Relationship Talk: Not Having S*x Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? (Page 2)

My take is .... We should draw the line between A WEDDING CEREMONY and MARRIAGE we sometimes confuse both words
 
and in our ignorance, we are actually advocating SEX AFTER A WEDDING CEREMONY .... As being right

marriage means the willful joyful harmony that exists among two individuals of different sex  that results in an upward spiritual and inner striving and enoblement

the WEDDING BEING AN EARTHLY SOCIAL ACTIVITY

but MARRIAGE HAPPENS BEFORE THE WEDDING ... SOMETIMES AFTER ... MOST TIMES NEVER ... Some people are wedded and not MARRIED .Well said my broda,u've said all my mind.

Posted: at 5-10-2015 09:26 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

no, i prefer sex afta marriage. i dunt bliv in sex b4 marriage, cus sex b4 marriage is fornication nd d Bible condemns fornication. sex b4 marriage can lead to heartbreak, high blood pressure if possible stroke e.t.c. it is nt advisable 4 anybody to practise dat act "sex b4 marriage"

Posted: at 5-10-2015 10:43 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

there  was no marriage in the first place. once a partner hide something vital the marriage never took place

Posted: at 5-10-2015 10:53 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I think it's gud but religious beliefs has made the matter complicated

Posted: at 6-10-2015 04:55 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It's not advisable but if am sure of getting married to her, I will taste before coming out to say "I do"

Posted: at 6-10-2015 04:59 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I can't bear the pain of being entangled to someone who doesn't know how to perform her marital duties after all my struggles

Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:08 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Me I go taste, do ur own as u wish after all me n u are two different individuals

Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:20 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

She played along with religion, now her life is a wasted one. I can't conceal this no matter the oat.

Posted: at 6-10-2015 05:26 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i think sex b4 marriage is good...

Posted: at 6-10-2015 06:16 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

God is able to do everything but in the case of this lady in question, the husband pastor is not a true believer, if not, he could have opened up and tell the wife  before the marriage his problem and sincereity might have brought healing to him through the mercy of God.

Posted: at 6-10-2015 07:07 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac