouldn’t understand what that means, but always in parables. Even sometimes he always tell me that he was going to get me pregnant, I don’t really know if he likes me, if he wants me to be his wife or whatever.... There was a day he told me that he doesn’t want to think again, i mean about his dead wife, now dat I’m here, i noticed also that he doesn’t keep girlfriends because since i knew him he has never dodged anything from me or received a suspected lovers call while I’m with him. the question now is that why will he just go in to me without u sing a condom knowing well that any mistake can jeopardize his career as an embryologist. Does he like me that much? Does he want to marry me? please i need you to give me some advice on how to go about this.. Thanks for your anticipated response..

Posted: at 9-08-2008 12:55 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i agree wit [email protected]'s hard to read a guy's mind ,u just hv to been careful.cos he might be usin or he might not.just be careful,guys are allys full of promises ,wit their sweet mouth.

Posted: at 9-08-2008 04:39 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

sweet mouth weh go put them for large pit... i just watched a nigerian movie... ROMEO... it connects a bit to tis...

Posted: at 9-08-2008 05:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Bim my advice to u be bold and tell him to define d relationship

Posted: at 12-08-2008 05:24 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie