My fiancé dates a ‘sugar mummy’

Published On: February 13, 2010, 6:55 pm
Author: Daniel Bosai
-- (m) at 13-02-2010 06:55PM

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I am 26 and my fiancé is 28 years old. We have been together since our university days and both of us are waiting for the national youth service. Recently, he was introduced to an older woman by his cousin and when he initially told me about it, I kicked against it. But he explained that he was doing it for me because I could dump him for a richer man in future and he needed to secure my love for him. He confessed to be after the woman’s money and after many pleas, I agreed. Two weeks ago, he told me how the ‘sugar mummy’ gave him some money and he paid N200,000 (two hundred thousand) into my account. He said I should start a business with the money, pending the time we went for youth service. Have I done the right thing to have permitted him to date an older woman? I am confused.

T.S, Lagos

I think it was wrong of you to have agreed to the ‘deal’. Does a man need to secure you for himself with money? Are you telling him that he should get money by any means so as to prevent you from running away with another man in future? I see this ‘deal’ turning sour and very soon, that ‘sugar mummy’ will be in total control of your fiancé and you will be left in the cold. For a woman to be dishing out money to a younger man, there is more to it than meets the eye. Already, there is a hold of greed on your fiancé coupled with lust. Even if you tell him to stop now, I am sure that he would not. Rather, he would give more excuses. If I were you, I would return that money and tell him that I prefer him and his love instead. If you don’t act fast, they will get married and he will keep telling you to hold on because it is part of the ‘deal’.

-- qualitysmart (m) at 13-02-2010 07:32PM
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yeah pa! u don finish,which kain yeye deal b dat.don't b suprised if he doesn't attend 2 u b'cos u caused it.peace out.
-- momeh (m) at 13-02-2010 07:56PM
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-- xter (m) at 13-02-2010 08:01PM
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stop complaning....dat guy loves u

just let him enjoy the old woman for a while

-- Miss_precious (f) at 13-02-2010 08:09PM
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enjoy the money with carry last

-- xter (m) at 13-02-2010 08:15PM
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abi na

-- ajanni (m) at 13-02-2010 08:24PM
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if you trust him , i did not for see any trouble in that
-- docreala (m) at 13-02-2010 08:43PM
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as u dey chop d pepper,remember say na food weh pikin chop na im dey pain am for belle.enjoy am while it last.
-- mazi (m) at 13-02-2010 08:47PM
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u r worse dan him....
-- Starlette (f) at 13-02-2010 09:08PM
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dere's nothing right in wat u re doing. My guy do tel me wise up. Mr or Mrs poster wise up bcos anoda person go take ur man. BE FAST N HOT. Chal

-- omibanks (m) at 14-02-2010 02:32PM
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-- prencess (f) at 14-02-2010 03:49PM
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poster meaning that u are shareing one man Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
u did not do the right thing at all, it shows that u did not even have any love for him
other girls are secureing theirs while u are putting urs in denger hahahahahah very good of u Grin
-- noble74 (m) at 14-02-2010 05:48PM
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you are a disgrace to woman race thats all i cant tell you for now.
-- myragonza (f) at 15-02-2010 09:47AM
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very wrong move....

-- wilcox700 (m) at 27-02-2012 11:58PM
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pls dear tell ur guy to introduce me any mama he knw cos am in need of money to secure my own girl cos she's abt to live me 4 a richer guy.
-- Knowman (m) at 28-02-2012 02:29PM
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carry the money come make we chop am, bon that guy abeg
-- Treasure2 (f) at 28-02-2012 06:10PM
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Money finace na e you be.
-- Knowman (m) at 29-02-2012 05:59AM
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 28-02-2012 06:10PM
Money finace na e you be.

-- Solidstonez (f) at 31-05-2012 09:24PM
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