If You Want A Relationship/Marriage That Is Successful*.
1. Grow together.
Pray together, study together, fast together, grow together, it is a form of bonding. Many times when I'm on a journey, waiting on the Lord for more than 7days, no food and she said I go with you, we saw scriptures together, we share revelation together, we'll hold hands together, we'll do thing together, it is a time of bonding. But when you have a man that is so spiritual and a wife that is so natural, then calamity is around the corner. Spirituality in the man and carnality in the woman, equals calamity in the home.
2. Understand your partner.
Jacob slept with somebody from night till morning and did not know who she was. It was in the morning he realised that it was not Rachael but Leah. Many men are married to women they don't know and many women are married to men they don't know. You saw money and married money, you don't know the man. You saw face and you married beauty, you don't know who is behind the face.
I saw a Music minister who married someone who is also a Music minister after two weeks of marriage and he cried pastor I didn't know she was like this, I thought she was more spiritual than this.. Oh Lord!
Know who you are marrying to. My wife knows when to come in and when to stop at the door. You know the likes and the dislikes.. You know where to trigger the flames to affect the person positively... Understand who you are marrying to!.
3. Lubricate your relationship with communication.
There are many times I'm not in the mood to talk or maybe praying. Despite my busy schedule, I still call her often and here is one of the message I sent to her:
.......just thinking of you and how much of a gift you are to my life and ministry. Also, the authenticity of your Christianity. I saw the passion about 26years ago and asked you to pray in the spirit for one hour. That favor is still there, well done, keep it up. I love you and I'm there for you Becky. ......
How do you think she would feel? You think that text will be deleted from her phone? Every marriage is service by communication.
| Posted: at | |
Baye77
TRENDING GISTS 
Nigerian Man Who Hates Cake, Celebrates Birthday With Bread, Butter, And Akara
Banner Calling Out "Home Wrecker" With Her Face & Work Place Display On Plastered By A Roadside
How Bandits Storm Kaduna Community In Fresh Attack, Killed 23 Persons
Mother Who Admitted Smothering Her 2month Old Baby To Death With Pillow While High On Meth Is Found Not Guilty
I Wish They'll Bring Back Those Days When Men Will Go To War And Never Return - Woman Blows Hot
Controversial Singer, Portable Celebrates Wife, Bewaji On Her Birthday, Shares Lovely Photos
Is It Normal For A Man To Wash His Partner's Pant? - Actor Adeniyi Johnson Asks