What is wrong in marrying a white man or woman (Page 2)

Date: 09-03-2010 10:35 am (15 years ago) | Author: Gab
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- edubrazo at 15-03-2010 11:07 AM (15 years ago)
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nothing much , is good to see such happening in our country nigeria
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- justi at 15-03-2010 12:44 PM (15 years ago)
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well from my own view must people marry white for two reasons either for permit of stay in europe or for wealth, few of these people marry for love so thats why u see must marriages does not last cos of different culture.
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- FlyMamacita at 15-03-2010 01:39 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: justi on 15-03-2010 12:44 PM
well from my own view must people marry white for two reasons either for permit of stay in europe or for wealth, few of these people marry for love so thats why u see must marriages does not last cos of different culture.

hmm yeah i also see it a lot her ein Belgium, people just marry for papers...but there are realy also
a lot of people who marry for the right reasons  Smiley

And yes sometimes is difficult to keep^ur relationship going well when there is mixed culture, but the secret is
understanding,respect and honesty i guess...
Posted: at 15-03-2010 01:39 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- justi at 15-03-2010 01:54 PM (15 years ago)
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that is true girl
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- Keffejude at 16-03-2010 12:45 AM (15 years ago)
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cuz dey are better than black chicks
Posted: at 16-03-2010 12:45 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akjasper at 16-03-2010 03:18 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: gab-boy on  9-03-2010 10:35 AM
I have often seen people frown at young nigerians marrying or even dating whites. Can somebody tell me what could be the main reason behind this frownings or infact what is wrong with it. Thanks people.

There is nothing wrong with it........!
Posted: at 16-03-2010 03:18 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- lashaedq at 16-03-2010 03:49 AM (15 years ago)
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I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man.
I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive  with themselves  then end up marrying  the wrong kind
of white women and she is only marrying him for his money.

White Women get everything    Roll Eyes so I dont want to see them get my sexy black brothers too, I am just sayin   Kiss
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- nigerianraised at 16-03-2010 06:10 AM (15 years ago)
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i have read, heard and discuss this topic...i would lie and say thgat if i saw a black brother with a white chick i did not think for just a sec why in the world he is with her....id funny cause i wasa honeslty reading about this in the magazine the essence where jill scott speaks of her personal view ans she was quite blunt and honest.....for me it is the reasin that a black man dates a white woman that bothers me....here in the ststes alot of celebrites marry white white woman more than black woman...and the reason of why is what hurts me has a black woman.....if you choose to marry and or date a white woman genuinely b/c you like her and are attrwacted her ...thats all good and fine but if u say it is b/c black woman is this or that that ius where i get seriously offended....another reason that some black woman feel a bit awkward about it is becase we still feel the pain of the slave days of when a black man would be hanged just for looking at a black man hwile the woman was raped and considered nothing...then the bonds we had were very very very strong but now its nothing,....i dont hate it i just some how feel some kind of un ease eveytime i see it.....trust me i dont lose sleep over it but it sure makes me think for some secs....
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- Tuks at 16-03-2010 06:38 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: gab-boy on  9-03-2010 10:35 AM
I have often seen people frown at young nigerians marrying or even dating whites. Can somebody tell me what could be the main reason behind this frownings or infact what is wrong with it. Thanks people.
A whole lot of folks av different reasons for doin diz......But for a few,i think its where they tend 2 find happiness.
Posted: at 16-03-2010 06:38 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- queenjacky at 16-03-2010 11:19 AM (15 years ago)
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hmm what should i say as a white woman  is true some guys will marry white s for paper that s  true but there is also people that will marry for love for the white ladies if u r not sure  that he really loves u dont marry him fast u can wait some years befor u marry  if he loves u he will wait
Posted: at 16-03-2010 11:19 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- princedafe at 16-03-2010 11:29 AM (15 years ago)
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nothing period
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- FlyMamacita at 16-03-2010 01:26 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: lashaedq on 16-03-2010 03:49 AM
I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man.
I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive  with themselves  then end up marrying  the wrong kind
of white women and she is only marrying him for his money.

White Women get everything    Roll Eyes so I dont want to see them get my sexy black brothers too, I am just sayin   Kiss

why do u think white women get everythin ? Believe me, i dont have everything..and the things i have, i had to work hard for it !!
Do u know how many black people (that moved from africa to europe) they tell me, they didn't know it was like this...
Thay think it's heaven on earth and everything is so easy, the money comes like rain, and so on...is not true !
For everything u need diploma, even for tomato farm  Undecided  everything is expensive, and for everything u wanna do (buisness) u need
1000 documents... They are so suprised when they see homeless people on the street begging for money..cuz they never thought it happens
Posted: at 16-03-2010 01:26 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- djfabulous87 at 16-03-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago)
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i see nothing wrong in it ..but each time i tell my mum that i will like to marry a white woman she will be angry to the extent that she said if i try it she will not bless the marriage......and children might not come out of it......... it is confusing
Posted: at 16-03-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- nigerianraised at 17-03-2010 06:10 AM (15 years ago)
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IF YOU LIKE HER GENUINELY WITH OUT BRING BLACK WOMAN DOWN BEING YOUR REASON OF DATING WHITE IM COOL.....IT IS THE SAME WAY I FEEL ABOUT MEN WHO DOWN DARK SKIN WOMEN.....IF I WAS A LIGHTER SHADE AND A GUY TOLD ME HE ONLY DATED LIGHT SKIN WOMEN B/C D/C SKIN WAS UGLY I WOULD BE OFFENDED......JUST LIKE HE OR SHE OR WHO THEY ARE ...CHARACTHER
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- lashaedq at 18-03-2010 04:09 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-03-2010 01:26 PM
Quote from: lashaedq on 16-03-2010 03:49 AM
I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man.
I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive  with themselves  then end up marrying  the wrong kind
of white women and she is only marrying him for his money.

White Women get everything    Roll Eyes so I dont want to see them get my sexy black brothers too, I am just sayin   Kiss

why do u think white women get everythin ? Believe me, i dont have everything..and the things i have, i had to work hard for it !!
Do u know how many black people (that moved from africa to europe) they tell me, they didn't know it was like this...
Thay think it's heaven on earth and everything is so easy, the money comes like rain, and so on...is not true !
For everything u need diploma, even for tomato farm  Undecided  everything is expensive, and for everything u wanna do (buisness) u need
1000 documents... They are so suprised when they see homeless people on the street begging for money..cuz they never thought it happens

That is true and I def understand that... but in the states it is kinda different  African American were enslaved 365 yrs and we still have to fight to have equal pay and have the same  privledges as the majority..... I understand that it is just a part of life and I am not racist Just some White women in the states get with  black men and throw it our faces.
Posted: at 18-03-2010 04:09 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- osinakaigwe at 18-03-2010 04:55 AM (15 years ago)
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there are few pros and cons
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- osinakaigwe at 18-03-2010 04:57 AM (15 years ago)
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there are pros and cons  Undecided Cool
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- FlyMamacita at 18-03-2010 02:17 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: lashaedq on 18-03-2010 04:09 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 16-03-2010 01:26 PM
Quote from: lashaedq on 16-03-2010 03:49 AM
I Think it is only a problem if the guy feel that the White women Validates him as a man.
I hate when I see men that are successful and doing something positive  with themselves  then end up marrying  the wrong kind
of white women and she is only marrying him for his money.

White Women get everything    Roll Eyes so I dont want to see them get my sexy black brothers too, I am just sayin   Kiss

why do u think white women get everythin ? Believe me, i dont have everything..and the things i have, i had to work hard for it !!
Do u know how many black people (that moved from africa to europe) they tell me, they didn't know it was like this...
Thay think it's heaven on earth and everything is so easy, the money comes like rain, and so on...is not true !
For everything u need diploma, even for tomato farm  Undecided  everything is expensive, and for everything u wanna do (buisness) u need
1000 documents... They are so suprised when they see homeless people on the street begging for money..cuz they never thought it happens

That is true and I def understand that... but in the states it is kinda different  African American were enslaved 365 yrs and we still have to fight to have equal pay and have the same  privledges as the majority..... I understand that it is just a part of life and I am not racist Just some White women in the states get with  black men and throw it our faces.

yeah i understand...and u are right for that...Life in the states is also totaly diff...
Anyway i stole one of ur sexy black brothers,hope u dont hate me for it  Grin Kiss
Posted: at 18-03-2010 02:17 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- lashaedq at 19-03-2010 09:35 PM (15 years ago)
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yeah i understand...and u are right for that...Life in the states is also totaly diff...
Anyway i stole one of ur sexy black brothers,hope u dont hate me for it  Grin Kiss
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haha I dont I freakin love you!  Smiley Im am Lashae wuts your name?
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- PreetyInstinct at 20-03-2010 12:14 AM (15 years ago)
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African mentality. . . Undecided


By d way i wanna marry chinko. . .
Wink Cheesy Smiley Tongue

Posted: at 20-03-2010 12:14 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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