pal please why be say this days marriage no dey last, may b the husband go divorce in wife or d wife go divource in husband.even some couples wey u dey look say na good couple them be blf u know dey don divource please i want to get point wey dey cause am.Please no insult
Posted: at 3-06-2010 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 3-06-2010 01:28 PM (13 years ago) (f)
My take on this:.........People want angels for partners, therefore each one presents him/herself as one. Intending couples hide their weaknesses and try as much to present their strengths.....Now after the wedding has taken place, each partner relaxes and begins to show his/her weaknesses....If only we make our partners know that we arent after angels/saints, if only we make our partners know that we accept them just as they are, if only we are confident enough to show our weaknesses without fear of loosing that person then we will have less divorce!.....
Bottom line, no one is without fault, but dont look out for the weaknesses in your partner, rather accept him/her just the way he/she is!........dats my humble take on this!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 3-06-2010 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
My take on this:.........People want angels for partners, therefore each one presents him/herself as one. Intending couples hide their weaknesses and try as much to present their strengths.....Now after the wedding has taken place, each partner relaxes and begins to show his/her weaknesses....If only we make our partners know that we arent after angels/saints, if only we make our partners know that we accept them just as they are, if only we are confident enough to show our weaknesses without fear of loosing that person then we will have less divorce!.....
Bottom line, no one is without fault, but dont look out for the weaknesses in your partner, rather accept him/her just the way he/she is!........dats my humble take on this!
ok ma,when i see my patner i will put all this in practice
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY
Posted: at 3-06-2010 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
divineproject at 3-06-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mallorca on 3-06-2010 01:43 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 3-06-2010 01:28 PM
My take on this:.........People want angels for partners, therefore each one presents him/herself as one. Intending couples hide their weaknesses and try as much to present their strengths.....Now after the wedding has taken place, each partner relaxes and begins to show his/her weaknesses....If only we make our partners know that we arent after angels/saints, if only we make our partners know that we accept them just as they are, if only we are confident enough to show our weaknesses without fear of loosing that person then we will have less divorce!.....
Bottom line, no one is without fault, but dont look out for the weaknesses in your partner, rather accept him/her just the way he/she is!........dats my humble take on this!
ok ma,when i see my patner i will put all this in practice
LOL, are you still searching???.....
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 3-06-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
If really couples have understanding before marriage they will learn to live as husband and wife, but if it based on make-belief then the marriage would collapse.
Posted: at 3-06-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
My take on this:.........People want angels for partners, therefore each one presents him/herself as one. Intending couples hide their weaknesses and try as much to present their strengths.....Now after the wedding has taken place, each partner relaxes and begins to show his/her weaknesses....If only we make our partners know that we arent after angels/saints, if only we make our partners know that we accept them just as they are, if only we are confident enough to show our weaknesses without fear of loosing that person then we will have less divorce!.....
Bottom line, no one is without fault, but dont look out for the weaknesses in your partner, rather accept him/her just the way he/she is!........dats my humble take on this!
ok ma,when i see my patner i will put all this in practice
LOL, are you still searching???.....
i will inbox you my answer to avoid community clash here
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY
Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
qunodinga at 3-06-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Divorce is not from God... if partners hide their weaknesses just to get trap in marriage then, they are getting the concept and plan of God toward marriage wrongly..........there are blessings attached to marriage.....''...a good thing and favor from God'' as long as u stay faithful wit this....this sign shall follow u.......But then, if not get ready for His wrath...
Posted: at 3-06-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
pal please why be say this days marriage no dey last, may b the husband go divorce in wife or d wife go divource in husband.even some couples wey u dey look say na good couple them be blf u know dey don divource please i want to get point wey dey cause am.Please no insult
Simple, most Nigerians Marry out of Necessity
Marriage should be about Companionship; get married to the person yu know yur Heart agrees with, not for any other silly reason
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 3-06-2010 09:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
pal please why be say this days marriage no dey last, may b the husband go divorce in wife or d wife go divource in husband.even some couples wey u dey look say na good couple them be blf u know dey don divource please i want to get point wey dey cause am.Please no insult
it's as a result of lack of tolerance. .... there has never bn anything like a perfect couple or perfect marriage... that's why i always wonder when i heard ppl talking about waiting for mr/miss right.... all that marriages of today need is for those involve to have tolerance and respect for the other.
everyone has his/her own short-comings but we can only get things to work only when we begin to sincerely respect and tolerate each other.
Posted: at 3-06-2010 11:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
pal please why be say this days marriage no dey last, may b the husband go divorce in wife or d wife go divource in husband.even some couples wey u dey look say na good couple them be blf u know dey don divource please i want to get point wey dey cause am.Please no insult
Simple, most Nigerians Marry out of Necessity
Marriage should be about Companionship; get married to the person yu know yur Heart agrees with, not for any other silly reason
kenne have spoken
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY
Posted: at 3-06-2010 11:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero