I Lied To Her Future Husband About My Age and My Children - Please Help!

Date: 26-04-2016 3:50 am (8 years ago) | Author: mansaray precious
- at 26-04-2016 03:50 AM (8 years ago)
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Pls i need an advice bcus my life is under fear, said by my girlfriend .....i was married. At my 14years old after the death of my parents...my uncle forced me into marital life...i born 2 kids for my husband and at age of 2 years my husband abandon me with two kids a girl and a boy...now i am above 30years i surfer by my self to bring up the kids now my first child is geting to 18years but there is no where to find their father but his friend do give a letter from my husband the content of his letter goes this way .....Ruth pls if u see husband marry bcus i hve married ...i carry those kids settled u...bcus i abandoned u just to listen to my parents. Advice,  they told me to marry from my tribe....that i am their only sone....and i hve waited so lond training the kids and i never give up....but since last year my friends advise me to get married....now almost men that comes to my life asking me for marriage ....wich i kicked out....until i met this guy about six months now we are in seriously relationship .....he hve ask my hands in marriage ...his family love me so much and now he has fix my weeding date......but my fear is that what wil i do to my kids? I hve already told him that my kids are my elder brothers. Kids.....and also tell him that i am 24 years old bcus of my body stature ....while his 29 years old....and for real we love each other ....but some time he wil say over his body he will marry a woman older than him and again is better to marry a prostitude who has repented than to marry a woman who hve kids bfore.....pls what wil i do my weeding is next month what wil i do? This is a true life story...help ls.

Posted: at 26-04-2016 03:50 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
- Passion8Soul at 26-04-2016 09:26 AM (8 years ago)
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Stop d lies already n tell him d truth point blank;tell him everytin abt u n hide notin 4rm him,'ve faith in God n believe in his existence
Posted: at 26-04-2016 09:26 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mastadon2 at 26-04-2016 11:48 PM (8 years ago)
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Deliverance case
Posted: at 26-04-2016 11:48 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- Sparky12 at 26-04-2016 11:58 PM (8 years ago)
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kk
Posted: at 26-04-2016 11:58 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- CHRISETTE at 27-04-2016 10:49 PM (8 years ago)
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This write up kwa
Posted: at 27-04-2016 10:49 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- victorstic1 at 27-04-2016 11:18 PM (8 years ago)
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JUST CANCELL THE WEDDING PLAN
Posted: at 27-04-2016 11:18 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gogoman at 27-04-2016 11:20 PM (8 years ago)
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stick with your lies girl!!  Grin
Posted: at 27-04-2016 11:20 PM (8 years ago) | Grande Master
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- kabukabu at 28-04-2016 01:34 AM (8 years ago)
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Too late but not too late to tell him the truth
Posted: at 28-04-2016 01:34 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- taung89 at 28-04-2016 03:41 AM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: mr gogo on 27-04-2016 11:20 PM
stick with your lies girl!!  Grin
Na this kind lies you used chop aduro for France
Posted: at 28-04-2016 03:41 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- maxzy277 at 28-04-2016 04:17 AM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Aishat Ejura Aikoye on 26-04-2016 09:26 AM
Stop d lies already n tell him d truth point blank;tell him everytin abt u n hide notin 4rm him,'ve faith in God n believe in his existence
Thanks, cos u've said what's in my mind. God Bless!
Posted: at 28-04-2016 04:17 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tessiko at 28-04-2016 10:16 AM (8 years ago)
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My dear there was a similar case in my neighbourhood d woman lied about her age to her husband this time her husband was still older than her yet he kicked her out. She suffered depression uptill now. My advice is that you have to be honest when you want to enter into any covenant, yes marriage is a covenant no lies should b attached to it so that when u clear your conciesce u live peaceful. Same advice goes to any man  or woman in rltshp stop lying about your ages, sex, status and kids when the relation matures into marriage
Posted: at 28-04-2016 10:16 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- christianity at 28-04-2016 01:30 PM (8 years ago)
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from confession to gistmania,the nxt will be facebook or twitter.abeg go fetch lyf
Posted: at 28-04-2016 01:30 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickieponga at 28-04-2016 06:45 PM (8 years ago)
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Abeg continue to dey lie since u don start no point in telling d truth...
U even deny ur own children cos u wan poke, anoda lie go come up soon so don't give up lying...
So if u wan move in wit am u no go carry ur "brodas children" abi...?
I don't mind u lying about ur age but ur own kids oh girl u dey ruthless...
Posted: at 28-04-2016 06:45 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 28-04-2016 07:34 PM (8 years ago)
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what a shame, denying your own kids Angry
Posted: at 28-04-2016 07:34 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Eazyatumeyi at 29-04-2016 12:09 AM (8 years ago)
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No advice
Posted: at 29-04-2016 12:09 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Eazyatumeyi at 29-04-2016 12:10 AM (8 years ago)
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No advice
Posted: at 29-04-2016 12:10 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Eazyatumeyi at 29-04-2016 12:11 AM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: henry chinedu joseph on 28-04-2016 01:30 PM
from confession to gistmania,the nxt will be facebook or twitter.abeg go fetch lyf
you be real Naijapals grand father o, na God bless this site o
Posted: at 29-04-2016 12:11 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- AmazingMarie at 29-04-2016 07:44 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Ogunde Johnson  link=topic=289250.msg4828698#msg4828698 date=1461811280
Na this kind lies you used chop aduro for France
Grin too funny o boy!
Posted: at 29-04-2016 07:44 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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