Knowing that at the Age of 25years, It is advisable for a woman to be married but considering a few factors, Character questions & a few challenges in The Country, marriage remains only a dream until some are 60yrs or possibly die single. Here are a list of reasons why:
1. Pride, Class & Taste: Looking For Mr 6.3ft, Prince Charming, Ahmad of the Emirates, Prince Abudabi, King of Brunei, Bill Gates & Dangote, Mr Ready Made, Dashing, tastefully finished & Mr Promising Career endowed and graced!
2. Trauma from Past segxwal Assault or Abuse or Trauma from Broken Relationship
3. Joblessness
4. Lack of Social Character as such Laziness, Lousy Mouth, Crude: Uncultured in social ethics, Vulgar/Brute talk & Self-centeredness
5. Lack of Foresight / Vision: If will roll the dice on a bargaining table, a lot of women and ladies have nothing to offer a man for a lasting, fulfilling and promising relationship or marriage; They come empty and go empty or they go with every drop of joy a man has laboured for, for the rest of his life, making a man miserable & empty. This is also the bed rock and brewing of divorce and broken homes.
6. Strong Career Obsession.
7. Over expectations in relationship. Asking for too much attention and going too far in the name of love as regards sacrifices
8. Overt Fun loving Singlehood
9. Religion, Tribal & Culture Rift: This is a major wall of two world apart. Your loved ones and choice of marriage may be alien and unwelcomed in your circle of Religion, Tribal & Cultural circles and Affiliations.
10. Parents counsel and bad friends advice or peer pressure into the next disappointment in waiting relationship. For Most people and Ladies (invertedly less educated & less exposed ladies), this is a point of redemption without regotiation; The Point Where "things fall apart" takes its root. Except your ready to loosen up and loose your religion like the Gregorians masters of Chant track song deems it, this is highly a sacred ground. A sacrilege & A no go area like the Zappling California 250,000 Megawatts power grid plants
Caveat Emptor!!
Word of Caution For The Men!!! Men, don't carry a bone that is not your size nor the weight and tons of a bone heavier than lead loaded in a 40ft container because in the shadows of your valley of death, even God and the host of heaven will deny you for been the biggest fool of the 21st Century!!
It is not every animal or elephant a hunter sees in the jungle he kills to take home for egusi soup!!! Atimes, even the hunter can be hunted by a more vicious, ferocious and over powering beast! Men, know your boundary! Know your limit! It is not all market are for sell. It is very OK and welcomed to consider me very stupid for this write up, but I had to because we men like to look for trouble in d 1st place only to to later blame the consequence on the women and the golden fish and angels turned demons we once used to chase!! Share d fun wt ur contacts and pass it on watsapp 09099176956. www.greenharrisburg.blogspot.co.ke
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