Is it right for a lady to be in a relationship with a guy who has been married bt is presently seperated despitr the fact that he has a son from the marriage. is it really adviceable?
Posted: at 22-01-2010 11:34 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
It's not adviceable. At least I wouldnt advice on it. Seperated can be re-united. Even divorced sometimes do come back together. three is a crowd. She would only complicate things and if it's love she feels she has for the man then she would know it is best to let go and wish him the best with his wife. That's just my opinion anyway. Other's myt differ.
Posted: at 22-01-2010 11:37 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
It's not advisable. At least I wouldn't advice on it. Separated can be re-united. Even divorced sometimes do come back together. three is a crowd. She would only complicate things and if it's love she feels she has for the man then she would know it is best to let go and wish him the best with his wife. That's just my opinion anyway. Other's might differ.
myragonza at 22-01-2010 02:16 PM (15 years ago) (f)
It's not adviceable. At least I wouldnt advice on it. Seperated can be re-united. Even divorced sometimes do come back together. three is a crowd. She would only complicate things and if it's love she feels she has for the man then she would know it is best to let go and wish him the best with his wife. That's just my opinion anyway. Other's myt differ.
kemoprosper at 22-01-2010 04:39 PM (15 years ago) (f)
"pasan ti a fina iyale wa lori aja lati fi na iyawo" simply means d cane dat was use to beat d first wife is patiently waiting to beat d second wife.... dnt just go there........to avoid been an intruder and a second wife.
Posted: at 22-01-2010 04:39 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
dirtykid at 22-01-2010 04:41 PM (15 years ago) (m)
is adviceable with conditions, depends on the situation of the man and the seperated wife........... if the seperation thing is not caused by the new lady, and the man himself find u peaceful to be with, if he's kinda having problems with his seperated lady... if both of u understand urself and love each other. i dont see the reason why to say No.. U might be the right person he everly wanted to b with., Having a child with the other lady is not any barrier. every man need peace in his life... not just making children.
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Posted: at 22-01-2010 04:41 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 22-01-2010 04:43 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kemoprosper on 22-01-2010 04:39 PM
"pasan ti a fina iyale wa lori aja lati fi na iyawo" simply means d cane dat was use to beat d first wife is patiently waiting to beat d second wife.... dnt just go there........to avoid been an intruder and a second wife.
What if the problem is actually from the first lady? or u dont think some women can be unbearable to stay with atimes? dont u think if the man actually fell in love with the 2nd lady, he will divorce the other one straight away?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 22-01-2010 04:43 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 22-01-2010 04:57 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: around_d_corner on 22-01-2010 04:46 PM
dirty ........ no condition is applied........
I still mantain conditions do apply.. U never know what some people are seen out there in relationships like this... i do know that is not yet officialy becos the man didnt get her divorced,, but as long as they re seperated, there is reason for that, that means they dont feel anyting for themselve, in such relationship, only slim chances to regain it back in good condition. it can happen to a woman not only to a man.
I know 2 dudes in such nasty situation, Imagine a situation when a man will just run go back to his fatherland just becos he cant bear it anymore, he tried to get divorce but the lady refused, she just like doing things to get him upset. Just hope not to come across such. no b person go tell u, what to do.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 22-01-2010 04:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Quote from: around_d_corner on 22-01-2010 04:46 PM
dirty ........ no condition is applied........
I still mantain conditions do apply.. U never know what some people are seen out there in relationships like this... i do know that is not yet officialy becos the man didnt get her divorced,, but as long as they re seperated, there is reason for that, that means they dont feel anyting for themselve, in such relationship, only slim chances to regain it back in good condition. it can happen to a woman not only to a man.
I know 2 dudes in such nasty situation, Imagine a situation when a man will just run go back to his fatherland just becos he cant bear it anymore, he tried to get divorce but the lady refused, she just like doing things to get him upset. Just hope not to come across such. no b person go tell u, what to do.
dudu wateva.......
Posted: at 22-01-2010 05:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 22-01-2010 05:15 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: around_d_corner on 22-01-2010 05:10 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 22-01-2010 04:57 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 22-01-2010 04:46 PM
dirty ........ no condition is applied........
I still mantain conditions do apply.. U never know what some people are seen out there in relationships like this... i do know that is not yet officialy becos the man didnt get her divorced,, but as long as they re seperated, there is reason for that, that means they dont feel anyting for themselve, in such relationship, only slim chances to regain it back in good condition. it can happen to a woman not only to a man.
I know 2 dudes in such nasty situation, Imagine a situation when a man will just run go back to his fatherland just becos he cant bear it anymore, he tried to get divorce but the lady refused, she just like doing things to get him upset. Just hope not to come across such. no b person go tell u, what to do.
dudu wateva.......
Thats cool.. but just know shits does happen in this our world nowadays.. & thats why we all need ''OUR LORD's PRAYER''.... Daily
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 22-01-2010 05:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Quote from: around_d_corner on 22-01-2010 05:10 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 22-01-2010 04:57 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 22-01-2010 04:46 PM
dirty ........ no condition is applied........
I still mantain conditions do apply.. U never know what some people are seen out there in relationships like this... i do know that is not yet officialy becos the man didnt get her divorced,, but as long as they re seperated, there is reason for that, that means they dont feel anyting for themselve, in such relationship, only slim chances to regain it back in good condition. it can happen to a woman not only to a man.
I know 2 dudes in such nasty situation, Imagine a situation when a man will just run go back to his fatherland just becos he cant bear it anymore, he tried to get divorce but the lady refused, she just like doing things to get him upset. Just hope not to come across such. no b person go tell u, what to do.
dudu wateva.......
Thats cool.. but just know shits does happen in this our world nowadays.. & thats why we all need ''OUR LORD's PRAYER''.... Daily
everlly shit does happpen but we giv it big blowwwwwwww!!!!!!
Posted: at 22-01-2010 05:22 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Is it right for a lady to be in a relationship with a guy who has been married bt is presently seperated despitr the fact that he has a son from the marriage. is it really adviceable?
Nothing Wrong with dat, as far as he's Divorced, like yu pointed out.
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 22-01-2010 05:33 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
well actually,the 1st lady did im strong thing,wrote her name on all d property they had cos he trusted her with his life,then chased im out pennyless.one tin dat just kips bugging me is what if she comes bak sori and wit their son too.as a father will he turn his bak on them 4 a girlfriend?
Posted: at 22-01-2010 06:27 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Is it right for a lady to be in a relationship with a guy who has been married bt is presently seperated despitr the fact that he has a son from the marriage. is it really adviceable?
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