Is marriage in the 21st century toxic to women? (Page 5)

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Posted: at 6-07-2010 05:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You got me a little wrong!
Sometimes it's good to let him make some decisions, because that absolve u of responsibilities, and
if that makes him feel much more man,even better!
But I was referring to those guys who are demanding in that, and don't even take in consideration to
listen what their woman has to say!
Those women who can stand such an attitude from a man,they turned themselves in their servants!
Do you think I don't know how to make a man to feel a real man? Don't doubt that,but I also must feel that he
respects my feelings and my way of judgement! And if doesn't agree with me,he has patience to make me see
his reasons! Nobody takes orders from nobody! And we give to each other because we Want to, not because we
Have to! There is a difference!
Everyone has their pair in this world! And that person understands and respects your way of reasoning!

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Posted: at 6-07-2010 05:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

slow down ladies so that life ana agaga

Posted: at 6-07-2010 06:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 6-07-2010 08:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Let me tell you a story why the marriage can be toxic for some women!
In the building I live, there is a couple, she's 42 and he's 44 years old;they are married for 10 years already ,but they
lived together another 2 years before getting married.
They don't have children, because she couldn't remain pregnant, so are they alone.
In that couple you can see the humiliation itself! That human is dying slowly!
She's working too,even more than him,as a pharmacist, but she has turned herself in his slave!
When he comes home,if there's something in his car which must be brought inside, he'll enter the house empty handed
and he'll send her to carry it!
If there's some heavy things which must be bought from the market, she'll carry them home, by walking, even if
he has a car!
He comes home and goes directly on the couch with a snack, while ordering her to bring him his drinks!
If his beer will finish, he'll send her right away to the market to buy some more!
If there will run out of money, they almost don't talk,like would be her fault or something!
There's happening that kind of blackmail I was talking about some time ago: financial and especially emotional!
You can see on her face that she's miserable,and nobody understands why doesn't stop all that!
How could I respect such a man?But u know what's funny? He respects me a lot,because he knows how I really
am,but still no changes towards his wife!
These kind of couples let me a bitter taste, and make me stand even more on my principles!

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Posted: at 6-07-2010 08:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

     Well said my dear

Posted: at 7-07-2010 03:09 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@ bitter...yea ok maybe tht is a bit too much

But do u know if d woman is rily unhappy ? cuz i know many women who cud do d same without complaining !

Posted: at 7-07-2010 08:30 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Married man is talking

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Posted: at 7-07-2010 08:34 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

for couples only.

hehehehehehehee

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Posted: at 7-07-2010 08:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmm

Posted: at 7-07-2010 08:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac