Women keeping their maiden names after marriage (Direspectful?) (Page 6)

Date: 23-03-2010 8:25 am (15 years ago) | Author: albert blessing omohere
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- akibirna at 23-03-2011 09:01 PM (14 years ago)
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This is one of the causes of divorce because some women nowadays are no more willing to do thier duties. Look at what some women are saying here, insisting on keeping their fathers names after being llegally married to their husbands. I know a lady that got married and still insisting on keeping her maiden name, their marriage lasted for just 6months. See what some women are causing and they will say,men are really bad.Better you go and stay in your father´s house.
Posted: at 23-03-2011 09:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- rymuda at 23-03-2011 09:09 PM (14 years ago)
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everyone should be known by his/her real name.
Posted: at 23-03-2011 09:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- adelekekool at 24-03-2011 11:50 AM (14 years ago)
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A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname.

God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o. 
 
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   Women keeping their maiden names after marriage (Direspectful?)
« posted : 11 months ago (March 24, 2010, 03:05:44 PM) »   

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Nothing is bad there, as i am i like my maiden name so crime keeping it.
 
 
make una ask una mama why she change her maiden name to ur papa name, if u love ur papa name why u no marry ur papa instead? chicken pikin dem.
Posted: at 24-03-2011 11:50 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- interpo77 at 24-03-2011 06:07 PM (14 years ago)
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hmm, am only lookiong for women that can be submissive to me, caring and lovely, if she likes, she can keep her dad,s  name, waiting concern me,only ma pikins go carry ma surname, case settled
Posted: at 24-03-2011 06:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 24-03-2011 06:16 PM (14 years ago)
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reading.
Posted: at 24-03-2011 06:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Veevuzela at 24-03-2011 06:22 PM (14 years ago)
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I have absolutely no problem with adopting my husband's name whenever i get married. it is actually smthg i look 4wrd to, although smtimes i joke with my sisters n tell them that i hp itz a nice last name...lol. pple who hv made reference to not wanting 2 leave their father's name, i urge u to think abt it bc bearing ur husband's name takes nothg away from the relationship you have with ur father. it doesn't mk u love him any less so y make a fuss abt this?
Posted: at 24-03-2011 06:22 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- 2slimshady at 26-03-2011 05:20 PM (14 years ago)
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ok oh.
Posted: at 26-03-2011 05:20 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- juju_mj at 29-03-2011 03:31 PM (14 years ago)
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 I WILL NEVER CHANGE MY NAME FOR ANY BOY! OK WON'T BOYS CHANGE THERE OWN,??THE NAME I HAVE IS WHAT MY LOVLY PARENTS GAVE TO ME..AND IT WILL ALWAYS REMAIN LIKE DAT. is not DISRESPECTFUL Grin
Posted: at 29-03-2011 03:31 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- moniconyez at 29-03-2011 03:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: juju_mj on 29-03-2011 03:31 PM
I WILL NEVER CHANGE MY NAME FOR ANY BOY! OK WON'T BOYS CHANGE THERE OWN,??THE NAME I HAVE IS WHAT MY LOVLY PARENTS GAVE TO ME..AND IT WILL ALWAYS REMAIN LIKE DAT. is not DISRESPECTFUL Grin


This girl sef.......You are funny . So na boy you wan marry no be man?lol

Anyway they didnt say you should change your name when married, but your father's name/surname. Will you retain your father's family name in your HUSBAND'S HOUSE?
Posted: at 29-03-2011 03:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- rachidatou at 29-03-2011 10:55 PM (14 years ago)
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femme apartient homme et est le pere de la maison la femme ne portera jamains le patalon au lit .si tu veus ta dignite de femme tu portera le nom de ton mari, c´est bien respecteuse se nom de ton mari de donnera le courage de reste au foyer et oubliera le passer dans ton jeunesse. Kiss
Posted: at 29-03-2011 10:55 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- moniconyez at 30-03-2011 07:58 AM (14 years ago)
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NO BE FRENCH GET THIS SITE , NA NAIJA GET AM. SO DO US A FAVOR AND WRITE IN PIDGIN OK?
Posted: at 30-03-2011 07:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- rachidatou at 30-03-2011 10:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: rachidatou on 29-03-2011 10:55 PM
femme apartient homme et est le pere de la maison la femme ne portera jamains le patalon au lit .si tu veus ta dignite de femme tu portera le nom de ton mari, c´est bien respecteuse se nom de ton mari de donnera le courage de reste au foyer et oubliera le passer dans ton jeunesse. Kiss
Cool
Posted: at 30-03-2011 10:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- omohere at 25-06-2011 09:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: moniconyez on 30-03-2011 07:58 AM
NO BE FRENCH GET THIS SITE , NA NAIJA GET AM. SO DO US A FAVOR AND WRITE IN PIDGIN OK?
lol...... I no get strenght to laugh.
Posted: at 25-06-2011 09:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- omohere at 25-06-2011 09:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Omapri on 22-03-2011 06:36 PM
IT DOESN'T NOT MATTER THE WOMAN CAN KEEP HER MAIDEN NAME IF SHE WANTS...DAT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING ALL THAT MATTERS IS U AVE THE RING!!!!!!!!!!!! N U LOVE UR PARTNER
what i'm saying is i can't throw away my dad's  name completely. I will bear the husband's name but my dad's name inclusive......... Ah! Ah! We even have Nigerians that do it na. I dont even want to start mentioning women who did not even put their husband's name totaly. We should try amd wake from this local and uncivilized mentality.
Posted: at 25-06-2011 09:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- omohere at 25-06-2011 09:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kethey on 22-03-2011 06:43 PM
Huh? Huh? Huh?@ poster, its a free world....keep ur father's name if u wish.... rubbish!!!! Angry Angry

pls u dont have to be rude......this is a mture debate.
Posted: at 25-06-2011 09:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- omohere at 25-06-2011 10:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Expresslady on 22-03-2011 06:55 PM
since im d only 1 for my parents i decided to keep my maiden name,
just 2 honour my father since he has no son, my hubby agreed and
i added his family name 2 it, makes it a compound name. So what!!!!!!
it's sound much beta than my hubby's family name Grin Grin Grin
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can u guys see a good reason. And i thank God for the mature man that will allow his wife keep her name. I luv that girl.
Posted: at 25-06-2011 10:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- preciouslyme at 27-06-2011 07:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2010 03:16 PM
I see nothing wrong in changing from my dad's to my huby's.......

noted and respected  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 27-06-2011 07:31 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tobabamitale at 27-06-2011 09:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mmalerato on 23-03-2010 11:14 AM
Quote from: omohere on 23-03-2010 08:25 AM
I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?

A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname.
I'm sorry for you. I'm very sure, you are not a virtious woman.
Posted: at 27-06-2011 09:00 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Susiebabe at 27-06-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: famous5 on 23-03-2010 12:29 PM
Huh?

Which one be double barren surname?
Posted: at 27-06-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Susiebabe at 27-06-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: enc4life on 26-03-2010 09:14 PM
niaja is fast loosin out her cultures, one day wmen go start to dey pay dowry for man head

You no current ooo. I no see one no be dem say
Posted: at 27-06-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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