Ok first let's start off with a few things and cover some bases:
1. Cheating is bad.. I don't care if your male or female or what your other did to you etc.
2. Before you read this you should know.. I don't cheat.. but damn... Do I wish I had in some cases.... More on this in a bit.
Ok, so I've been reading and talking and discussing and doing some research into the more realistic reasons for why men cheat... the more grounded ones really. But all in all there is only 1 I can think of for why we would and since I don't cheat and I find my self going you know... after thinking about this reason... Yea I can say it's true and is probably the #1 reason.
Basically it's fairly simple. All of us men have been in relationships repeatedly some ended well others not so well etc. Something I find common in my own life as well as others I've talked to is that when your loyal to a woman, 80% of the time, she leaves. Now now.. Before you go off just let me finish....
Personally in my own life I do not find it difficult to say no, however more and more and the woman count stacks up from women who start a relationship and then leave increases I find myself asking why? Why am I being loyal?
I mean When I'm with someone.. and I have no idea why, but really.. and I mean really Hot women always want me. Or rather want to screw I suppose is a better way to put it. Me being me I always find some excuse to say no, or turn them down. because I don't believe in cheating on someone your with. But.. every time without fail I ahve done this the woman leaves within a week or 2, 100% every single time.
So i find myself going... Why the f**k am I being loyal to women when there is an 80% - 90% chance shes not going to stay with me? Why am I turning down these fine a** women... For a woman who in a week or soo will be banging someother dude not even thinking about me remotely?
After thinking about this.. I find myself going... Why didn't I f**k those women.. and why should I care about some woman whos going to leave in 2 weeks? Or even bother trying to? I mean the prospect is nice and all, but it hasn't exactly gotten me anywhere except single and I've passed up a lot of fine ass... No offense meant.
I think.... that this.. is why men cheat. because they do not believe women are worth the investment when there is an 80% - 90% chance they will just leave. So the guy just f**ks the other chick and when there GF finds out and leaves the mentality is. well she was going to anyway at least I got some a** out of the deal...
I may sound like an a**hole saying that.. who knows.. But I seriously... seriously... have come to that conclusion as the simplest reson for it. And you know what the woman may stay with them, and the guy may not cheat once he sees she will. But I think for most men, that 10% chance she might stay... and I say "Might". Isn't worth turning down that big titted fine woman rubbing up on you....
That's my theory... and Sadly.. I find myself beggining to ask myself the same questions. as I said I don't cheat and before this realization I was like a**hole to anyone who did... but now.. I'm more like... well if women wouldn't change boyfriends like they change shoes maybe they wouldn't get cheated on so much.
Please note that I am sure many men would cheat anyway and do. I just think that thoughts like that are what causes the first instance of it. And I mean, If I have learned anything from experience to say about it and it wasn't against what I consider my code of honor... hell.. I'd probably do it for that reason too. God knows I'd like too.
But yea.. there you go ladies that's what I think is the #1 reason men cheat on you all.
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