Is marriage in the 21st century toxic to women? (Page 9)

Date: 05-07-2010 12:55 pm (14 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- Skipo4u at 8-07-2010 11:53 PM (14 years ago)
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i dey follow you go your crib
Posted: at 8-07-2010 11:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 9-07-2010 12:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Etibee on  8-07-2010 12:45 PM
There comes a time in the life every man and woman that there is this feeling of emptiness without a partner.  We may not be sincere if we say life as a single is the sweetest.  A man and a woman (even in lower animals) is divine and natural. Agreed there are challenges in marriage just like any relationship but we can make it work through proper communication, sincerity, compromise (very important) etc.  Any live-in-relationship between a man and a woman has no spiritual commitment hence is a case of "Live Goes On"


Good one pops
talkin from xperience
Posted: at 9-07-2010 12:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Skipo4u at 9-07-2010 12:23 AM (14 years ago)
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yes
Posted: at 9-07-2010 12:23 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SpankingJoe at 9-07-2010 08:00 AM (14 years ago)
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NOt TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Man and woman were created to COMPLEMENT ech other. Its just as one contributor said "Things are on their head now". We have abandoned norms and abnormalities are now accepted as norms. I have been married for 4 years now and those 4 years are the happiest of my life (The same goes for my wifey). We both work, are committed to each other, the relationship and our kids.

The first person in your life as a married person is your spouse. If such committment and dedication is there..........................my brothers and sisters, you'll know happiness beyond bounds. Pls note: there will be challenges but as you might know, marriage is a union of 2 good forgivers................the challenges no matter how grievious will be surmountable.

Let me stop here for now but please note, one of the best things God gave us as humans is MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 9-07-2010 08:00 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 9-07-2010 08:27 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Etibee on  8-07-2010 12:45 PM
There comes a time in the life every man and woman that there is this feeling of emptiness without a partner.  We may not be sincere if we say life as a single is the sweetest.  A man and a woman (even in lower animals) is divine and natural. Agreed there are challenges in marriage just like any relationship but we can make it work through proper communication, sincerity, compromise (very important) etc.  Any live-in-relationship between a man and a woman has no spiritual commitment hence is a case of "Live Goes On"

thanks pupsy...
Posted: at 9-07-2010 08:27 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hotguy77 at 9-07-2010 09:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Understanding and sacrifice are the key issues
Posted: at 9-07-2010 09:00 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- adakuvv at 9-07-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Marriage is very sweet and good, though i am not yet married but i hv  people who are married, the way they where enjoying themselves and being happy when ever they are together is worth getting into that institution. that does not mean that, there will be no issueses atimes even brothers and sisters do have some issueses atimes.
The only problem is the way we choose the person we will marry, depends on the out come of the marriage.
many people marry becouse of money and beauty(material things) with out checking whether the person is compatable to u,whether u can cop with the persons character and is the person who God want u to marry.
without is things u will not enjoy ur marriage.
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- Skipo4u at 9-07-2010 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: adakuvv on  9-07-2010 03:01 PM
Marriage is very sweet and good, though i am not yet married but i hv  people who are married, the way they where enjoying themselves and being happy when ever they are together is worth getting into that institution. that does not mean that, there will be no issueses atimes even brothers and sisters do have some issueses atimes.
The only problem is the way we choose the person we will marry, depends on the out come of the marriage.
many people marry becouse of money and beauty(material things) with out checking whether the person is compatable to u,whether u can cop with the persons character and is the person who God want u to marry.
without is things u will not enjoy ur marriage.
wat are u waiting for
Posted: at 9-07-2010 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- adaogbo at 10-07-2010 08:42 PM (14 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 10-07-2010 08:42 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- brightossy at 10-07-2010 09:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  5-07-2010 12:55 PM
Yes, say many. My friends (especially women) from around the world are constantly SAYING "marriage is dying," and that living together is "so much better." Sure it's true that around the world more people are living together than are married. Is IT  also true that married women are less successful, more depressed, less healthy and more likely to die a violent death than single women.

HOW TRUE IS THIS?
c ur head, so u wan pack go live with man?
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- Skipo4u at 11-07-2010 05:18 AM (14 years ago)
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ok
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- wilsonthompson at 11-07-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago)
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marriage is sweet , marriage is ordained by God , marriage is Gods institution ,marriage is a life time contract, those persons that are scared or that sees marriage as toxic are those persons that are not God fearing , they can not keep to the rules of marriage for their life time .Marriage has norms and values , you must keep to that norms and values for your marriage to be successful.
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- adaogbo at 11-07-2010 07:54 PM (14 years ago)
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ok sounds good
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- Skipo4u at 12-07-2010 06:01 AM (14 years ago)
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k
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- missKalu at 12-07-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago)
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learnin
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- sophiebaby at 12-07-2010 01:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wilsonthompson on 11-07-2010 01:29 PM
marriage is sweet , marriage is ordained by God , marriage is Gods institution ,marriage is a life time contract, those persons that are scared or that sees marriage as toxic are those persons that are not God fearing , they can not keep to the rules of marriage for their life time .Marriage has norms and values , you must keep to that norms and values for your marriage to be successful.

MARRIED MAN IS TALKING
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- blings_is_back at 12-07-2010 01:41 PM (14 years ago)
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misskalu abeg learn fast becos we go soon tie the knot
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- okoh1 at 12-07-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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What i believe is that women always want a sense of belonging, loving the idea that "this man is mine and me his". But the idea of feeling better in living together is shying away from ones responsibility and obligation to the devine institution that God ordane. Little wonder then that marriages or living together dont last long. As quickly as they are in, they are out searching. Its thieving what does not belong to one without doing the right thing, that is getting married properly. If one have the right motive and mindset, then one wouldn't think going against devine obligation feels better than doing the right thing. Its stealing. God do not bless such cohabiting.
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- blings_is_back at 12-07-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago)
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misskalu abeg learn fast becos we go soon tie the knot
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- xter at 12-07-2010 06:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Fasure u know if u marry osama u have to divorce peace
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