Must ladies have sex with men before they can marry them ? (Page 5)

Girls help me out with this - there was a good guy, very rich, when I said rich , I mean he has too much money, handsome + God fearing, and his pastor friend introduced his sister inlaw to him, bcos he was searching for a girl with wife material, but as a rich man ladies love him bcos of his wealth, then as he was dating that girl whom was introduced by his pastor friend, one day, the lady passed the weekend in his house, both of them slept in the same bed, but as a child of God, he didn"t touch  her, then the next day, the lady told her sister the pastor's wife that she will Never marry that man bcos he is not a man, that she is very beautiful and has  everything that can make a blind to see and deaf to talk, but it doesn"t move that man, she later got married to another man, When I heard that I thought that she was crazy, but since then till now, ladies are still repeating the same thing, Plz ladies in the house could u plz help some christian guys who wanted to Make heaven out by giving us good answer (definition ) ok!