u guys i need advice i need to know wat to do when ur relationship with teh man u love is sinking so quickly. when u guys arent communicating well . arguing. n all that. n at times despite how much he tells me he loves me i dont believe it or feel like im happy. the only thing im sure of is that i love him but our relationship not the love is dying. what do i do
Posted: at 10-09-2007 04:30 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
No point keeping a relationship were u dont believe the guy......if u really love him, u need to believe him, if you're finding it difficult, then u can go back 2 u guys being mere friends and start building the relationship from there........ dont enslave urself and d - guy .......believe him or become friends or do smth....
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Posted: at 10-09-2007 10:05 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My advice to you is to look some where else for the guy may, no is dating some other lady which the lady is getting all the guy's time, and in this case it may be a two way thing, for the guy may only be out for the thing under the lady and in the other hand the guy may have had enough of you, which he has gone to look for another person and has find that person. so you have to be very smart with this. best of luck.
Posted: at 11-09-2007 02:18 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie
Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. In this case, you're having problem communicating. You said he says that he loves you, but you don't believe him.."is he really the one not to believe"?? Well my point is that sometimes in a relationship, a partner feels guilty about something they have done or said, but couldn't really tell the other partner. So in this case, the guilt feelings would not allow you to accept the things that he/she says or does.And everything they do is never right.And thats when the relationship starts to fall apart. Therefore, you need to really figure out why you're feeling this way because you're the only one that can make yourself happy..There are so many different reasons people stay in relationships, no matter how unstable it is"could it be that you're attached, and you're feelings wouldn't let you let go" so you stay because you love him. My advice really is that you and him both needs to sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk about what's going on and figure out why the relationship is failing. And if it still doesn't get any better, then I suggest you let it go and move on with your life because there's no need to stay in an unhappy relationship..So try to rekindle the romance first.. Good luck.
Posted: at 11-09-2007 03:30 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
myragonza at 11-09-2007 09:17 AM (17 years ago) (f)
if u love someone so much and he does say that he loves u too....u gotta hold on and believe him....as much as possible,have hope....!!!another important issue is communication.....the both of u have to talk and i do mean sit down and talk as couple.....not at home or how u usually talk but do find the time to have dinner outside and talk things out...tell him what and how u feel about the relationship and himself.......and hear his opinion....if his reply is reasonlable...well go on....but if he doesn't actually bother,move on gal!!!
u guys i need advice i need to know wat to do when ur relationship with teh man u love is sinking so quickly. when u guys arent communicating well . arguing. n all that. n at times despite how much he tells me he loves me i dont believe it or feel like im happy. the only thing im sure of is that i love him but our relationship not the love is dying. what do i do [/qu
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Posted: at 26-01-2008 12:48 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Not so quick though, you gotta work on love to make it work..don't bounce so quick over something that can be worked out, that is if its not that bad .
Posted: at 26-01-2008 02:20 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
u guys i need advice i need to know wat to do when ur relationship with teh man u love is sinking so quickly. when u guys arent communicating well . arguing. n all that. n at times despite how much he tells me he loves me i dont believe it or feel like im happy. the only thing im sure of is that i love him but our relationship not the love is dying. what do i do
i don't think this is about the current man....
Posted: at 5-02-2008 04:05 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dejifortune at 5-02-2008 06:29 PM (17 years ago) (m)
is you need is just trust, u dont trust each other that is simply the problem, relationship full of true love without truth will not get one any where, all u need is to trust yourselves and all will be fine....best of luck.
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Posted: at 5-02-2008 06:29 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
beautious at 7-02-2008 04:41 AM (17 years ago) (f)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 5-02-2008 04:05 PM
Quote from: beautious on 10-09-2007 04:30 PM
u guys i need advice i need to know wat to do when ur relationship with teh man u love is sinking so quickly. when u guys arent communicating well . arguing. n all that. n at times despite how much he tells me he loves me i dont believe it or feel like im happy. the only thing im sure of is that i love him but our relationship not the love is dying. what do i do
i don't think this is about the current man....
yea u guys mrs v is rite. this was posted by me like september tenth... two boyfriends ago lol. but thanks for the advice
yea u guys mrs v is rite this was posted september tenth like 2 boy friends ago lol. but yea thans
Posted: at 7-02-2008 04:41 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie
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