Is marriage in the 21st century toxic to women? (Page 2)

Date: 05-07-2010 12:55 pm (13 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- erikaakpan at 5-07-2010 08:48 PM (13 years ago)
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i have no probs wit being married

Posted: at 5-07-2010 08:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nice9ija at 5-07-2010 09:10 PM (13 years ago)
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i don"t care for me i must get marred and have many kids
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 5-07-2010 09:12 PM (13 years ago)
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@nice how many kids u want?

Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eddybabs at 5-07-2010 09:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-07-2010 09:12 PM
@nice how many kids u want?

how r u babe?? how u doing??
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 5-07-2010 09:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-07-2010 12:55 PM
Yes, say many. My friends (especially women) from around the world are constantly SAYING "marriage is dying," and that living together is "so much better." Sure it's true that around the world more people are living together than are married. Is IT  also true that married women are less successful, more depressed, less healthy and more likely to die a violent death than single women.

HOW TRUE IS THIS?

Pster none of the above is accurate, we can't deny marriage unless we dont want to get married. Those women are insecure or they are too demanding...bsides this is a new era like u said, most of this ladies are too demandin on their choice of man. U c after involvin yourself in a Romantic Fade r/ship, u will end up wearing fears all the time b4 u knw it, time as gone...let go your fears and face your life, marriage is not a contract but a honorable gift from God, thats y the enemies are always attackin cos once marriage is not a failure, this fearing ladies mkin excuses  dupicating the wrong pics abt marriage.
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 5-07-2010 09:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eddybabs on  5-07-2010 09:18 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-07-2010 09:12 PM
@nice how many kids u want?

how r u babe?? how u doing??

hey sugah...im good...how r u?

Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eddybabs at 5-07-2010 09:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-07-2010 09:29 PM
Quote from: eddybabs on  5-07-2010 09:18 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on  5-07-2010 09:12 PM
@nice how many kids u want?

how r u babe?? how u doing??

hey sugah...im good...how r u?

am good.... longest time.............
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nice9ija at 5-07-2010 09:37 PM (13 years ago)
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i want 2 kids only if u don"t mind can we???
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 5-07-2010 09:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on  5-07-2010 09:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-07-2010 12:55 PM
Yes, say many. My friends (especially women) from around the world are constantly SAYING "marriage is dying," and that living together is "so much better." Sure it's true that around the world more people are living together than are married. Is IT  also true that married women are less successful, more depressed, less healthy and more likely to die a violent death than single women.

HOW TRUE IS THIS?

Pster none of the above is accurate, we can't deny marriage unless we dont want to get married. Those women are insecure or they are too demanding...bsides this is a new era like u said, most of this ladies are too demandin on their choice of man. U c after involvin yourself in a Romantic Fade r/ship, u will end up wearing fears all the time b4 u knw it, time as gone...let go your fears and face your life, marriage is not a contract but a honorable gift from God, thats y the enemies are always attackin cos once marriage is not a failure, this fearing ladies mkin excuses  dupicating the wrong pics abt marriage.


This is Splendid
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 5-07-2010 09:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 05:23 PM
Well,in most of the marriages, men are waiting to be pleased all the time, too many compromises which women
must do, all kind of blackmails ,financial and also emotional!It's like Stockholm syndrome!
Do women really want  to depend on someone's decisions and trade their  freedom and peace for a social status?



 Huh?
Is this another name for marriage?
Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 5-07-2010 09:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 09:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 05:23 PM
Well,in most of the marriages, men are waiting to be pleased all the time, too many compromises which women
must do, all kind of blackmails ,financial and also emotional!It's like Stockholm syndrome!
Do women really want  to depend on someone's decisions and trade their  freedom and peace for a social status?



 Huh?
Is this another name for marriage?

Some are getting married only for changing their social status,yes!
Marriage is really a complicated and delicate thing!
Some are feeling better out!
If both parts will stop to be so demanding, then they start to give willingly, and there their love would flow,
but how many ppl are doing this?

Posted: at 5-07-2010 09:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 5-07-2010 10:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 09:42 PM
Quote from: Beauti4 on  5-07-2010 09:25 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-07-2010 12:55 PM
Yes, say many. My friends (especially women) from around the world are constantly SAYING "marriage is dying," and that living together is "so much better." Sure it's true that around the world more people are living together than are married. Is IT  also true that married women are less successful, more depressed, less healthy and more likely to die a violent death than single women.

HOW TRUE IS THIS?

Pster none of the above is accurate, we can't deny marriage unless we dont want to get married. Those women are insecure or they are too demanding...bsides this is a new era like u said, most of this ladies are too demandin on their choice of man. U c after involvin yourself in a Romantic Fade r/ship, u will end up wearing fears all the time b4 u knw it, time as gone...let go your fears and face your life, marriage is not a contract but a honorable gift from God, thats y the enemies are always attackin cos once marriage is not a failure, this fearing ladies mkin excuses  dupicating the wrong pics abt marriage.


This is Splendid

THank u dear....
Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- handsomeemmy1 at 5-07-2010 10:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Marriage is fast becoming a curse because most people don't marry because of the love but for their selfish aims thereby marrying the wrong person, wealth etc

Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 5-07-2010 10:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 09:51 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 09:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 05:23 PM
Well,in most of the marriages, men are waiting to be pleased all the time, too many compromises which women
must do, all kind of blackmails ,financial and also emotional!It's like Stockholm syndrome!
Do women really want  to depend on someone's decisions and trade their  freedom and peace for a social status?



 Huh?
Is this another name for marriage?

Some are getting married only for changing their social status,yes!
Marriage is really a complicated and delicate thing!
Some are feeling better out!
If both parts will stop to be so demanding, then they start to give willingly, and there their love would flow,
but how many ppl are doing this?



But u said in most marriages, that men are waiting to be pleased
and all that...does it mean, its only men who are demanding?
prove me wrong pls, if i'm begining to think that ur views abt
marriage is nothing but enslaving a woman
Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 5-07-2010 10:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nice9ija on  5-07-2010 09:37 PM
i want 2 kids only if u don"t mind can we???

u wan me to give u 2 kids? looool

Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 5-07-2010 10:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 10:39 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 09:51 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 09:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 05:23 PM
Well,in most of the marriages, men are waiting to be pleased all the time, too many compromises which women
must do, all kind of blackmails ,financial and also emotional!It's like Stockholm syndrome!
Do women really want  to depend on someone's decisions and trade their  freedom and peace for a social status?



 Huh?
Is this another name for marriage?

Some are getting married only for changing their social status,yes!
Marriage is really a complicated and delicate thing!
Some are feeling better out!
If both parts will stop to be so demanding, then they start to give willingly, and there their love would flow,
but how many ppl are doing this?



But u said in most marriages, that men are waiting to be pleased
and all that...does it mean, its only men who are demanding?
prove me wrong pls, if i'm begining to think that ur views abt
marriage is nothing but enslaving a woman


u no see her name..bittersweet  Tongue

Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- erikaakpan at 5-07-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- austineok at 5-07-2010 10:47 PM (13 years ago)
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1.Most ladies are infidelity dat why they feard marriage.
2.Husband material are scare.
Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- misshelly at 5-07-2010 10:50 PM (13 years ago)
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maybe in a third world is more or less an unrealistic drama, but here in western world, is kind of a great idea, then the man has his own space, and the lady too, cus they are both working, no one has to stress the other of therir responsibility od being the weaker patner and so on.......................

so i think it depends on where u are and how much responsibility u are handling at work and socially that varies the truth of this question
Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 5-07-2010 10:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 10:39 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 09:51 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  5-07-2010 09:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-07-2010 05:23 PM
Well,in most of the marriages, men are waiting to be pleased all the time, too many compromises which women
must do, all kind of blackmails ,financial and also emotional!It's like Stockholm syndrome!
Do women really want  to depend on someone's decisions and trade their  freedom and peace for a social status?



 Huh?
Is this another name for marriage?

Some are getting married only for changing their social status,yes!
Marriage is really a complicated and delicate thing!
Some are feeling better out!
If both parts will stop to be so demanding, then they start to give willingly, and there their love would flow,
but how many ppl are doing this?



But u said in most marriages, that men are waiting to be pleased
and all that...does it mean, its only men who are demanding?
prove me wrong pls, if i'm begining to think that ur views abt
marriage is nothing but enslaving a woman


Well,I've seen many cases where the women swallow their pride just to please their men!
That's really pathologic!
I've said that in my first post,because the topic was referring to the women,but in my 2nd post I've admitted that
both parts are so,and that's worsen the things!
Well, that slavery you were talking about, it's still happening, and it breaks my heart when I see couples like that!
But there are also happy marriages, when the things are really working great,but both of them see the things in the
same way,and even if I know u'll not agree, they treat each others as equals, a real team, and not as a master and a slave!

Posted: at 5-07-2010 10:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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