I’m in my early 20s and in love with a 28-year-old man. He has a good job and he is quite nice to me. I always feel that any girl who is not a virgin should not marry him. We have been together for a year and he has promised marrying me but he doesn’t know my past deeds. I have this innocent and youthful look and he would never know that so far, I’ve dated 12 guys and I’ve had seven abortions. He has planned our marriage for October and I feel guilty not telling him what I had done. I feel that if I tell him, he could change his mind and break up with me. I don’t think I can get another man like him. What do I do? Tell him and lose him? Or keep quiet and get married?
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Posted: at 18-10-2015 08:11 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Let the past be the past everyone has a past concentrate on the present, be nice and honest and plan the future. If he really love you he wil not even ask or crucify you on your past. Best of luck. Honestly am telling you this coz am in a good mood.
Posted: at 18-10-2015 08:49 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
aspeng007 at 18-10-2015 09:16 AM (9 years ago) (m)
7 abortions,OMG ar u still fertile?my advice,repent and start preachin 4rm place 2 place,street 2 street,house 2 house,door 2 door wit ur past 4 d rest of ya lyf,lolz,many gurls here who has a worst past dan urz jawe.
Posted: at 18-10-2015 09:16 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
emma4love3 at 18-10-2015 09:18 AM (9 years ago) (m)
hehehe...which advice when you were sharing the men did you ask for my advice...yeye sugarcane... look you better leave that guy alone befor you use that your bad ways to finish him life olodo...oloshi
Posted: at 18-10-2015 09:18 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
7 abortions @ 22 it dan means. Before u will get 30 u will do like 20 abortions. D best tin for u is to go ahead nd marry dat man nd keep. Ur dirty mouth short, nd. Also repent before tunder go fier u for all ur evil deed . Na. My advise be dat ooo
Posted: at 18-10-2015 09:19 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
emma4love3 at 18-10-2015 09:24 AM (9 years ago) (m)
can you imagine this thing...infact you made a mistake to come here advice advice in my axxss....so you had 7good abortions jes....and you stil alive... but am sure you wuld be fruitful... so go to and repent then leave that poor guy... bf you trade him life....
Posted: at 18-10-2015 09:24 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
emma4love3 at 18-10-2015 09:28 AM (9 years ago) (m)
she doesnt need any advice...and me wil never be part of advicing her....she thinks she is wiser... becos you want marry .. then we shuld advice that your brain- less . ...head...
Posted: at 18-10-2015 09:28 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
macsylvester at 18-10-2015 10:32 AM (9 years ago) (m)
girl u ar possessed u really need prayers ar u sure u have repented?Again ar u sure u ar still fertile?pls if u ar not pls leave DAT young Nd innocent man alone.like seriously u need God in ur life.
Posted: at 18-10-2015 10:32 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
My sister it is better you confess to him now and be free. It is better you do it yourself before those men you have randomly slept with tells him first. If he loves you, he will stay but if he leaves you. Because you have confessed and has fully repented, God will forgive and give you a better man. You have sinned but you are not worst than bokoharam.
Posted: at 18-10-2015 11:56 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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