A Nigerian man has been left bewildered and in total shock after discovering the chat his wife had with a married man – this said man upon discovering the chats, then took screenshots of it and shared it online.
As can be read from the chats, the woman belittles her husband and says she wondered what she sees in him in the first place that got her married to him – and as can also be seen, she has two children for him.
Saddened by this, the man took to Facebook to share, asking readers what his fate will be with his wife of 9 years… He wrote,
I am weeping inside of me, it’s a big burden to me. I came across this on my wife’s phone, I did the screen shots, transferred and deleted. She is not the worst person on earth, I just never expected this after 9 years. She do delete her messages with him after chatting, I coincidentally saw this.
I have always suspected something fishy but anytime I ask her to give me her phoene to make a call, she first deletes their chats. Your friends should advise me here please. With these,what chances do I have living with her ? Her chat with a Facebook married man. There is another one she was telling that she love him,but she came in and I had to drop her phone. I weep
See their chats below;
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Posted: at 10-04-2018 10:02 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
jacklyn111 at 10-04-2018 10:20 PM (7 years ago) (f)
Lobatan!!!
Posted: at 10-04-2018 10:20 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
EDDYPRINCE at 10-04-2018 11:22 PM (7 years ago) (m)
This man is living but dead, in fact that woman most leave my house to go marry that other man when still dry cheat on the wife. so both of them fit. but this is an abomination......
Posted: at 10-04-2018 11:22 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
It good to know that the man believe his wife is not the worst person on earth, that is the two edge sword to save or destroy his marriage, though he's not on the driving seat.
First the man need to made up his mind to continue or divorce his wife. Then let the cat out of the bag, let the wife know that he's aware of what is going on. Ask her what she want, if she want to continue or go her separate way. If she want to continue, then the man will need to forgive and try to forget. Can they trust each other? Would there be faithfulness?? Would they not kill each other???
Posted: at 11-04-2018 01:22 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
fineboy77 at 11-04-2018 07:48 AM (7 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Mashbol on 11-04-2018 01:22 AM
It good to know that the man believe his wife is not the worst person on earth, that is the two edge sword to save or destroy his marriage, though he's not on the driving seat.
First the man need to made up his mind to continue or divorce his wife. Then let the cat out of the bag, let the wife know that he's aware of what is going on. Ask her what she want, if she want to continue or go her separate way. If she want to continue, then the man will need to forgive and try to forget. Can they trust each other? Would there be faithfulness?? Would they not kill each other???
Those last 3 delicate questions answers the reason why they should go their separate ways
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 11-04-2018 07:48 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
ME SEF OPEN MY MOUTH...THIS CHATS CAN DRIVE ONE ALMOST INSANE....ABEG MY ADVISE, THE GUYS NEEDS TO COOL OFF IMMEDIATELY SOMEWHERE ELSE....BUT WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER...IF THE GUYS CHEATS, THEN HE SHOULD FORGIVE HER ...
Posted: at 11-04-2018 09:43 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
nature7888 at 11-04-2018 09:46 AM (7 years ago) (m)
I just smile at life most times. Has he taught about runing a DNA test on the kids? so sad man. moving on, on this kind of situation should be easy... But some will say it's not.. I feel for the man, the shame and trauma. Kplele guy
Posted: at 11-04-2018 09:46 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
God will help men of this age, the one that can endure wife insult and disregard may eventually die of high blood prerssure. But wait ooh since woman of this age love money so much so many thing have gone wrong in marriage, no tolerance, no love no respect no care. A woman will open her mouth and call his husband useless man, good for nothing , very stupid man. Hmmm it takes a very much matured calm man to endure insult from wife.
Posted: at 11-04-2018 09:58 AM (7 years ago) | Newbie