Woman Claims Pastor Charmed Her For Marriage (Page 4)

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Posted: at 10-06-2010 02:51 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

HELLO ALL

Posted: at 11-06-2010 06:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

We do not have the pastors pictures to see if he has tattoo as well.  Her problem may be that she is mentally slow.  See the turtle she is wearing.  It tends to symbolize slow movement.

She did come for a job interview and was hired.  She was working, but the pastor was very intelligent.  Before payment time, he was able to seduce her and got her to work for free for seven years,  and got sex for free for seven years.  Later he married her and they lived together.  The pastor was wrong to marry two wives.  He is supposed to be a husband to one wife.  The pastor should have known better.  The girl was the one deceived just like Eve was deceived, but not Adam because God told Adam about the forbidden fruit.  The pastor knows the rules.  A pastor should be husband to one wife.
 

Posted: at 11-06-2010 07:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The pastor never told the young lady that he was married.  You can look at a scenario where she is working and expecting a pay cheque.  The pastor tries to get into her pants, she refuses.  He offers marriage, she accepts.  She marries him, works with him for seven years and then come to find out that he is married.  She obviously feels charmed because things that she may have noticed she failed to notice until it was too late.
 

Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Pastors who are true to his religion will do this remember there are alot of fake pastors around. I still believe that there was no charmed in this relationship. This girl saw what appears to be an opportunity and she grasped it. What I don't understand is it that for the 7yrs her eyes never open to the fact that he has another woman and children. Both of them are running the school together why didn't she accompany him on one of his many trips to Benin. Is it that the charmed has just be lift. There are too many holes in this story. When a person charmed you and you are finally with them after one year or so he/she doesn't bother continued with it. Why is it that after 7yrs the first wife is now putting a presence in the school community. Wasn't she curious to know who washed and cooked for her husband while he is away from her. What about the children don't they called the Pastor. Are she telling me for the 7yrs she never ever picked up his phone and a strange voice asking "May I speak with Daddy?'.

Is it that she has never seen a letter from the sponsors who would want to meet her since she is one of the partners who is making the school a success. During the 7yrs she never curious to want to also know the sponsors as well. How can one be managing a school for seven yrs and never collected a dime. How do she purchase clothes etc for herself?

Kanye I have an inquisitive mind. It is only when I don't care for a person I don't go the extra mile to investigate about him. I spent 2yrs and couple months with Norris never even looking at him. Yes I lived with him but I saw him as someone whom am sharing house space with and when I wanted little sex I turned to him. Yes when he is sick I see that he has money to go to the doctor. Which he never follow upon. I leave him alone. It was 6mths before our 3yr I saw a little man walking up on down the business district I called him over at the wholesale I was managing and asked him what he is doing. He told me he was an Insurance Agent.  My mother's death was still in my mind and so I applied for a coverage. Couple weeks after I was told I am HIV Positive that is when I started caring for Norris. 2yrs and couple mths later God took me from his clutches.

Because I was inquisitive I was able to know that something was living in my body that I know nothing about. This is why am astonished at this lady admonishment that she has been living with this man for 7yrs and know nothing about his first wife and children. Was she wearing blinkers. Is it that she never cared for this man to want to know the life he was living before he becomes a pastor. The Nigerian am in love with I stay here in Jamaica and find ways to investigate him out right there in Nigeria. Yet she is telling me that she lived with him for 7yrs and know nothing about this pastor and his life.

I hope the pastor will come and tell his side of the story. I also hope that young ladies will learn from these mistakes that others make as well. Persons mistakes are not for us to criticized and dissect but to learn from.

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Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

is it because the pastor does not want you again and wants to keep all that both of you labored for that you are accusing him of using juju on you? What do you want the court to convict him of now? Is it the use of juju on you or for dumping you? I will suggest that since you have discovered that he charmed you to marry him and you have now realized yourself, it is my advice that you run as much as your legs can carry you and make do with what is left with the remaining part of your life before the juju will finally kill you.

Posted: at 12-06-2010 04:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@ksurrina - I was married to a Benin man.  I had a child with him.  Meanwhile, in Benin he had four wives, and I did not know about it.  I was naive.  I was very trusting.  I believed everything he told me.  I found his charms one day and I flushed them in the toilet and everything was revealed.  A lot of Nigerian girls are well raised.  They obey the man.  They accept everything the man says.  It happens all the time.    Not all Nigerian men are like that though, but it does happen.

Posted: at 13-06-2010 08:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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