Why did peep marry when they know it will end at the Divorce Shop?

I know you will say, nobody knows what will happen. Yes, that is true, Do you know who your parents are before you were born? But you end up accepting them for whom they are!. Also before you write your comments, i will like you to think and know that, there is no marriage that is made from heaven, you meet, you love and then promise "your better or worse" scenario and later found out "This is not what i bargained for".
Marriage is like a wrapped gift, you do not know what is in the pack until you open it. You definitely accept what is in the pack, good gift or not. You will still say Thank you to the giver, then make the best use of the Gift. Same goes for marriages, you do not know who really that person is until you live together then you say thank you to God because He created that person who you do not know, what is inside him/her. I decided to write this when i read a write up about "What is Love" Truly you can't love someone and then wants to kill the person.

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Posted: at 7-07-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@Dinga...Marriage is fully made in heaven...those who quickly got marriage and divource after few yrs or months, did so cos of Romantic Fade. u all meet each other and all of a sudden the outta immage begin to fade away, thats when the man/lady would bgin to act naughty and u ll b thinkin oh mine... "i thought he loves me for me." And if the partners are not a Bholders they will never define the real gold in each other, they dont care about the gift of marriage like u said. Another aspect of this, is bcos they refuse to change the clubing, mama's boy/gurl, lack of maturity, etc... they say b my friend and i ll tell u who u really are. but hey, u've been inlove with some1 for yrs not knowin what he is capable of cos they dont want to open up, some are scare of heart breaks. but don't think that marriage can wipe away all your previous conflicts if u don't handle yourself b4 acceptin the gift of marriage. the only time this pple will finally knw each other, is by pettin your fingers under carpet, inside pots with this partner, thats when u will knw his/true color. but dear, Marriage is a heavenly gift, thats y the enemies seek to decree failure in some marriages cos there is no community, sch, churches, shopin centers, etc  without foundational marriage. But for those who divource after few yrs of marriage...they are too judgemental, immature, and guess what? marriage is the most educative gift any partners could ever wish for. Marriage is about helpin each other, is to change the imperfection of your partner into perfection. u two are hand-in-hands for each other. but this new era...u need prayers ooo.

Posted: at 7-07-2010 05:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

hmmmmmmn like u said, let me think well

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Posted: at 7-07-2010 06:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

@Dp, .. i think if peep enter marriage 2day and divorce 2moro just to pleased the world..meaning the Bible is just like a text book...?

Posted: at 8-07-2010 08:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanz dear for your contribution and explanations
In fact i admired those underline words you've showed.....

I wish to paste this above very high in the SKY,
painted with Gold for the world to see.

Posted: at 8-07-2010 08:32 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Marriage ought to be sacred, but alot of people have done otherwise and that is where the problem comes from. Without God in it, it is no marriage.

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Posted: at 8-07-2010 08:39 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@blessedme, NO No No...i wont agree with you
you so much love and admire this shoe..you go for it
but getting home you discovered it's not fitting as you wish..
then what is the next thing in your mind...GET the SHOE amended..
will you throw it away...NO..NO...NO

Posted: at 8-07-2010 08:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

No one has ever bargain for his family.....

Posted: at 8-07-2010 09:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Not everyone that is married are ought to be , marriage is for the weak.

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Posted: at 8-07-2010 09:18 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Meaning...........our parents are WEAK???

Posted: at 8-07-2010 09:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac