Why You Do It?

I GUESS IT HAS 2 DO WITH UNDERDEVELOPED PSYCHE,A MATURED MIND IS STABLE AND DOESNT WAVER. AGAIN, D AFRICAN SOCIETY BELIEVES IN COMMUNALISM. SO MY MAMA TALK SAY MY FATHER TELL MY UNCLE SAY MY SISTER , NEPHEW AND AUNT TELL MY BROTHER SAY MY FRIENDS SAY, SAY! SAY! SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 28-04-2010 06:02 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Above all shld include maturity dt ll enable u 2 knw whts gud 4 u amidst any situation.

Posted: at 28-04-2010 11:13 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

i don tire...i fit come bak come answa

Posted: at 29-04-2010 09:09 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 29-04-2010 11:35 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

you have to listen to every person because nobody is alone on earth............

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Posted: at 29-04-2010 11:42 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Family definitely were there before the relationship and know me well enuf to at least guess what I can live with happily and what could rob me of peace and happiness. Friends know me too.

Maybe it's not envy. Matter of fact it's not always envy. Sometimes it's love and concern for my welfare.

Truth is everyone else can't be wrong and only U right unless God is evidently on Ur side. if they say she's a cheat, it's worth investigating. if they say she's not good enuf for me, that's for me to re-evaluate.

At the end of the day, love myt be said to be blind so sometimes it pay to listen to those that are seeing and decide what u will do.

Posted: at 29-04-2010 04:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

onche..y do u lyk making ur answers longtins..wel its stil make sense

Posted: at 29-04-2010 04:46 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well in your case family was there. In my case no family was there for him when I met him. Within six months he moved inside my house. My father told me to run him but my mother told me to give him a chance. There were persons who told him that persons of my calibre is only using him and that I don't want him. To counteract this I placed him into a business then family members started coming out from all angle. At that moment I never loved him but I cared for him. He started getting sick and I see to it that he go to the doctor and get his medical assistance. One of the doctors told him to go and do the HIV test which he never did. After two years in the relationship I applied for life insurance and get the news that am HIV positive. I spend 3 more years with him it is during this time I started loving him. I lost everything after 5yrs with him. During this time he listened to his family members and started treating me bad. This is when I cried out to God and I went back home.

Now he sees me and he is asking me to marry him even his mother is pleading to me to marry him. I left him in 2008 November. I saw him last week Wednesday he look so bad but I turned my back on him. All I was fighting for he never sees it. He went through my money has if it was water. My business that I opened after losing my shop he sawed it has nothing because his family told him that it is not his. So instead of working together with me he steal from it.

With all he done I still forgive him. Some times the devil will tempted me to go and look for him and I draw for NP. The Lord has taken me from there and I know I will not survived this time if I should go back here.

Yes you might right that it might not be envy it was just the devil. They all know that he was infected and they keep their mouth shut. Experiences that allowed me to look at live more differently.

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Posted: at 29-04-2010 05:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i dnt no... cos most of them do make lots of sense..but u can stil try shortening dem..no wahala na_

Posted: at 29-04-2010 05:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u like shortins

Posted: at 29-04-2010 06:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac