"I Cheated On My Husband With A Work Colleague" - Nigerian Woman Reveals

Published 1 month ago by: CLARA JANCITA
at 12:39 PM, 22/05/2019 (1 month ago)

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A woman has revealed how she cheated on her husband who has been very caring to her.

A Nigerian woman has shared a rather betraying experience how she cheated on her husband with an office colleague and now she cannot stop.
Revealing about the matter, she wrote:
"I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had s-x in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sx with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do."

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amasan1 at 01:17 PM, 22/05/2019 (1 month ago)
(2286 | Gistmaniac) Online (m)

I guess you don't really love your husband, if you do, you will not be craving to have the experience again. Ask for forgiveness from God and try to avoid contact with that man. Moreover, the image of sexy, tall and attractive man should be deleted. As regards telling your man, hummn ...,

dopygenius at 03:45 PM, 22/05/2019 (1 month ago)
(1266 | Gistmaniac) (m)

Madam ride on... life is too short to live in pain and agony, if u die now u will not enjoy the sex u ought to enjoy... I guess ur husband is a geek  Grin
Dantesque at 09:38 PM, 22/05/2019 (1 month ago)
(34 | Newbie) (m)

early grave madam.. stop the act while you can..
tonyigho at 01:34 AM, 23/05/2019 (1 month ago)
(1659 | Gistmaniac) Online (m)

Don't do what will put you and your family in shame woman, bliv me if u continue like this, one day u will be expose and disgrace, so you better stop it now.
tonyigho at 01:34 AM, 23/05/2019 (1 month ago)
(1659 | Gistmaniac) Online (m)

Don't do what will put you and your family in shame woman, bliv me if u continue like this, one day u will be expose and disgrace, so you better stop it now.
Gguard at 11:48 AM, 23/05/2019 (1 month ago)
(117 | Upcoming) (m)

Those things done to you by that guy can be done to you by your husband, ı just see a marriage without open communication here. Tell your man what you want and how you want it in bed and how not getting it makes you feel bad and see a lion on your bed soon. help your man be in the shape you want if still you don't love him or feel satisfied then divorce him before you get disgraced.


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