Why Men Cheat........ (Page 2)

Give a guy a break, If you girls hadn't resigned your fate to the misconception that a man must be unfaithful, you would have given your personal relationships more effort and all would have been well. Life is give and receive, not all recieve. Have you ever heard of a man who cheated on his mistress? at times, not even with his wife... WHY? Wake up girls... Don't give up. There are women that know exactly how to keep a their men so much they end up being accused of using juju and the man will defend them to the last whether its true or false. Think

Posted: at 23-11-2007 12:16 PM (17 years ago) | Hero

For all the girls complaining, don't worry, when you become women, you'll either have hopelessly resigned your fate to the misconception that a man must cheat on you and end up never enjoying deeply the love of anyman, or would have understood men enough to be the one who really calls the shots. Men have needs, just like women do... If you meet a man's needs, It'll be close to impossible for him to have the heart to stray except you've got yourself a greedy, immature and insensitive beast for a man which is uncommon if you knew what you were doing at the start of the relationship. Look at it ths way, boys like toys. they want the latest and best toy that beats everything on the market. If something "better" comes out, they want it. Same with men and cars... Its not so different with our women. Once you stop growing, you start dying. Lets face it, we all have some form of competition to beat most times in our lives. You've got to keep growing. No man ever left a woman that facinated him. Be a mystry... Soon you'l be the one chosing the men and duration. You don't have to be a mistress, but you can surely learn from them. Cheers

Posted: at 23-11-2007 12:58 PM (17 years ago) | Hero

Sorry you ever had a friend like that. Now that is a peculiar case. You shouldnt get stereotyped cos of that. That guy... Well he spoke for himself. Guess that's how much I have to say.

Posted: at 23-11-2007 06:09 PM (17 years ago) | Hero

TO MY OWN POINT OF VIEW I WILL SAY LUST OF THE EYEZ. bcos it's just sad, i have a whole bunch of friendz who are guyz, any time we chilling 2gether on campus they upset me bcos they keep on stearing at every shortie that passes by. that is just insane they just wanna f them, which is bad, they are like a street dogz. we just have to live with their styl bcos their is not we can do 4 now. some married ladies cause this bcos i observe that some married women who dress like hell before marriage dress like a deeper life woman after marriage, then her hubby will be like "is this the woman i got married to or wat" u just gotta be sexy and classic to ur man. also young gurlz of now adayz are just crazy i won't lie we all are crazi bcos we just wanna dress naked so y won't da guyz fall into temptation yo know they control it y then tempt them. yo should not lie when a cuite guy or something good and nice won't u admire it yes u will but the difference is dat most gurlz can handle it but guy nahhhhhhhhh just few of them.

Posted: at 24-11-2007 04:52 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie

All men loves honeypot...unless they prefer dicks..which is fine for them...so they gon cheat no matter what...just don't let me find out about it cause he aint gonna have a dick anymore............

Posted: at 2-01-2008 04:41 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

guys n ladies alike cheat, for men quite glaring n 4 d ladies quite a pretence hard detect one can say!!! but wateva i tink the only way to avoid cheating is by using wat i call d 3 keys (TRUST, CONSCIENCE and RESPECT), these 3 keys always makes the magic in any kind of relationship (marital or just being frnds). IF U VE CONSCIENCE U WILL NOT CHEAT (do on to others wat u'd like othrs do to u)>> IF U RESPECT UR PARTNER U ALSO WILL NOT CHEAT ON HIM/HER EVEN IF TEMPTED TO >>> IF U TRUST UR PARTNER U HARDLY GET TEMPTED TO CHEAT ON HIM/HER

Posted: at 3-01-2008 02:05 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

maybe u are of the few.......but i gotta agree with khadijah

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Posted: at 4-01-2008 02:54 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

patientlt waiting.......for the good answer.............

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Posted: at 4-01-2008 09:24 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero

This ur guy is definitely talkiing for himself and his friends (maybe). Every human have the will power, but it depends on how you use yours. Its in human nature to sin but God gives a conscience to know what you are doing. But due to ego and bad company most guys cheat ... I used to cheat cos i belief I am a guy and I could cope with many gurls without each one knowing and also to show my friends that I am a Gee. But come to think of it, when ur gurl do same to you, you start trouble.

I started guiding my life with this word .. Godliness with Contentment is a great gain ... thats what most of us guy lack... contentment, we all need it both guys and gals alike. There is no perfect guy / gal even that pretty one, but you need to be satisfied with wat you have and make your relationship the best.

I will point out here, not all guy cheat, even as bad a Sodom and Gomorah, Lots and his family still lived there.

Posted: at 13-01-2008 10:21 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

I'VE NEVER CHEATED...I'M PERFECT......

Posted: at 13-01-2008 10:30 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero