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well from my own view must people marry white for two reasons either for permit of stay in europe or for wealth, few of these people marry for love so thats why u see must marriages does not last cos of different culture. Reply
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Quote from: justi on 15-03-2010 12:44 PM well from my own view must people marry white for two reasons either for permit of stay in europe or for wealth, few of these people marry for love so thats why u see must marriages does not last cos of different culture. hmm yeah i also see it a lot her ein Belgium, people just marry for papers...but there are realy also a lot of people who marry for the right reasons ![]() And yes sometimes is difficult to keep^ur relationship going well when there is mixed culture, but the secret is understanding,respect and honesty i guess...
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that is true girl Reply
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cuz dey are better than black chicks Reply
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Quote from: gab-boy on 9-03-2010 10:35 AM I have often seen people frown at young nigerians marrying or even dating whites. Can somebody tell me what could be the main reason behind this frownings or infact what is wrong with it. Thanks people. There is nothing wrong with it........!
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I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man. ReplyI hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive with themselves then end up marrying the wrong kind of white women and she is only marrying him for his money. White Women get everything ![]() ![]()
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i have read, heard and discuss this topic...i would lie and say thgat if i saw a black brother with a white chick i did not think for just a sec why in the world he is with her....id funny cause i wasa honeslty reading about this in the magazine the essence where jill scott speaks of her personal view ans she was quite blunt and honest.....for me it is the reasin that a black man dates a white woman that bothers me....here in the ststes alot of celebrites marry white white woman more than black woman...and the reason of why is what hurts me has a black woman.....if you choose to marry and or date a white woman genuinely b/c you like her and are attrwacted her ...thats all good and fine but if u say it is b/c black woman is this or that that ius where i get seriously offended....another reason that some black woman feel a bit awkward about it is becase we still feel the pain of the slave days of when a black man would be hanged just for looking at a black man hwile the woman was raped and considered nothing...then the bonds we had were very very very strong but now its nothing,....i dont hate it i just some how feel some kind of un ease eveytime i see it.....trust me i dont lose sleep over it but it sure makes me think for some secs.... Reply
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Quote from: gab-boy on 9-03-2010 10:35 AM I have often seen people frown at young nigerians marrying or even dating whites. Can somebody tell me what could be the main reason behind this frownings or infact what is wrong with it. Thanks people. A whole lot of folks av different reasons for doin diz......But for a few,i think its where they tend 2 find happiness.
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hmm what should i say as a white woman is true some guys will marry white s for paper that s true but there is also people that will marry for love for the white ladies if u r not sure that he really loves u dont marry him fast u can wait some years befor u marry if he loves u he will wait Reply
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nothing period Reply
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Quote from: lashaedq on 16-03-2010 03:49 AM I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man. I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive with themselves then end up marrying the wrong kind of white women and she is only marrying him for his money. White Women get everything ![]() ![]() why do u think white women get everythin ? Believe me, i dont have everything..and the things i have, i had to work hard for it !! Do u know how many black people (that moved from africa to europe) they tell me, they didn't know it was like this... Thay think it's heaven on earth and everything is so easy, the money comes like rain, and so on...is not true ! For everything u need diploma, even for tomato farm ![]() 1000 documents... They are so suprised when they see homeless people on the street begging for money..cuz they never thought it happens
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i see nothing wrong in it ..but each time i tell my mum that i will like to marry a white woman she will be angry to the extent that she said if i try it she will not bless the marriage......and children might not come out of it......... it is confusing Reply
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IF YOU LIKE HER GENUINELY WITH OUT BRING BLACK WOMAN DOWN BEING YOUR REASON OF DATING WHITE IM COOL.....IT IS THE SAME WAY I FEEL ABOUT MEN WHO DOWN DARK SKIN WOMEN.....IF I WAS A LIGHTER SHADE AND A GUY TOLD ME HE ONLY DATED LIGHT SKIN WOMEN B/C D/C SKIN WAS UGLY I WOULD BE OFFENDED......JUST LIKE HE OR SHE OR WHO THEY ARE ...CHARACTHER Reply
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-03-2010 01:26 PM Quote from: lashaedq on 16-03-2010 03:49 AM I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man. I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive with themselves then end up marrying the wrong kind of white women and she is only marrying him for his money. White Women get everything ![]() ![]() why do u think white women get everythin ? Believe me, i dont have everything..and the things i have, i had to work hard for it !! Do u know how many black people (that moved from africa to europe) they tell me, they didn't know it was like this... Thay think it's heaven on earth and everything is so easy, the money comes like rain, and so on...is not true ! For everything u need diploma, even for tomato farm ![]() 1000 documents... They are so suprised when they see homeless people on the street begging for money..cuz they never thought it happens That is true and I def understand that... but in the states it is kinda different African American were enslaved 365 yrs and we still have to fight to have equal pay and have the same privledges as the majority..... I understand that it is just a part of life and I am not racist Just some White women in the states get with black men and throw it our faces.
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there are few pros and cons Reply
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there are pros and cons Reply![]() ![]()
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Quote from: lashaedq on 18-03-2010 04:09 AM Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-03-2010 01:26 PM Quote from: lashaedq on 16-03-2010 03:49 AM I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man. I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive with themselves then end up marrying the wrong kind of white women and she is only marrying him for his money. White Women get everything ![]() ![]() why do u think white women get everythin ? Believe me, i dont have everything..and the things i have, i had to work hard for it !! Do u know how many black people (that moved from africa to europe) they tell me, they didn't know it was like this... Thay think it's heaven on earth and everything is so easy, the money comes like rain, and so on...is not true ! For everything u need diploma, even for tomato farm ![]() 1000 documents... They are so suprised when they see homeless people on the street begging for money..cuz they never thought it happens That is true and I def understand that... but in the states it is kinda different African American were enslaved 365 yrs and we still have to fight to have equal pay and have the same privledges as the majority..... I understand that it is just a part of life and I am not racist Just some White women in the states get with black men and throw it our faces. yeah i understand...and u are right for that...Life in the states is also totaly diff... Anyway i stole one of ur sexy black brothers,hope u dont hate me for it ![]() ![]()
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yeah i understand...and u are right for that...Life in the states is also totaly diff... Anyway i stole one of ur sexy black brothers,hope u dont hate me for it ![]() ![]() [/quote] haha I dont I freakin love you! ![]()
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African mentality. . . Reply![]() By d way i wanna marry chinko. . . ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! ![]() ![]()
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