Am so confuse

I discovered dat...... am no longer inlove with my boyfriend.is not dat there another guy,just dont ave feelings 4 him anymore. dont kno hw 2 tell him cos he such a nice guy.what can i do? needs serious advice.

Posted: at 5-05-2010 01:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

hmmmm, coming..........

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Posted: at 5-05-2010 01:33 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It do happen as such in sum relationships....Guess u shud try rekindle d 'luv' u once felt 4 him,if diz is not possible,then u got no option dan 2 tell him politely....

Posted: at 5-05-2010 05:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Sometimes the what draw the individual to us after a while it wear off. What you should do is sit him down and discuss it with him. Sometimes what we think was love weren't but a strong sense of attraction. Takia

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Posted: at 5-05-2010 06:33 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

See why "Nice" is the last thing I want a girl to describe me as? I'd rather get negative compliments than to be called nice by a girl anyday sef.

Anyway, This chic, wetin dey do U U never talk am. It's possible Ur guy is no longer in-love with u sef and maybe in his case he has found a new girl gingering him up with fresh and newer love than U could ever give. Now I've given u something to think about, breaking up with him shouldn't be so hard for U. At least u'd probably do it before the other guy shows up... if he hasnt already.

Sarcasm over; Have U tried talking to him bout the wilted feelings? Have U searched urself to check for what has changed? Do U still love him and does he love U despite the fact Ur feelings of being in love aren't there anymore? When U were going into a relationship with him what were U hoping to have? Is it possible U've explored all U had in mind to explore in being involved with him? Is there anything disturbing U or unsettling Ur emotions that have nothing to do with him?

Ask Urself questions cos the person whose advice Ur most likely going to take is U. Abeg try no do stupid thing make us guys for dey still feel like say girls dey wey still get head. If U must break up with him do it with Ur respect in tact.

Posted: at 5-05-2010 09:06 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Absence that makes a heart grow fonder is not the kind obtainable on this kind of break. If U want to break up just break up and stop confusing Urself and other people. If a girl asks U for a break by all means take it that there is an "up" to it and get on with Ur life cos oftentimes she only want's to eat her cake and have it. Not let go of what she has till she gets what she myt feel is better.

It's good U said U don't think he'll understand cos he knows for sure what he'l mean if he suggested a break and the girl would ardly ever be certain what she's even saying in such a situation.

relationship no be by force.

Posted: at 5-05-2010 09:25 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

It's a simple task.
Call him and tell him u are no longer interested.
Only fools die because of love...

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Posted: at 5-05-2010 02:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It's hard but just do it ok.

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Posted: at 5-05-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 5-05-2010 05:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac