angel-one at 7-05-2010 05:11 PM (13 years ago) (m) Why not if the husband agrees to go wit her... Posted: at 7-05-2010 05:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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GEEONELTD at 7-05-2010 05:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) if her husband goes to club,they can go just like Hopea said but if the husband doesnt,hell nah wont let her. yea pls Posted: at 7-05-2010 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Kennee at 7-05-2010 06:01 PM (13 years ago) (m) y is dis a big deal? d woman can go clubbin if she want to....marriage dosent mean she shud stop livin...as long as she is comin home to her husband at the end of the night...she can even dance wit anoda man...as long as boundaries arnt crossed..its all abt trust n respect..if u hv a problem wit it u r just insecure......
No problem. If I had two lives to live, I'd pursue a girl like U and marry her in the first, then I'll show her what it means to be "secure." Won't argue won't fuss or fight. Shey U want to go clubbing, dance with any man and live Ur life in our home like U were still single and still come home to me. Monkey go see, Monkey go do. Two can play the game and one is bound to be better. bad as e be sef I go marry join U. Won't treat U bad for a day. Would just make U hate urself and the course U irresponsibly chose to live and not let go of. The sort of girls we have these days sef. no wonder guys no dey wan marry. U no go cross boundary but U wan play for border. Yu talk am well jare
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Kennee at 7-05-2010 06:02 PM (13 years ago) (m) Wetin she dey find for club...abi her husband dey work for there?
Very Good Question ooo
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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U don come! Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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my dear did ur wife go clubbing@posta Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Kennee at 7-05-2010 06:28 PM (13 years ago) (m) U don come!
Yes ooo Oya Serve Drink
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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emma101 at 14-05-2010 05:40 PM (13 years ago) (m) no is not good Posted: at 14-05-2010 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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chogzie at 14-05-2010 05:43 PM (13 years ago) (m) Nope Posted: at 14-05-2010 05:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Pires07 at 14-05-2010 09:48 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Topic....Sure both couples,can go together,n not either d husband goin witout d wife,n vice versa.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me. Posted: at 14-05-2010 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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akjasper at 15-05-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) One question asked which I think would interest a hand full of people is, should married women go clubbing? Though the question refers particularly to women, I think the same can be asked on married men. Is there a straight answer like Yes they can or No they shouldn’t? Marriage is a step into a new level of living, a different dimension a union that can either spell doom or bliss depending on the level of knowledge, wisdom and support possessed. One true fact is that you cannot continue to live as a single person after marriage. That would be recipe for argument, discord and perhaps divorce. Marriage demands new sets of rule, behaviours and attitudes in every aspect of your new life together. For every action and decision taken, your spouse needs to be considered. Back to the question about clubbing. First, what is the reason behind your desire to go clubbing? What are your intentions? Are they noble? Is your spouse comfortable with you going out clubbing? If your spouse went with you, would he/she be comfortable with your behaviour? I guess if these questions are genuinely thought true with a true heart, the answer would be quite obvious. The thought process should apply to other decisions you may have doubts about. In marriage it’s detrimental to take unilateral decisions without taking your spouse into consideration. Sometimes compromises need to be made to achieve harmony in the marriage. Other times you just have to agree to disagree on certain issues when a stale mate is reached. Both parties should apply equal efforts to making the union work, it’s more of a symbiotic relationship rather than parasitic. Sometimes the dominating or more outspoken spouse may tend to impose his/her desires and wishes on the other, while in the short term he/she may succeed, in the long run the outcome may not be pleasing. The crux of he matter is that both parties should dialogue and reach a decision they are both happy and comfortable with. Wit her husband sure ! Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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docreala at 15-05-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) abi Posted: at 15-05-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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chrisphemy at 16-05-2010 02:36 AM (13 years ago) (m) no,not without me Posted: at 16-05-2010 02:36 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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dickman2 at 11-06-2012 04:30 PM (11 years ago) (m) why not .. Posted: at 11-06-2012 04:30 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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dickman2 at 11-06-2012 04:31 PM (11 years ago) (m) why not .. Posted: at 11-06-2012 04:31 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-06-2012 04:33 PM (11 years ago) (f) Okies Posted: at 11-06-2012 04:33 PM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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Stocks at 4-07-2012 06:44 PM (11 years ago) (m) What will she be looking for in a club? The club is not a place for couples who truly want to succeed in marriage. Posted: at 4-07-2012 06:44 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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