Am in a jam, she is hot tempered (Page 2)

Well guy, if u think the relationship isn`t gonna workout, i beg quit now b/4 it gets out of hand. Cos we can only give suggestions,opinions, advices but we`ll not be there to live wif u. So be wise

Posted: at 7-04-2010 05:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

guy i won't advice you to leave the girl; just keep doing what you are doing to her, always put are in prayer for your self because if you think she not the best. an you made another wrong mistake, by someone who hide her attitude and when you married her she is worst er the she is. ask many married man about there home they have story to tell  

Posted: at 7-04-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Guy!dump that gurl and look for a better one if u dont want to die of stroke.
I knw it was bcos of her beauty that attracted u to her,no be all fine babe be 99% confirm,one thing or the oda go must disqualify them.Anyway,tell her ur parents and the elders in ur village did not support u  marrying her.
U be guyman naa,luk for sweet lie evacuate her frm ur life.

Posted: at 7-04-2010 06:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Oga, na your cross and you go carry am, all the same no body can not be worked upon, she has got a very hot temper, but you need to be diplomatic when relating with her, know her dislikes and keep away from them, apply maintain less conversation with her and also avoid jokes. i think if this can be done, either of this could happen, she either cope with your new way of life and align her self to your will or she eject herself voluntarily.  

Posted: at 7-04-2010 06:31 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

U must realise that she's Mentally abusing U maybe also physically. these are types of Domestic Violence.4 u not to stay as a Victim and to rise claiming ur inner peace u must confront her telling her on the abuse she's performing on you consiously or subconsiously.That U took enough and cannot continue because it ate ur relationship.NOW AFTER ALL THIS TELL HER ITS PERMANANTLY OVER!!!I would suggest that you got a close friend around maybe in the next room in case she explodes again,yet,having her down for a talk I don't think tha she would!!

Posted: at 7-04-2010 07:11 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

tell her u dont love her anymore.. its the truth becasue if the reason u want to leave her is cos of her temper then u don't love her enought to be able to deal with it. If u loved her u would try to help her with this hot temper problem shes havin. 

Posted: at 7-04-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

..wat an answer...hahahahaha

Posted: at 7-04-2010 08:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Ok

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Posted: at 7-04-2010 10:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

in challenges abound limitless opporturnities.i think you are not ready to pick up responsibilities.Trying to lay her off bcos of her temper is enough to proves you incapacitated.love her the more n try to correct her and then observe if she will not change.love settles all things bro.na man de rule woman

Posted: at 8-04-2010 12:25 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

well u knpo what u want, so no man can dictate 4 u,if u a very sure that u dont want her again let her undastand that n stand ur ground not sayi no n yes,she is jux using woman power on u n once u fall a vitim,it bcom everlasty cross that u ve to bear,mind u breakage in courtship is beta of mariage.S  H  I  N  E    U R  E Y  E OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Posted: at 8-04-2010 12:42 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie