saying its over (Page 4)

Date: 07-03-2010 3:25 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Habakkuk Emmanuel
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- sweetnoxy at 9-03-2010 09:27 AM (13 years ago)
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All i can say is that u hv to take a time off - if possible, tel her to stop comin 2 ya place 4 a while & use dat time to think abt d whole relship - wat attractd u to her, why u think she's not d rite one, wat exactly u want in a relship, wat u think she can offer... Take time to weigh all these & u'l kno d nxt step to take. If d nxt step is to leave her, the earlier u do it, d better, so she won't miss other opportunities.
Posted: at 9-03-2010 09:27 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gab-boy at 9-03-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Don-Hab on  7-03-2010 03:25 PM
i find it difult to tell this girl its over, i dont call, i dont visit her but she keeps comming about three or four times in a week. and calls about four five times a day. i dont want to hurt her feelings at the same time she not the one for me.

pls pals what do i do?

My dear ignore all this rubbish people are telling you here! If you have had a serious thought and concluded that she is not the one, I will advise you to call her and end things in a nice way. Example, tell her that it was nice knowing her and that you enjoyed all the times you have been together, however, you do not think that this relationship has a future. It will not be easy or fair on her but, the earlier you do this the better for the both of you. She may hurt but will get over it after sometime. Who knows she may even meet someone better that you, who will appreciate her more than you did. Yourself can move on with your own life and hopefully find that right one. Listen man, having sex or not has no meaning as far as i am concern. She had sex with you too, so there we go. Good luck and I hope you come the other end with a sigh of relief.
Posted: at 9-03-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- belindajustins at 9-03-2010 11:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Dranatomy on  9-03-2010 05:06 AM
Quote from: belindajustins on  8-03-2010 10:19 AM
rather than treat her badly, why not be a man, sit her down, and tell her wot u have in mind.  I think dat is the best and matured way to break up without any form of quarrel
let him first sit you down and say its over...
what's ur own advice???
Posted: at 9-03-2010 11:00 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyirimba at 9-03-2010 11:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Vixenx on  7-03-2010 05:08 PM
Quote from: Don-Hab on  7-03-2010 04:39 PM
Quote from: Vixenx on  7-03-2010 04:32 PM
Quote from: Don-Hab on  7-03-2010 03:25 PM
i find it difult to tell this girl its over, i dont call, i dont visit her but she keeps comming about three or four times in a week. and calls about four five times a day. i dont want to hurt her feelings at the same time she not the one for me.

pls pals what do i do?

Stop fcuking her and she will stop coming around, she keeps coming for a reason and you keep giving her the reason to keep coming back, like duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  Cheesy
am not phyuking her after i discovered she cant doit well


That's not fair to ditch her after fuking her cuz now it seems like you only used her for sex; you should apologize to her instead of ignoring her because doing that will only make the matter worst and don't do that again.


Posted: at 9-03-2010 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dee4evr at 9-03-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago)
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pple meet and break up everyday for one reason or the other. No doubt its not easy to say goodbye to some one but u must summon up the courage to do it.

But I dont think its fair whn u dump sumone bcos u feel he/she cant perform. thats selfish. love does not look out for selfish interest. it serves and that is what makes the world go round.
Posted: at 9-03-2010 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- doctorlov at 9-03-2010 01:22 PM (13 years ago)
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WHAT ARE  THE REASONS WHY YOU DON'T WANT HER AGAIN.MAYBE U R THE TYPE THAT USES AND DUMP.PLEASE LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND NEVER YOU KILL IT.

Posted: at 9-03-2010 01:22 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- timaluv at 9-03-2010 01:55 PM (13 years ago)
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you just have to let her its over, cause by not calling or visiting, you are hurting her the more.
Posted: at 9-03-2010 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- famous5 at 9-03-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago)
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I HOPE SAY HIM DEY HEAR ALL THIS ADVICE
Posted: at 9-03-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- luvvy at 9-03-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Don-Hab on  7-03-2010 03:25 PM
i find it difult to tell this girl its over, i dont call, i dont visit her but she keeps comming about three or four times in a week. and calls about four five times a day. i dont want to hurt her feelings at the same time she not the one for me.

pls pals what do i do?

i suggest u play storm is over by R.kelly for her, then everything will be over
Posted: at 9-03-2010 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Casoul at 9-03-2010 07:46 PM (13 years ago)
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put yaself in her shoe and be more careful next tym!
Posted: at 9-03-2010 07:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- C-boy at 10-03-2010 02:46 PM (13 years ago)
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why does the attention always spring up from nowhere just when u think it's all over,huh?
Anyways who says u cant be friends after a break up. Make up ur mind on wat u really want cos if u cant handle her presence, u might end up getting involved in deeper S**t dat could break both ur hearts.have a chat with her & set ur boundaries, then see if she'll maintain the frequency of her visits

Posted: at 10-03-2010 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- inye at 10-03-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago)
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U no that u are not ready 4 marriage why did u get a girl jus to break her heart why not wait till u are martured enough to get married be4 u hang around any Girl..........so is now a must u must marry her okay
Posted: at 10-03-2010 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- wonderfulGod at 10-03-2010 06:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Don-Hab on  7-03-2010 04:38 PM
thanks pals



All is up to you alone. you alone can stop her cfrom coming your and you alone can let her be coming your way.
Posted: at 10-03-2010 06:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Don-Hab at 10-03-2010 07:38 PM (13 years ago)
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inye am fully ready and mature for marriage, and that is what am looking for so i beter get the right girl or else i'll b making the bigest mistake of my life.
Posted: at 10-03-2010 07:38 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- enc4life at 10-03-2010 09:19 PM (13 years ago)
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carry ur cross alone
Posted: at 10-03-2010 09:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- collinslv at 10-03-2010 09:53 PM (13 years ago)
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good talk?
Posted: at 10-03-2010 09:53 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- zobachizoba at 11-03-2010 05:02 PM (13 years ago)
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hahahah!!! let me tell u, u bet call her and hold her, after u hav enter her u wnet to live her not try it okey.
Posted: at 11-03-2010 05:02 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- docreala at 11-03-2010 05:10 PM (13 years ago)
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i no dey here
Posted: at 11-03-2010 05:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akjasper at 12-03-2010 04:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Don-Hab on  7-03-2010 03:25 PM
i find it difult to tell this girl its over, i dont call, i dont visit her but she keeps comming about three or four times in a week. and calls about four five times a day. i dont want to hurt her feelings at the same time she not the one for me.

pls pals what do i do?

Jst make sure she comes to meet ya wit another babe @ home !
Posted: at 12-03-2010 04:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- cuttle at 12-03-2010 11:25 AM (13 years ago)
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there is nothing as bad as dumping a girl after so much sacrifice, hopes and luv. guy dats not fair enough, pls luv her back after all you started it. 
Posted: at 12-03-2010 11:25 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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