Scenario III (Page 9)

Nah... I just gave thot to it cos I've seen different pregnant women react to pregnacy in their own ways and I just want to get tips on how to manage the downsides and keep attraction intact.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Naaaaaaaaa, it is more power to his elbow........hehehe

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Posted: at 9-06-2010 04:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

wu no like ur comments ?  pls continue to do wat you knw hw to do best,  even if the majority doesnt like ur comments, definitely we, minority like  ur comments.   and of course, this  is a social site where u  see lots of pple from different backgrounds and cultures, so its normal to see such pple with diferrent orientation,  so dont be perturbed by their behaviours, thats  just a reflection of their upbringing.
and another thin, a lot of pple log on for differnt reasons,   some  for fun,  some to releif their stress, some to blab and while away their time, and some to talk and act as normal creatures, and some  to act weird and  funny.
all in all ,  feel free and express urself without minding wat dey say.
 

Posted: at 9-06-2010 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Oh no one can stop me from feeling fre to say things as I see them or as they are. Thanks a lot for Ur encouraging words. Ur a sweetheart.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i'm with you bro, tho it irritates me when ppl spit around unnecessarily but i have no option than to adapt and learn to live with it. she's my wife, shey na me put in the *** wey dey make her spit around, i have to dance to the tune of the music for 9months after that i'll consider if i can face the same Scenario for another 9months again.

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Posted: at 9-06-2010 05:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanks dear

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Posted: at 9-06-2010 08:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Mr. Ochendu, I think you have a wrong definition of family. I think you do. Hmn hmn hmnnnnn!! Afridca is blessed for I am her product. Amen.

I wonder if I shouldn't transfer this discuss to a time that my soul can write in the presence of calm. Never my feelings, I must give us - at least - some questions for rumination. And why shouldn't I? Why?

I would rather not questions for our discuss, but, statements and their inherent questions.

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Maybe Ur folks had a better experience with the extended baggage?
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Baggage? It wasn't baggage. It was education. I could write a book on your so scorned 'extended Family baggage'. Note the capitalization of the "f" in the last sentence.

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Cleaning Ur puke is one thing. Cleaning someone elses puke is something else. Heck If I have to puke and I'm not bed ridden I make sure I do it in a no-need-to-clean zone like in the toilet or outside where I can just flush or cover it up.
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Man is dust. True or False? Your dust was nutured by your mum or foster mum as the case may have been. Your are just a particle in the eternal anomaly or appropriation called our world. Can I use appropriate when things are appropriate? Forget the question.
Sir, have you ever been drunk? If you have then you know that cleaning your own puke is not like cleaning your puke. For, we can argue that you puke is not yours. We can see that your puke is that of an irresponsible person. As we say on the streets of Naija, "Bros, no give me that yarns". It reeks of 'self-centredness'. I 4give u though, cause I have read some of your lines. I must admit that you have something upstairs. Nevertheless, I think you haven't been in the straits of drunkenness or slept on the beds of vagabonds.

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As for Ur talk on preggy women walking round spitting trust me there are some that do spit intermittently and more frequently than others and some that don't spit at all.
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Sir, I just visited http://www.merriam-webster.com/netdict/intermittentwww.meriam-webster
The excerpt below is from there.

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Main Entry: in·ter·mit·tent
Pronunciation: \-ˈmi-tənt\
Function: adjective
Etymology: Latin intermittent-, intermittens, present participle of intermittere
Date: 1601

: coming and going at intervals : not continuous <intermittent rain>; also : occasional <intermittent trips abroad>

— in·ter·mit·tent·ly adverb
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Sir, Mr Onchendu, it describes the word u used. No woman can spit continously. I believe that no human is capable of that.
We are just sand and water. So, we can use a stop watch to monitor a pregnant women. And I dont think pregnant women loose their will. Will can be encouraged and will can be strengthened. A pregnant woman's spittle is manageable. And I believe that to be withing any confines of rationale. I believe a pregnant woman's spittle is manageable.

Sir, did you have any classmates that are girls vomit from malaria fever in primary school? Sir, what the phyuk is vomit? It is every where. And Sir, u know that. I think that you just think that you can not handle spittle. And you know and I know that when confronted with that hiss you would handle it nicely. Ha ha aha ha aha ha!!!!!!!

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Anyway, I wish U tha best.
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Sir, Thanks for wishing me the best. Thanks. However, I am a slave to our universe. What seems hurts. It hurts that I can not fight with our universe. I can only tango with her.

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Rhetorical and ricocheting  thoughts. Discard please. Discard. Sweet Rain. Sweet Rain. When do I tango with her? I hate this mood. I hate this mood. Data every where. Data every where. I am just a man.



@Naijapals, it was nice sharing my thoughts with u. It was nice. I must exercise my freedom.  Good night.

Posted: at 9-06-2010 09:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i wan go sleep.

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Posted: at 9-06-2010 10:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 9-06-2010 11:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well, it’s a difficult scenario but men must learn to reconcile themselves with such side effects of pregnancy.  This is even more important in view of the fact that there was no complaint when the seed was being planted. I am sorry if am not coming up with practical suggestions as is expected.  However, I do think that if a man is not ready for the negative aspect of pregnancy, he should not even attempt lovemaking without condom. It gets really funny when men complain about these things, yet they are smiling and behaving like teenagers when they are about to make love. 

Finally, the contributions on the topic have been quite educative and would no doubt be useful to me in the future. On a lighter note, maybe I might not actually need to make use of the suggestions because I will expect the man whom I’m carrying his baby to be able to stick to the ‘indignities’ of cleaning my vomit and emptying the saliva bottle if I happen to find myself in this situation. 

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Posted: at 9-06-2010 11:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac