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Quote from: wunzie on 9-06-2010 11:31 PM Well, it’s a difficult scenario but men must learn to reconcile themselves with such side effects of pregnancy. This is even more important in view of the fact that there was no complaint when the seed was being planted. I am sorry if am not coming up with practical suggestions as is expected. However, I do think that if a man is not ready for the negative aspect of pregnancy, he should not even attempt lovemaking without condom. It gets really funny when men complain about these things, yet they are smiling and behaving like teenagers when they are about to make love. Finally, the contributions on the topic have been quite educative and would no doubt be useful to me in the future. On a lighter note, maybe I might not actually need to make use of the suggestions because I will expect the man whom I’m carrying his baby to be able to stick to the ‘indignities’ of cleaning my vomit and emptying the saliva bottle if I happen to find myself in this situation. So what if he turns out to be a different person from the person he promised to be. What if he totally avoids U and changes his attitude towards U and tries to pretend noting has changed? U can say what U can do and prepare to do it but can never be sure what the other person can and will do nor for how long they will keep doing it. It's not every woman that nauseates in pregnancy by the way.
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reading! ReplyA LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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Good girl! Reply
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LOL.......... ReplyA LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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@Agabs, that story wey u drop for me for the other page I no read am, but i guess U were making sense? Reply
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if u read am how u take know say it make sense. Reply
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The guy dey make sense sometimes. I'm giving him the benefit of doubt. Reply
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Abi na vote of confidence. Reply
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Quote from: onchedu on 8-06-2010 07:43 AM Gentlemen in the house this is for U. It's not about sex or Bosom s or shaving or not shaving the pubic hair and it's not about wet or dry pleasure holes, blowjobs or licking (abi sucking) kitties. It's about caring for the woman U love. Here goes: U just got married to the woman of Ur dreams and on Ur honeymoon that lasted a month, U scored a goal (heck U could have scored 10 goals if nature let U). The sex was fun as was the love making. U both had tons of pure FUN and bonded on a more intimate level. U came back home more in love with her as she more than she is with U. A month after she breaks the news to U that she's got Ur bun in her oven and U do the celebration dances and spurge on her. Three months in and U get to discover a part of Ur wife neither U nor her anticipated. Her body isnt taking the pregnancy very well. She's spitting constantly and throws up all over the place and most times ur around when she does this. The question is, loving her as much as U do, how easily would U clean up after her if U would at all? Personally I think most guys would just adjust their schedules to make sure they aren't at home as often as they would be normally. Ladies, how would U wade thru this rather unexpected development? Just wondering. Hmm, is a very tight corner issue here.. But like i always have in mind and believe what Love is all about is making the imperfect to be perfect, also do to others what u want them to return to u. I will even love her more, try to make her not to look down on herself becos of the situation.. maybe there could be a medical solution to that. One need another to sharpen some blockd edges in life.. We should all rememeber that women are like a wrapped gift atimes, what u will unwrapp will not be what u expected.. but life must go on with them around. they make our world most intresting, beautiful and warm place for mankind. DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
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Correct man! If I hail U too much now na gay dem go call me; Like sy dem no dey see why U deserve the hailing. ReplyGod give U correct wife jor!
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Thank u broo. I hail u as well. ReplyMay God grant us all, our heart desire !! DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
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Quote from: agabs on 9-06-2010 09:54 PM Quote from: onchedu on 9-06-2010 08:24 AM Quote from: agabs on 8-06-2010 05:26 PM What happened to the extended family structure? What happened to your sisters and her sisters? What happened to your cousins and her cousins? What happened to your nephews? What happened to family? How does one stay with just a wife and an empty house? We shouldn't discard the extended family structure for the white mans new age family structure. More so that it leaves daughters unprotected and sons untethered. Well, I guess to those of us who have been drunk before, puke aint nothing. It is just something u clean up and you move on. Ha aha ha aha ha ahahah. Ever been drunk? Ever puked on yourself? Ever had a drunk friend puke his intestines out? As for the spitting, do pregnant women go about spitting every chance they get? Do they? I don't think pregnant women walk around the house spitting every chance they get. I know they feel nauseated some times, but, it is not like they walk around spitting like goats walk around dropping. And I am quite sure, there will be some thing safe out there that reduces the urge to spit. I think a guy should be more scared of the tantrums and extreme unreasonableness that pregnant women display. As for me am plane scared of pregnant women. Imagine there is something inside you growing. I dont even want to be near you. In fact make we no sleep for the same bed. What if my hand mistakenly hit you for stomach. In fact I dont want to have anything to do with you till the baby has started walking. No man should be forced to be so careful. Me think me will have to see a psychologist cause I shudder when near pregnant women and am scared of holding babies. It requires such gentility that is alien to my genes. NA GOD. Obviously U and I don't have the same ideals of the unit called family. U want to import trouble in the name of family because U and Ur wife are handicapped shey. Personally I'd like to keep my family nuclear. It's my wife and our kids that will live in our home, anyone else will be passing thru. Maybe Ur folks had a better experience with the extended baggage? Cleaning Ur puke is one thing. Cleaning someone elses puke is something else. Heck If I have to puke and I'm not bed ridden I make sure I do it in a no-need-to-clean zone like in the toilet or outside where I can just flush or cover it up. One man's meat sha. As for Ur talk on preggy women walking round spitting trust me there are some that do spit intermittently and more frequently than others and some that don't spit at all. Dem no dey write am for face. U made some points about the emotional demands and psychological ups and downs and that being a bigger issue. Some of us would rather that than the throwing up and spitting. I HATE spitting that much. Anyway, I wish U tha best. Mr. Ochendu, I think you have a wrong definition of family. I think you do. Hmn hmn hmnnnnn!! Afridca is blessed for I am her product. Amen. I wonder if I shouldn't transfer this discuss to a time that my soul can write in the presence of calm. Never my feelings, I must give us - at least - some questions for rumination. And why shouldn't I? Why? I would rather not questions for our discuss, but, statements and their inherent questions. ======= Maybe Ur folks had a better experience with the extended baggage? ======= Baggage? It wasn't baggage. It was education. I could write a book on your so scorned 'extended Family baggage'. Note the capitalization of the "f" in the last sentence. ======= Cleaning Ur puke is one thing. Cleaning someone elses puke is something else. Heck If I have to puke and I'm not bed ridden I make sure I do it in a no-need-to-clean zone like in the toilet or outside where I can just flush or cover it up. ======= Man is dust. True or False? Your dust was nutured by your mum or foster mum as the case may have been. Your are just a particle in the eternal anomaly or appropriation called our world. Can I use appropriate when things are appropriate? Forget the question. Sir, have you ever been drunk? If you have then you know that cleaning your own puke is not like cleaning your puke. For, we can argue that you puke is not yours. We can see that your puke is that of an irresponsible person. As we say on the streets of Naija, "Bros, no give me that yarns". It reeks of 'self-centredness'. I 4give u though, cause I have read some of your lines. I must admit that you have something upstairs. Nevertheless, I think you haven't been in the straits of drunkenness or slept on the beds of vagabonds. ======= As for Ur talk on preggy women walking round spitting trust me there are some that do spit intermittently and more frequently than others and some that don't spit at all. ======= Sir, I just visited http://www.merriam-webster.com/netdict/intermittentwww.meriam-webster The excerpt below is from there. -------excerpt begins----------- Main Entry: in·ter·mit·tent Pronunciation: \-ˈmi-tənt\ Function: adjective Etymology: Latin intermittent-, intermittens, present participle of intermittere Date: 1601 : coming and going at intervals : not continuous <intermittent rain>; also : occasional <intermittent trips abroad> — in·ter·mit·tent·ly adverb ---------excerpt ends------------- Sir, Mr Onchendu, it describes the word u used. No woman can spit continously. I believe that no human is capable of that. We are just sand and water. So, we can use a stop watch to monitor a pregnant women. And I dont think pregnant women loose their will. Will can be encouraged and will can be strengthened. A pregnant woman's spittle is manageable. And I believe that to be withing any confines of rationale. I believe a pregnant woman's spittle is manageable. Sir, did you have any classmates that are girls vomit from malaria fever in primary school? Sir, what the phyuk is vomit? It is every where. And Sir, u know that. I think that you just think that you can not handle spittle. And you know and I know that when confronted with that hiss you would handle it nicely. Ha ha aha ha aha ha!!!!!!! ======= Anyway, I wish U tha best. ======= Sir, Thanks for wishing me the best. Thanks. However, I am a slave to our universe. What seems hurts. It hurts that I can not fight with our universe. I can only tango with her. ========================= Rhetorical and ricocheting thoughts. Discard please. Discard. Sweet Rain. Sweet Rain. When do I tango with her? I hate this mood. I hate this mood. Data every where. Data every where. I am just a man. @Naijapals, it was nice sharing my thoughts with u. It was nice. I must exercise my freedom. Good night. lollzz, Agabs the newspaper man, or shld i say the article writer , u don come abi with all these ur long essays, u no go wound person for here oo , abeg eyes dey pain me, i no fit read those ur words in red, and even this one, i will av to take a 1 day casual leave in office , so that i will av a free day to read this. anyway thx for conbtributing, ur contribution is highly appreciated. 
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Quote from: onchedu on 9-06-2010 05:04 PM Quote from: Dupsyexotic on 9-06-2010 04:30 PM wu no like ur comments ? pls continue to do wat you knw hw to do best, even if the majority doesnt like ur comments, definitely we, minority like ur comments. and of course, this is a social site where u see lots of pple from different backgrounds and cultures, so its normal to see such pple with diferrent orientation, so dont be perturbed by their behaviours, thats just a reflection of their upbringing. and another thin, a lot of pple log on for differnt reasons, some for fun, some to releif their stress, some to blab and while away their time, and some to talk and act as normal creatures, and some to act weird and funny. all in all , feel free and express urself without minding wat dey say. Oh no one can stop me from feeling fre to say things as I see them or as they are. Thanks a lot for Ur encouraging words. Ur a sweetheart. thx my dear, , its a pleasure 
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Quote from: aliaaz on 9-06-2010 10:02 PM i wan go sleep. shey na Agabs comment dey make sleep worri u ?
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Quote from: Mr-World on 9-06-2010 08:22 PM Quote from: Dupsyexotic on 9-06-2010 03:57 PM Quote from: onchedu on 9-06-2010 08:38 AM Mr. World, Sometimes I suspect U post comments just for the pleasure of seeing Ur name on every thread as the latest post. What is "hmmm?" Onche dear..... sorri im not holding brief for him or anyone, but, i think saying 'HMMMN" means that, u read the post or comment and it actually resulted in a deep thought. thats wen u see pple saying "hmmmn". well, me for instance, thats wen i say "hmmnn". so its possible for a comment to really touch me or give me a new deep insight , and i respond by saying "hmmmn'. so i dnt see snything wrong in dat. and for the topic, much av ben said by various pple here, im also learning a lot of ways to combat nausea and all that pregnancy related stuff, i think this topic is a really educative unlike some we av here wu post nonsense and consequently, make nonsensical comments . more grease to ur elbow. thanks dear u welcome, dont mention. 
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Mmmmm... Dupsy... 
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onche... Reply
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:"> :"> :"> ReplyWhy can't we blush here sef ehn?
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 9-06-2010 08:04 PM Quote from: Pires07 on 9-06-2010 05:24 PM Quote from: Skipo4u on 8-06-2010 08:07 AM Quote from: esonu on 8-06-2010 07:57 AM Quote from: Skipo4u on 8-06-2010 07:54 AM I disagree with u, personally i will av to be around her helping her doing one or two things she might not be able to do....she needs my attention more at that time and will definitely make myself available............ is easier said than done.. i know men, only 8 out of hundred will do that.. the highest thing they will do for u is to get u a maid ....how easily would U clean up after her if U would at all? i guess this was the question he asked the men ...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
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