Should married women go clubbing? (Page 7)

Quote from: federallevel on 28-04-2010 08:50 AM

Quote from: OB3ICE on 28-04-2010 07:10 AM

I was wondering, what makes it right for a married man to go clubbin alone, but not the woman. I think its time we start shedding some of these mentalities with which we suppress women. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. In marriage, there's equality, and not a master- servant relationship. If you dont want your wife to club alone, why dont you try not clubbin alone? It just makes absolutely no sense that we claim to be champions in morals yet we suppress the women just cos they're the so called weaker sex. The wife is not a housegirl, neither is she a child brought to the man for guidance. She is the co head of the family. 

pple like u weh de talk like this na dem de divorce their wife if dem see her with another man, wether dem do something or not. man talk like African

I dont know what you mean by asking me to talk like an African. I'm an African and I dont think I'm talking like a European. If you mean I should speak in the archaic manner which has been holding Africans captive for centuries, sorry, I've refused to let that mentality hold me down. What makes it right for the married man to go clubbin but not the woman? I believe that in marriage, the man and his wife are equal and have been vested with the responsibility of raising a family and being role models for their kids. If you wont want your wife to do it, then dont do it. Personally, I believe that any man that cheats on his wife has no right to complain when she does the same. 

---

Posted: at 28-04-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 28-04-2010 03:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

I dey come

Posted: at 28-04-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

me i fit go alone but she no go fit go if i no go,abi she don get anoda person wey dem 2 dey parole,she go tel me wen she come back but definitely no be 2 my own house sha o o o

Posted: at 28-04-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

well it's all about trust, clubbing isn't bad,but alot of bad activities can go on there. we should also know dat in a club we are at liberty, so i would say clubbing isn't bad infact it might rekindle some life within the marriage but the couples should have developed trust for each other, trust to say no wen things are going rough and trust to know  there limits and extent of fun each can go.
ile anthony

Posted: at 28-04-2010 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

;Dnofin do una.make una go yoriyori.

Posted: at 28-04-2010 09:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

strolling

---

Posted: at 28-04-2010 09:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I dont know what you mean by asking me to talk like an African. I'm an African and I dont think I'm talking like a European. If you mean I should speak in the archaic manner which has been holding Africans captive for centuries, sorry, I've refused to let that mentality hold me down. What makes it right for the married man to go clubbin but not the woman? I believe that in marriage, the man and his wife are equal and have been vested with the responsibility of raising a family and being role models for their kids. If you wont want your wife to do it, then dont do it. Personally, I believe that any man that cheats on his wife has no right to complain when she does the same.  U SPOKE WELL BROTHER ,,,,,, I LIKE CLUBIN ,MY WOMAN IS WELL ABOUT IT ...I HAVE TRY MY POSSIBLE MIS TO FORCE HER BUT SHE REFUSED SHE  NOT WILLIN AT ALL WHAT CAN I DO ,,,,IF SHE CAN GO CLUB WITH ME  COULD MORE BETTER I LIKE IT  
 

Posted: at 28-04-2010 10:30 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

I dont see any thing wrong with it so far there is trust in the marriage. I have been married for 6years going to seven and i club my hubby let me because there is trust and most of all God is the head of our marriage i dont see any reason not to club once in a whale.

Posted: at 29-04-2010 12:29 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

@devid75, if she doesnt want to club, dont force her. As long as she's cool with you clubbin, no shit. Just dont overdo it.

---

Posted: at 29-04-2010 01:06 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac