when a relationship is fallin apart

No point keeping a relationship were u dont believe the guy......if u really love him, u need to believe him, if you're finding it difficult, then u can go back 2 u guys being mere friends and start building the relationship from there........ dont enslave urself and d - guy .......believe him or become friends or do smth....

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Posted: at 10-09-2007 10:05 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hey, girl or sorry lady is this you?

Posted: at 11-09-2007 02:40 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Why say no thanks for that advice?

Posted: at 11-09-2007 03:12 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

What do you plan to do now? move on with life or just stay put and see what comes out of the whole issue.

Posted: at 11-09-2007 03:24 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. In this case, you're having problem communicating. You said he says that he loves you, but you don't believe him.."is he really the one not to believe"?? Well my point is that sometimes in a relationship, a partner feels guilty about something they have done or said, but couldn't really tell the other partner. So in this case, the guilt feelings would not allow you to accept the things that he/she says or does.And everything they do is never right.And thats when the relationship starts to fall apart. Therefore, you need to really figure out why you're feeling this way because you're the only one that can make yourself happy..There are so many different reasons people stay in relationships, no matter how unstable it is"could it be that you're attached, and you're feelings wouldn't let you let go" so you stay because you love him. My advice really is that you and him both needs to sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk about what's going on and figure out why the relationship is failing. And if it still doesn't get any better, then I suggest you let it go and move on with your life because there's no need to stay in an unhappy relationship..So try to rekindle the romance first.. Good luck.

Posted: at 11-09-2007 03:30 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

if u love someone so much and he does say that he loves u too....u gotta hold on and believe him....as much as possible,have hope....!!!another important issue is communication.....the both of u have to talk and i do mean sit down and talk as couple.....not at home or how u usually talk but do find the time to have dinner outside and talk things out...tell him what and how u feel about the relationship and himself.......and hear his opinion....if his reply is reasonlable...well go on....but if he doesn't actually bother,move on gal!!!

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Posted: at 11-09-2007 09:17 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Not so quick though, you gotta work on love to make it work..don't bounce so quick over something that can be worked out, that is if its not that bad .

Posted: at 26-01-2008 02:20 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

is you need is just trust, u dont trust each other that is simply the problem, relationship full of true love without truth will not get one any where, all u need is to trust yourselves and all will be fine....best of luck.

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Posted: at 5-02-2008 06:29 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u know i always trust in you and Vixen and presently ASA and the 3 of you have never let me down and i knwo u wont let me down

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Posted: at 7-02-2008 02:33 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 8-02-2008 02:37 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero