Would you allow your daughter become second wife? (Page 4)

I saw a new notification about this topic and cannot but sign in to submit my comment on it. Here is what i have to say. To the question, my answer will neither be YES or NO.  Ofcourse, i will wish my daughter all the best in life but i recorgnise the fact that her fate is in the hands of God. I believe so much in destiny. Whatever you may do or refuse to do, destiny has a way of coming to play in one's life. Polygamy might be seen to be bad, but i have see those who are in it and are happy. We tend to attribute everything to religion. I have never come across a verse in the Bible where it was specifically instructed that thou shall not marry two wives. I stand to be corrected please. All we tend to be doing is following the white in all they do. I have lived with the white enough to study their life-style. Many of these white men and women are with their fifth wife or husband. And each of their marriage was not without kids. The only difference is that the men are not married to two women at the same time. African culture and values are far better than that of these people we tend to copy all the time. People should not make us look bad. We have seen those in a monogamous relationship without any joy of marriage and we have seen many in a polygamous one with all the joy and satisfaction that one can think of. For those who think it is easier in a monogamous relationship, i advice you to pray to your God not to fall into the wrong hands. You will prefer to be married to a married man than that killer monogamous relationship you find yourself. Let's stop this abhorrence for polygamy, please. It is not that terrible as people look at it.