Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! We?Hard,my dear! Nothing is too hard if we put our minds to it.....the men can come around if only we play our role well!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! We?Hard,my dear! Too easy to give up and I don't like that? | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case! Sure I do act like wherever I am__Just that I am bored when Ladies make me feel that its my DUTY and guys call that HABIT WOMAN WRAPPER---and i dislike that! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! We?Hard,my dear! Nothing is too hard if we put our minds to it.....the men can come around if only we play our role well! WAITING FOR YOU TO TAKE THE LEAD---IN YOUR ROLE AS A GOOD HOUSE WIFE | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! Lazy woman---always want to be petted like a child even wen you are a mother? I sorry for you? Well, dont judge me based on that..........That I encourage that does not mean I demand for it.......besides this project is not a mother yet and you dont have to be sorry for her........I work hard and I deserve some petting sometimes...yea! 
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! We?Hard,my dear! Nothing is too hard if we put our minds to it.....the men can come around if only we play our role well! WAITING FOR YOU TO TAKE THE LEAD---IN YOUR ROLE AS A GOOD HOUSE WIFE hehehehehe, u are assuming too much my dear..........I never start the role yet!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 05:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! Lazy woman---always want to be petted like a child even wen you are a mother? I sorry for you? Well, dont judge me based on that..........That I encourage that does not mean I demand for it.......besides this project is not a mother yet and you dont have to be sorry for her........I work hard and I deserve some petting sometimes...yea! Of Course I am not judging cos The Bible is against it? I was just INSINUATING... I said it___you see? You still want me to pet you after all the sermon | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case! Sure I do act like wherever I am__Just that I am bored when Ladies make me feel that its my DUTY and guys call that HABIT WOMAN WRAPPER---and i dislike that! But it is your duty! If men want to be men,then should act like men should do! Again, Mr.Google can help you with the definition of "man"!But the old, elaborated one!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! Then we need make sure it doesnt die finally! We?Hard,my dear! Nothing is too hard if we put our minds to it.....the men can come around if only we play our role well! WAITING FOR YOU TO TAKE THE LEAD---IN YOUR ROLE AS A GOOD HOUSE WIFE hehehehehe, u are assuming too much my dear..........I never start the role yet! I know say you never start!....I too Have not STARTED | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case! Sure I do act like wherever I am__Just that I am bored when Ladies make me feel that its my DUTY and guys call that HABIT WOMAN WRAPPER---and i dislike that! But it is your duty! If men want to be men,then should act like men should do! Again, Mr.Google can help you with the definition of "man"!But the old, elaborated one! There you go again! ITS NOT MY DUTY! This is the main reason Why CHIVALRY is gonna be dead in Naija so long you ladies cannot think and stop seeing it as our DUTY! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case! Sure I do act like wherever I am__Just that I am bored when Ladies make me feel that its my DUTY and guys call that HABIT WOMAN WRAPPER---and i dislike that! But it is your duty! If men want to be men,then should act like men should do! Again, Mr.Google can help you with the definition of "man"!But the old, elaborated one! There you go again! ITS NOT MY DUTY! This is the main reason Why CHIVALRY is gonna be dead in Naija so long you ladies cannot think and stop seeing it as our DUTY! We'll stop seeing it as your duty,when you'll start seeing us as your equals in everything! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "aliaaz") aliaaz at 12-06-2010 06:27 PM (13 years ago)  (m) Lolz
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in  ;) | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case! Sure I do act like wherever I am__Just that I am bored when Ladies make me feel that its my DUTY and guys call that HABIT WOMAN WRAPPER---and i dislike that! But it is your duty! If men want to be men,then should act like men should do! Again, Mr.Google can help you with the definition of "man"!But the old, elaborated one! There you go again! ITS NOT MY DUTY! This is the main reason Why CHIVALRY is gonna be dead in Naija so long you ladies cannot think and stop seeing it as our DUTY! We'll stop seeing it as your duty,when you'll start seeing us as your equals in everything! You are not our EQUAL and can never be? Cos GOD has CREATED a MAN to RULE OVER A WOMAN and a WOMAN to be a SUBJECT UNTO the MAN__The Earlier you get that into your head the better for you | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Not Important cos WE ARE IN NAIJA__I guess she can open the car door by herself after courtship
So guys should be nice and gentle only during courtship? So....after that they should act as some jerks? As poster said,the chivalry maybe is not dead YET,but it's surely in a deep coma!!! WE guys don't act as jerk after courtship---I think most ladies later behave as if its our right so We are trying to tell them that there is nothing wrong with them opening the door for themselves just as we do open for ourselves---Don't get me wrong I am a total gentle man---but that does not make me foolish If you say that you are a total gentleman, than act like one,always ! But first google the world "gentleman ",just in case! Sure I do act like wherever I am__Just that I am bored when Ladies make me feel that its my DUTY and guys call that HABIT WOMAN WRAPPER---and i dislike that! But it is your duty! If men want to be men,then should act like men should do! Again, Mr.Google can help you with the definition of "man"!But the old, elaborated one! There you go again! ITS NOT MY DUTY! This is the main reason Why CHIVALRY is gonna be dead in Naija so long you ladies cannot think and stop seeing it as our DUTY! We'll stop seeing it as your duty,when you'll start seeing us as your equals in everything! You are not our EQUAL and can never be? Cos GOD has CREATED a MAN to RULE OVER A WOMAN and a WOMAN to be a SUBJECT UNTO the MAN__The Earlier you get that into your head the better for you You must adjust your views according with nowadays world! As about me,I'll never be ruled by any man!And who loves me knows that very well and from love and respect, he doesn't have any problem with that! And trust me,he's a real intelligent man!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-06-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ceejay58") ceejay58 at 12-06-2010 11:24 PM (13 years ago) (m)  | Posted: at 12-06-2010 11:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Bittersweet, There is an Old saying that goes: "Never Argue With A Fool, For A Fool Will Always Be A Fool Even When He Knows He Is Being Foolish!" Men with such Chauvinistic, Antiquated Beliefs that Women don't deserve to be pampered or as Moneyinbrakemi put it "petted" are suffering from a lack of affection and no doubt LOVE. Psychologically there is a HUGE DISCONNECT as evidenced by what he is preaching. Probably if you delve back into his childhood Love, Affection, etc was absent from his home. He was more than likely raised in a home where his mother was treated Brutishly like Property by his father. Hugs, Kisses, and Natural acts of affection probably weren't discussed, exercised or even an option. So with an individual like this who is devoid of reasoning and subscribes to an antiquated backward mentality you can only TRY to educate him and PRAY that he stops reading the BIBLE UPSIDE DOWN and truly understand what the BIBLE teaches about LOVE and also that WOMEN aren't property to be kicked and slapped around. If he is married which I sincerely DOUBT then I pity the poor lady (Shaking my head). I really feel sorry for guys like that though, one day the light bulb will turn on though. | Posted: at 13-06-2010 03:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Bittersweet, There is an Old saying that goes: "Never Argue With A Fool, For A Fool Will Always Be A Fool Even When He Knows He Is Being Foolish!" Men with such Chauvinistic, Antiquated Beliefs that Women don't deserve to be pampered or as Moneyinbrakemi put it "petted" are suffering from a lack of affection and no doubt LOVE. Psychologically there is a HUGE DISCONNECT as evidenced by what he is preaching. Probably if you delve back into his childhood Love, Affection, etc was absent from his home. He was more than likely raised in a home where his mother was treated Brutishly like Property by his father. Hugs, Kisses, and Natural acts of affection probably weren't discussed, exercised or even an option. So with an individual like this who is devoid of reasoning and subscribes to an antiquated backward mentality you can only TRY to educate him and PRAY that he stops reading the BIBLE UPSIDE DOWN and truly understand what the BIBLE teaches about LOVE and also that WOMEN aren't property to be kicked and slapped around. If he is married which I sincerely DOUBT then I pity the poor lady (Shaking my head). I really feel sorry for guys like that though, one day the light bulb will turn on though.
Unfortunately, ppls mentally can't be changed easily!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 13-06-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 13-06-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) (m) This is bullshit. The man is supposed to be gentle and caring, but he's also got to be realistic. This is naija, and our women most often dont appreciate these gestures cos they're not used to them.
I'm very very very tempted to agree not with U. The girls either think Ur a wuss when U do open doors for them or assume it's more of their right that U do so than a gesture. Some girls too are just nt used to it and hanging out with them could feel awkward. U open the door and they just wont love them selves enough to walk thru before U; at the end U start having one of those "U-go-first; No-U-go-first" moments. | Posted: at 13-06-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "aliaaz") aliaaz at 13-06-2010 12:16 PM (13 years ago) (m) This is bullshit. The man is supposed to be gentle and caring, but he's also got to be realistic. This is naija, and our women most often dont appreciate these gestures cos they're not used to them.
I'm very very very tempted to agree not with U. The girls either think Ur a wuss when U do open doors for them or assume it's more of their right that U do so than a gesture. Some girls too are just nt used to it and hanging out with them could feel awkward. U open the door and they just wont love them selves enough to walk thru before U; at the end U start having one of those "U-go-first; No-U-go-first" moments. The bottom waz kind of funny, bt tanks for ur contri...
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;) | Posted: at 13-06-2010 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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