#BBNaija2018: "I Was Molested At Age Of 5 By Our Housemaid" – Housemate, Lolu Reveals

Date: 10-04-2018 12:18 am (7 years ago) | Author: success Xenab
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Big Brother Naija 2018 housemate, Lolu has revealed that he was molested at the age of five by a housemaid hired by his mother.

Lolu revealed this while speaking with Big Brother during his diary session on Monday.

He said he had to deal with the shame and never told anyone about it untill he turned 21.

Lolu said “I was molested at the age of 5 by my housemaid. I didn’t inform my mother at that time because she had challenges and was trying to keep the family.

“The maid would subject me to a lot of punishment and if I refuse, I had consequences which I cannot discuss on national Tv because it is too graphic.

“I finally told my younger sister about it when I turned 21.

“I’m saying this because I want people who have gone through this kind of assault to talk about it. The right thing to do is speak about it.

“Most people don’t know they have the right not to let such things affect them negatively or positively.

“Even though I’ve come to terms with it, I remember the incident sometimes.

“I have sought therapy sometimes, but I am not ashamed or sad about it. I have dealt with it for the past 24 years so I’m fine.”


Posted: at 10-04-2018 12:18 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
- Mashbol at 10-04-2018 05:09 AM (7 years ago)
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Parents must try to be closer to their children in spite of their tight schedule, take note of little things, ask them questions...
Posted: at 10-04-2018 05:09 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- slimber at 10-04-2018 05:37 AM (7 years ago)
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Hmmmm nah waaa I thot is only girls that encountered such
Posted: at 10-04-2018 05:37 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- EDDYPRINCE at 10-04-2018 07:59 AM (7 years ago)
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Kk heard
Posted: at 10-04-2018 07:59 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- nature7888 at 10-04-2018 08:33 AM (7 years ago)
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Kpele
Posted: at 10-04-2018 08:33 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ruthie at 10-04-2018 08:45 AM (7 years ago)
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THESE HELPS HAVE CAUSED MORE HARM THAN GOOD
Posted: at 10-04-2018 08:45 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- fineboy77 at 10-04-2018 09:29 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Mashbol on 10-04-2018 05:09 AM
Parents must try to be closer to their children in spite of their tight schedule, take note of little things, ask them questions...
True,but no be because of these liars wey full that BBN

Posted: at 10-04-2018 09:29 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- fineboy77 at 10-04-2018 09:29 AM (7 years ago)
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This is a made up story

Posted: at 10-04-2018 09:29 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- gogoman at 10-04-2018 10:26 AM (7 years ago)
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wetin dey pain am inside, say at age 5 he no fit fck the maid well well or wetin
Posted: at 10-04-2018 10:26 AM (7 years ago) | Grande Master
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- cypanyahucha at 10-04-2018 12:28 PM (7 years ago)
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Seen
Posted: at 10-04-2018 12:28 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 10-04-2018 03:40 PM (7 years ago)
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@ age 5, which challenges did you know your mother had. Huh? Huh?. Every celebrity always have an abuse story to tell.
Posted: at 10-04-2018 03:40 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- fineboy77 at 10-04-2018 11:03 PM (7 years ago)
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 Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 10-04-2018 11:03 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Torbem at 12-04-2018 12:21 AM (7 years ago)
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story story
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Posted: at 12-04-2018 12:21 AM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- EDDYPRINCE at 12-04-2018 12:29 AM (7 years ago)
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Be carefulllllll
Posted: at 12-04-2018 12:29 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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