PLEASE ADVICE ME! I Think My Girlfriend Is Occultist - Naijapals Visitor

Date: 20-12-2015 6:00 am (5 years ago) | Author: Mister Jay Wonder
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- at 20-12-2015 06:00 AM (5 years ago)
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I am a youth corper serving in Benue State. I met a lady in camp and I asked her out. We hit it off at once and its been 2 weeks now.
 
Before we headed to our PPA few days ago, I made an attempt to consummate our relationship but she asked me to wait as she feels its too early for us to get down. I expected that and asked her to at-least make out time so we could be spending our nights together so we dont have to be cooking separately as that will help us save cost.

She agreed and she came over Tuesday and we have been together since then. She told me she was an eckist but honestly, i didn’t know what that meant. I didnt know she meant Eckankar.

Ever since i was young, our pastors always prayed against secret societies like Amorc, Ogboni and Eckankar. I grew up being taught that Eckankar is a deadly secret cult. When my new girl said she was Eckist, I didn’t understand she meant the same Eckankar i grew up binding and casting.

On that Tuesday night, as we were about to go to bed, She asked that we pray. She took me outside around 11pm when other have slept and spread our mattress on the front of our lodge. She asked me to sit and hold my hand in a certain way and look up to the heavens and repeat after her. I thought it was some kind of $ex game she wanted to play so i played along.

She was repeating the word hum, hum, hum and asked me to repeat after he which i did. the humming continued until i became uncomfortable. I managed to see it through even as she muttered some words i did not understand. When she was through, she asked that we go back inside. i was dazed, i already was nursing an erection so i didn’t understand what she was up to.

We got back inside and she kissed me good night and was dozing even before i could ask her what was happening. I confronted her yesterday morning about the incident of last night. She told me that that is how they meditate before prayer in their church. I was like what church is that that hums before praying, she said she already told me that she is Eckankar.
I froze.

I didnt understand the whole thing. She started telling me that the church is not a cult like people think but i don’t believe her. She said that the humming was a way of spiritually connecting to God through mind travel and that if i was persistent and pure in heart that i would soon start seeing angels. That was all i could take.

I calmly told her that its over and that I cannot continue with the whole relationship. She didnt even say a word further, she just picked up her things and left.
My predicament now is that ever since she left i cant stop thinking about her. I think i am in love with her but i cant allow her ‘occultic’ beliefs around me but i am missing her. I dont know how to handle this situation.


Posted: at 20-12-2015 06:00 AM (5 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- kayonewien at 20-12-2015 07:24 AM (5 years ago)
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My dear you cannot eat you cake and have it. Follow your heart, if you are a true christian i advice you to be strong in your faith and let her go in peace at this early stage,  I understand that your might be in love already but with time you will surely get over it and God bring you the right person that your heart desires. Good luck.
Posted: at 20-12-2015 07:24 AM (5 years ago) | Newbie
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- kp45 at 20-12-2015 07:54 AM (5 years ago)
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hmmm touching I must say. Well as for me she is following what she believe and I will appreciate you follow yours too. Two captain can not pilot a ship except they agree but it's obvious both of you cant.
Posted: at 20-12-2015 07:54 AM (5 years ago) | Hero
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- Novic at 20-12-2015 10:23 AM (5 years ago)
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My advice for you is to think hard, you have to work it out by yourself. Nobdy can give you perfect donation.
Posted: at 20-12-2015 10:23 AM (5 years ago) | Hero
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- gogoman at 20-12-2015 10:51 AM (5 years ago)
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if u need advice brov, u need to consult me and pay fee lol
Posted: at 20-12-2015 10:51 AM (5 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Oworen25 at 20-12-2015 11:05 AM (5 years ago)
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My own advice to you on this matter is that if you know that you love and ready to spend life together you can talk to her And make her know who the true God is and tell her the rightful way to warship him. Or you guys should meet a counselor.
Posted: at 20-12-2015 11:05 AM (5 years ago) | Hero
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- botlex at 20-12-2015 11:19 AM (5 years ago)
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At least she didn't hide anything away from you. Nothing you've written here is strange coz that's how the eckists go about their religious duties. So it's left for you to ascertain whether you can accommodate her.
Posted: at 20-12-2015 11:19 AM (5 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- satsaver at 20-12-2015 01:12 PM (5 years ago)
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Oh man.. thank God for your life.. you have to stop thinking about her ASAP.. so u don't go calling her bk again..its against ur believe from onset. Why switch to wat u don't understand b/cos if a lady.. it's gonna be hard getting her off ur mind though.. BT it's not impossible!
Posted: at 20-12-2015 01:12 PM (5 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- winace at 20-12-2015 01:23 PM (5 years ago)
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Be careful b4 u know u are a member already. My junior BRODA is an example of all dis occult church. He is now a member of dat church dat an India is their master. It's called Grail message. My dad and d whole family has forgotten abt my BRODA. We are jt putting hi. prayer always. Be careful hmmmm
Posted: at 20-12-2015 01:23 PM (5 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Paulevery at 20-12-2015 01:41 PM (5 years ago)
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If she likes, let her be marine spirit,  you nor be Guy again?  Dont be carried away by what she is practising. She is your babe.  How small  girl ooo carry ur heart  they pinch am for free, no oooo. She is ur wright, Warri Guys nor dey carry last.. Go find d girl, nor fear 
Posted: at 20-12-2015 01:41 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jar84 at 20-12-2015 01:46 PM (5 years ago)
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Eckankar is not occultic, go do ur research well pls
Posted: at 20-12-2015 01:46 PM (5 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Nwanaku at 20-12-2015 02:26 PM (5 years ago)
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Na nw wey u don phyuk her honeypot front n back u cum notice say she B eckist abi. Make i hear word abeg.....
Posted: at 20-12-2015 02:26 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- fearlesspaul at 20-12-2015 03:18 PM (5 years ago)
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she and other members of her cult see angels through hum yet she wants to have sex. I am sure she is not a virgin. There is one of them in our streets working as a refrigerator repairer, quite talented bcos he can build a deep freezer but he cannot control his libido. He rapes girls and women at random, it does not matter whether they are clean or dirty. Normally, he would call girls and women hawking fruits, vegetables and snacks under the pretext he would buy, but took them inside his workshop and screw the hell out of them. His name is Ugo. The thing got to the extent that he called police on people who would try to rescue his victims. I suspect he uses juju or something to cast spell on his victims. For those who would be stupid to doubt me, Take a trip to Venn Road South Odoakpu Onitsha where second hand refrigerators, deep frrezers, ain conditioners and VCD/DVD players are sold and ask of Ugo, the Eckankar.
Posted: at 20-12-2015 03:18 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- leonardi at 20-12-2015 03:47 PM (5 years ago)
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My friend they are not cultists OK. You better to get the girl back. Most of us are ignorant and that's why we don't know anything.the pastors that pray and bind erkists are blind
Posted: at 20-12-2015 03:47 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- uuuuuuuu at 20-12-2015 04:19 PM (5 years ago)
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My broda run never look back at this earlier time wat my people say is bad is badooooooooooooooo
Posted: at 20-12-2015 04:19 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kp45 at 20-12-2015 06:36 PM (5 years ago)
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my broda be a 4runner
Posted: at 20-12-2015 06:36 PM (5 years ago) | Hero
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- morganaldore at 20-12-2015 11:20 PM (5 years ago)
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eckankar
Posted: at 20-12-2015 11:20 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- morganaldore at 20-12-2015 11:23 PM (5 years ago)
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http://www.eckankar.org/
Posted: at 20-12-2015 11:23 PM (5 years ago) | Upcoming
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- okatee at 20-12-2015 11:52 PM (5 years ago)
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my guy, give dat 400*12 metre race oo to save ur life
Posted: at 20-12-2015 11:52 PM (5 years ago) | Hero
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- eric2000 at 20-12-2015 11:55 PM (5 years ago)
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You are an idiot..you broke  up with a girl because of the practices in her religion ..what if somebody did the same to you because of the practices in your religion..,all christain denominations or religious groups have practices that is strange to anybody that is not in that group...your assumption that she is occultist is based on what your pastor told you..how smart are you?. Another human being like you will tell you that her religion is occultist and you believe it without any prove as old as you are ..no sense at all with all your university degree
Posted: at 20-12-2015 11:55 PM (5 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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