WHO IS TO BLAME

Date: 05-07-2010 6:34 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Adigun Titilayo
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- at 5-07-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago)
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i wonder what this world is turning into ......now that children we call babies turning to youth are the ones getting pregnant..........the rate of pregnancies among teenagers and youth is so rampant..........the unwanted pregnancy which actually lead to unwanted babies.......the so called babies will turn to nuisance that fill our community.....cos they have little or no care from their single parent............
so who are you to blame:
-the parent: wey no teach their child d way he/she would go & or not teaching dere child segxwality education
-the girl.....being deceived by guy or in love with sex
- or our guys in particular wey no dey keep their DICK for trouser..............
........the fact that you're not ready to become a parent....or have those diseases of sex with different partners outside marriage should be protected to avoid gnasting of teeth and HAD I KNOW I WOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT......


Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- eddybabs at 5-07-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago)
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se u don get bele ni??
Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 5-07-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago)
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blaming the gurl for not knowing when to go to bed with a guy to avoid unwanted pregnancy

Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 5-07-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago)
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All!

Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 5-07-2010 06:40 PM (13 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Teeteeylaryor at 5-07-2010 06:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eddybabs on  5-07-2010 06:35 PM
se u don get bele ni??

bele for were.........no actually am just wondering what this generation is turning into......
cos today u will see ur junior dey carry baby.........tommorrow see your neighbour daughter don carry belle Shocked......
na wetin Sad

Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 5-07-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 5-07-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 5-07-2010 07:24 PM (13 years ago)
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well,maybe the parents tried to teach their daughter about sex but the child is to stubborn to listen to their parents.
they can't kill her.
i blame the boy and the girl.....

Posted: at 5-07-2010 07:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 5-07-2010 11:27 PM (13 years ago)
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AOTA

Posted: at 5-07-2010 11:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- imaiko at 5-07-2010 11:40 PM (13 years ago)
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self control
Posted: at 5-07-2010 11:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 6-07-2010 01:49 AM (13 years ago)
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it's really pathetic my sister..     but i believe there re so many factors involve.  from the home-front to the society....

parents whom their wards falls prey to such vices have failed themselves, they have failed God and then the world at large for failing to instill discipline in their children right from the very tender age... all most parents care about is their works and businesses. they don't make out time to be with their children, to know what they re going thru, or to know what kind of friends they keep. some parent don't have time 4 that. in fact i knew a mother who goes out as early as 5am. now that's b/4 her kids wake, she only come back home from her business late at night when the kids must have slept. u can imagine that.

and then the society, everyone now longs to emulate the western world, and even the so-called religious institutions re not really up to it anymore. the preachers want to tell their followers what they want to hear and not what God says.
our schools re nothing to write home about.. u 'll be shock when u visit most of our secondary schools, u 'll get to see so many students loitering about the school premises and some even walking about aimlessly along the streets during teaching hours, and the school authorities unable to do a thing about it... i bet u, most teachers 2day does not even know how many students they have in their classes.

and then the peer pressure too.  it's indeed a very disturbing development.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 6-07-2010 02:13 AM (13 years ago)
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@ceejay thank for the preaching
so who should we put the blame on?

Posted: at 6-07-2010 02:13 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 6-07-2010 02:24 AM (13 years ago)
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u of course..........  Wink Grin Lips Sealed
Posted: at 6-07-2010 02:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 6-07-2010 11:32 AM (13 years ago)
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I would put 70% of the blame at the feet of the parents/guardians who failed to teach their children/wards......20% at the feet of the gal who allowed herself to be the vehicle.........and the rest 10% upon the randy guys.........

Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- eagleseyez at 6-07-2010 11:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on  6-07-2010 01:49 AM
it's really pathetic my sister..     but i believe there re so many factors involve.  from the home-front to the society....

parents whom their wards falls prey to such vices have failed themselves, they have failed God and then the world at large for failing to instill discipline in their children right from the very tender age... all most parents care about is their works and businesses. they don't make out time to be with their children, to know what they re going thru, or to know what kind of friends they keep. some parent don't have time 4 that. in fact i knew a mother who goes out as early as 5am. now that's b/4 her kids wake, she only come back home from her business late at night when the kids must have slept. u can imagine that.

and then the society, everyone now longs to emulate the western world, and even the so-called religious institutions re not really up to it anymore. the preachers want to tell their followers what they want to hear and not what God says.
our schools re nothing to write home about.. u 'll be shock when u visit most of our secondary schools, u 'll get to see so many students loitering about the school premises and some even walking about aimlessly along the streets during teaching hours, and the school authorities unable to do a thing about it... i bet u, most teachers 2day does not even know how many students they have in their classes.

and then the peer pressure too.  it's indeed a very disturbing development.


Nice One Cj

In other words, the parents should be blamed most
inviting God in issues that concerns a childs Upbringing
is vital, but the parents effort towards this isssue is more
imperative
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- meczytimber at 8-07-2010 05:10 PM (13 years ago)
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blame nobody for the feelings,
the control is the issue, the girl ought to know when she is save to have sex or not
and if she misses that, then a pill can help

Posted: at 8-07-2010 05:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 8-07-2010 06:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on  6-07-2010 01:49 AM
it's really pathetic my sister..     but i believe there re so many factors involve.  from the home-front to the society....

parents whom their wards falls prey to such vices have failed themselves, they have failed God and then the world at large for failing to instill discipline in their children right from the very tender age... all most parents care about is their works and businesses. they don't make out time to be with their children, to know what they re going thru, or to know what kind of friends they keep. some parent don't have time 4 that. in fact i knew a mother who goes out as early as 5am. now that's b/4 her kids wake, she only come back home from her business late at night when the kids must have slept. u can imagine that.

and then the society, everyone now longs to emulate the western world, and even the so-called religious institutions re not really up to it anymore. the preachers want to tell their followers what they want to hear and not what God says.
our schools re nothing to write home about.. u 'll be shock when u visit most of our secondary schools, u 'll get to see so many students loitering about the school premises and some even walking about aimlessly along the streets during teaching hours, and the school authorities unable to do a thing about it... i bet u, most teachers 2day does not even know how many students they have in their classes.

and then the peer pressure too.  it's indeed a very disturbing development.

Damn CJ!!!!! i noticed that whenever u spent too much time in your hotel room, u never sanitize your views on some of the post on here. u must have been on vacation for weeks ooooo. take a look at what he jst said ooo.  Grin Wink
Posted: at 8-07-2010 06:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- lilsezy at 8-07-2010 06:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-07-2010 11:32 AM
I would put 70% of the blame at the feet of the parents/guardians who failed to teach their children/wards......20% at the feet of the gal who allowed herself to be the vehicle.........and the rest 10% upon the randy guys.........

how would u put blames on the parents... shey parent dey there when d gurl dey do am.... besides even if u give am sex education, she might end up doing her will.. so would u blame the parent?
Posted: at 8-07-2010 06:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 8-07-2010 07:04 PM (13 years ago)
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we should all blame the MEDIA...i was in Nig when they never kiss inside movies. they only offered friendly kiss. cos we can do anything bhind our parents scenes then comes home with fake attitude claimin to b the best.
Posted: at 8-07-2010 07:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- lilsezy at 8-07-2010 07:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on  8-07-2010 07:04 PM
we should all blame the MEDIA...i was in Nig when they never kiss inside movies. they only offered friendly kiss. cos we can do anything bhind our parents scenes then comes home with fake attitude claimin to b the best.


oh thank you ooo.. do we have to blame the parents now?
Posted: at 8-07-2010 07:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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